吵架会伤感情吗？

 fuqichaojiashihunyinshenghuozhongbukequeshaodeyifendiaoweiji。chaojiashijiejuewentideyizhongfangshi，buyijiejueweimudedechaojia，shiduiganqingdeyizhongxiaohaoheshanghai。neimechaojiahuishangganqingma、marenhuishangganqingma？suhuachangshuofuqichuangtouchaojiachuangweihe，fuqijiujingzenyangchaojiacainengbushangganqingni？

一、避免草率得出结论

 henduoshihouwomendoubei“diyiyinxiang”zuoyouzhewomenderenshihexiangfa。jishimingzhidedaodeshibuquedingdexinxi，renmenwangwanghuixuanzesishouzhezijidezuichupanduan。zheidaozhihenduorendouwufaconglingyigejiaodulaikanwenti。marenhuishangganqingma？mianduifuqijiandezhengzhiyeshiruci，ruguozhipingdiyiyinxiangercaolvdedechujielun，shuangfangjiuhennandachenggongshi。suoyidangnihelingyibanchuxianyijianbuhezhishishouxiangaosuziji，denglejielewentizhihouzaixiadinglun。

二、找出那些不确定的信息

 chaojiahuishangganqingma？ruguo“tayinggaizai10fenzhongqianjiuhuidaojia”dexiangfalingnihenqifen，tamenniziranhuixiangdaotazhiqianwanhuijiadesuoyoulieji，bingfuxianchu“tayinweihepengyouliaodejinxing、youbiedebukegaozhinidemimierbahuijiawangdeyiganerjing”zheigehuamian，zheizhihuirangnigengjiadeqifen。zheiyangxihuanshangganhaoma，zheishihuiburuhuixiangzhiqian，tayinweiyixiemeiyoubanfazhangkongdeyuanyinerhuijiawandeqingjing，shexiangqitanenggoubaorongdeyuanyin，zhishaonengrangnimenbimianyichangyexugenbenmeibiyaodezhengchao。

三、多从对方的角度想想

 ruguohuanzuoshini，nixuanzezheiyangzuodeliyouhuishishenmeni？biruweishenmehuichidao？weishenmebuxiangtongtaqucanjiapengyoudeshengripaidui？zheiyangxihuanshangganhaoma，buruhuanweisikaozaihunyinzhongshifendezhongyao。niyinggaimingbainimensuiranshiyijiaren，danshinimenchengzhangdejinglibutong、guandianziranhuicunzaifenqi。yexutashizairenduodechangherongyigandaojiaolv，yexutayouzhongyaodeshiqingmeiyouwancheng，dangnizheiyangxiangdeshihou，shuangfangdelijiehexinrenyegengshenleyiceng。

四、问问对方的想法

 tongchangqingkuangxia，womendouzaishiturangduifanglijiewomen，quechangchangwanglewenwenduifangxiangzenmezuo。nikenenghuiyizhiqiangdiaoneichangpaiduiduinidezhongyaoxing，danshiquewanglewentashifouxiangcanjia。huoxunidelingyiban，youyugongzuoshangdeyalierwufasuiniyitongqianwang，bingrenweininenglejie，buxuyaotashuoming。danshinimeimingbaizheiyidian，yizhijiuchanyuzhiqiandehuati，zheiyangzhihuirangduifangyuelaiyuejusang。