避免尴尬情境 高情商聊天术

 gaoqingshangliaotianshuzhong，gaoqingshangliaotianhuashufanliyouhenduozhidexuexidedifang。yuyanbiaodanenglizuoweimiaoshuzijideyizhongfangfa，neimehuifayanjiuyuelaiyueyouweizhongyao；pingchangjiaowangdangzhong，shunjingyunijingdehuasheiquanshiyaoshuo；kedangyudaocuozheshi，zenyangqumiaoshuzijineixinsuogan，youranglingyifangtingqilaiwenxin，zheicaisuanshizhenzhenzhengzhengdenandian。jishishishoudaobeipan，yenenggaoqingshangmianduinanpengyouchugui。

 zaihebierengoutongjiaoliudezhuangkuangxia，meiyigerendouhenguanzhuziji，zheiyeshirendebenzhi。dajiadouaijiangzijidexiaogushi。jiranmeigerendoushineiban，neimejuedaduoshuderenjiufeichangrongyiduziyirenkankanertan，chedibuguanbugulingyifangdetihui。tangruonixiangyaochengweiyigeneixinqiangdaderen，neimejiuxuyaolingtingdebiyaoxing，yaojilibierenduotanziji。

1.不必有意展现自身

jiaruniyouyizaitayanxiaquzhanxianzishen，dengtongyuzaigentajiangxiabiandezheizhonghua：

 1、shijishangworenweinimeixihuanwo，wohaoxiangnikanyixiawoduomedededechuse，zheiyouyixiexiangquanshuotarendeganjue，liangxingguanxibicizhijianshibixuganjue，buyongkeguandequanshuo。

 2、wowufazaiwoshifenzhongaidenvshengyanxiahenzixinxindizuowofeichangpingshidezishen，yinweiwozijuedetabingbuhuixiaipingshidezisi。

3、yemeiyoushenmehemeinvxiangchudezhenshijingli，nihenyoukenengshiwobukeduodelejiedemeizhi。

4、woduizisiyisimeiyouanquangan，xinlingshenchuquefaanquangan。

 5、wobudongnvren，wobudongzenyangrangnvrenyuwoxiangchushihenshufu，henqingsong，henjiandan，zenmecainengrangtasatuo，rangtabuganjuedaoyouyiqiedegongzuoyali。

 nvxingnenggenjunidexingwei，yuyanbiaoda，yuqidengjianbiechunihoumianjutideyuyi，nijiushixiangyouqidezhanxianzisi，gengxianshiduomedededeyichang，nanshou，budangran，zheijiuzaiyulenimeiyoukeyinenggougenghaodizuohaoziji；baituolezisinishimeiyoubanfaxiyinnvxingde，yucitongshibiaominglezisimeiyouanquangandeyimian。

2.恰当的方法传达信息

 nidehuiying：“e……wojintiandachengditiezhanlaide，danwoyijingyaomaichele，wozuotianhaiqukanguoaodichea8，wobutaixiaifenqifukuanhaikuan，zhunbeidengxiaxingqineiyigetouzijijindeqianchulaihouyicixingjieqing……”

 qiadangdehuiying：“a？nvxingmiantianyidiandianhaobuhao？yunihaibingbushihenshu，dahuoerlianqindouhaimeiqinguo，wobingbushineimasuiyidebuqu”

 “xing，nijigefangmianzougaosuwoyixia，wonawoweiyideyijiazhishengfeijisongniba，zheiyangdehuakuaidianer，jiutingzaiwuding，jinjinzuoweiganenhuikui，nixianweiwochuichuibei。”

3.让她感觉你很有诱惑力

 gaoqingshangliaotianshuzhong，gaoqingshangliaotianhuashufanliyouhenduozhidexuexidedifang。zaidahuoerdierzhonghuiyingshiyizhongyiziwoweizhongxin，yisijiaoaozidadehuiyingfangfa，zhanxianchuleyigenanshengzixinxinheleguandexintai。zheijiushixiyinnvshengdebibukeshaodeyaosu，nvxingyejiushiduguonijianghuahoumiankandechunideqianzaixingdeyuyanshishenme，bingqiejianbieshijiweidejingque。

 dahuoeryeshuoguozhuyaobiaoxianzisiyidingyaoxiangnvxingjianjiedezhuyaobiaoxianzisi，rangnvxingwuyijianfajuenideshiyongjiazhizheicaisuanshizuigaojibiedefangfa。

 nanshengmeiquyouqishuashuai，zheiyangdehuazhiyouzaochengnvxingdeyanjuan，youqishidiyiciyuehuideshi，jiaoweifeichangrongyirangnvshengganjuenizhenhenhencha。

 fayanshiyimenzaoxingyishu，yuyanbiaodanenglishiyimenfeichangfuzadezaoxingyishu，meiyouzhiyi，tongyiduanhua，youshihuizhishang，youshibianhuanfayandefangshi，jirendetihuibianhuibuyiyang。tangruonikaishixuexizhihoujianjiandibianhuifaxian，niderichangrichangshenghuoyeshiyouyixiegenggai。yidian，erdian，sandian，zhongjiuyouyitiandaoshidian，bianhuichanshengzhidezhuanbian！

richangrichangshenghuo，dajiajingchangzhongaihemouxierenlaiwang，shiyinweihetamenjiaowangqilainengrangzijiganshoudaoqingsongzizai、gaoxing。

keshi，womenzijiquecongweixiangyiwangbianweineibanyiren，zheiqueshishiyigeshifenfeichangzhidezijisisuodezhuangkuang。

 yirenzaibierenshenhouzanyangta，huiyuelaiyuemeiyougonglixin，zheihuirangyijupingdanwuqidehuayuelaiyuegengweizhenxinshiyi、ganrenzhishen。xiangxinziji，bubirenweishenhoukuajiangrenburongyichuanrubeigaofangdeerduoli，tahuibinixiangxiangzhongdechuandisulvgengkuai！jishishishoudaobeipan，yenenggaoqingshangmianduinanpengyouchugui。