高情商聊天术 教你怎样与他人沟通

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1、谈笑自如才能够触动人的内心

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2、生产制造真真正正的聊天儿机遇

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3、学好花样称赞惹人爱

 haodechengzanyaozhenxinshiyi，fazineixin、dangran，bunengzhanqianguhou，fanerhuirangrenchanshengyanjuan。ciwaichengzanzuihaoyaolingbian、youhuayang，zaiweiwandemiaoshushihuigengyouxiandaigan。

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4、给另一方留有深刻的印象

 diyi：rangzijishuoyouqudehua，bianchengyouxiuderen；dier：yinjinlingyifangshuoguodehenyouzhanlvefangzhenhuozhehebierenbuyiyangdejianjie，zengjiagoutongjiaoliudekesuxing；disan：zaixiangxijieshaoshi，yaoxianxiangxijieshaoniyulingyifangdexiangtongdian。disi：buguanlingyifangshishenmeyangzideren，duizijiyouzixinxin，yongyuqujianghua。jianghuashiweilegenghaodimiaoshu，wulunniduirenhuiyouduomedezhenxinshiyi，jiarunibukeyishidudibiaoxianchulai，neiyezhongjiushixiamang。

5、交涉无法开展，引进第三方，把困局变活

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6、用聪慧还击“抵抗”

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 weichixiuyanghefengfanbujinshiweilegenghaodibucitenglingyifang，haikeyirangkanrenaoderenjiandaotazijizishenshigeruhederen，rangzishenzaizheigequanguochengzhongdedaoyizhongzishenzhongshi，jitarenliuyudi，yeshiweizijiliuyudi，shizhongbubibahuashuomeisheile，burandebuchangshi。

 jiyou！yongyuqubiaoshuzishen，rangtarenjiandaonideliangdian，ganshoudaonidefengcaisuoshu。richangshenghuoxiaorijipeiniyitongxuexipeixun、fazhan，rangninzhangkoujiunengqudechenggong！

bulunshizhuinvsheng，huoshiqiuyigehaodegongzuo，gaoqingshangdeliaotianquanshidajiabukehuoquedeyixiangzhuanyejineng。

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