婚姻有始有终什么意思，离婚现象不是社会“负效应”

 womendouzhidao，“hunyinziyou”yiweizhebierenmeiyouquanligansheyigerendehunyinxuanze，yejiushishuo，meigerendouyouquanjuedinghesheijiehun。hunyinyoushiyouzhongshenmeyisi？

 raner，zheizhishi“hunyinziyou”qianbanbufenjieshishuo，ruguohunyinjiehun，biranhuiyoulihun，wanzhengde“hunyinziyou”jieshi，yincihaibaokuo-lihunziyou，jibunengjixutongjudefuqi，keyiziyouhefadilihun。

hefa，congrenhejiaodulaikan，tadoubuyinggaishishehuide“fuxiaoying”。

 raner，youxierenguanxinyigehuati。lihundenannvyuelaiyueduo，huibuhuiyingxiangshehui？“fumian”yingxiang？liru，tahuidongyaorenmendehunyinma？“zhuanyi，yongjiu”xinnian；huibuhuirangrenjuedehunyinzhixuyao？“cengjingyongyou”meibiyao“youshiyouzhong”dengdeng，dengdeng，dengdeng。

 renleicongyuanbianchengrenleihou，jinglileyuanshishehui、muxishizu、nulishehuihefengjianshehui；congyifuduoqizhidaoyifuyiqizhi；congminzuchengrendeqiyuehunyindaohefadehefafuqi，hunyinhelihunyizhishishuangbaotai。

 zaiyaoyuandejiushidai，meiyoulihunzhengming，xiuxideqiziyinggaixiexialai“xiushu”xiandairenlihunxiandairenlihun“xieyilihun”he“qisulihun”lihunzhengyouliangzhong，jihefajiechufuqiguanxideguanzheng。

 shehuiguliren“nandadanghunnvdadanghun”，shifougenggulirenmentigaojiatingshenghuozhiliang？jiatingshenghuozhiliangbaokuowuzhishangdefengfuhejingshenshangdeyuyue。ranhou，yiduifuqiyinweigezhongyuanyinwufashenghuo。hunyinyoushiyouzhongshenmeyisi？

 zhiyaotamenmeiyoujiatingbaoli、xiepohelihun，tamendouyuanyitongyilihun，zhaodaolingyiduifuqi。duiyuyixieputongdelihunnannvlaishuo，tamenyouduoshaojinglikeyiyingxiangshehuicengmian？

 haipalihunhuixiangganmaoyiyangganranbieren？ruguoniduinidehunyinbanlvhenizijimeiyouxinxin，zuihaoshiyizhikuailededanshengou。ciwai，daduoshuchengnianrenduihunyinshenghuodelijiedoulaiziyuchenjinshidejingli。

 dangnijiehunshi，nibuyidingrenweijianglaikenenghuilihun，danhunyinshenghuokeyirangrenmentiyanhunyindezhiliang。zheishiwoxiangyaodeshenghuo，zheibushiwoxiangxiangdeshenghuo，jixuhuolihun，zheiyangdexuanzekenenghuichuxianzaibutongdeshiqi。

 duiyujuwairenlaishuo，yiduikanqilaibucuodefufulihunle。chongqiliang，tamenzhishitanxi。e，yiduiwanmeidefufushizenmelihunde？meiyourenhuixiangmaoyiyangjiehun“mofang”，zheibuxiangshaoyipanhongshaorou。

 gebidemaodehongshaoroubitazijideshanghaihongshaorouhao。tashangmenzixun，huijiazuoleyigepanzi。zhijieledangdishuo，meigerendouzhidaolihunfufudouyoulihundeliyou。tamendehunyinnengfouchixuhenzhangshijianqujueyutamenziji、tamendeqizihuozhangfu。zheibushiyizhongqushi。meiyourenzhuiganta。

jiehun、lihun、zaihun，yipanjiaozibuchazheiyitousuan。

 hunyinyoushiyouzhongshenmeyisi？lihunfufurengranshishehuicaifudezhizaozheheshehuichilunbukefengedeyibufen。tamenmeiyoufanxiangzhidonghuonishuixingzhoudefanzuoyongli，yebuhuixiangshehuichukou“fuxiaoying”，yebuhuijizhouweiderenzhizaomafan，huozhechongdangmafan“fanmian”jiaocai。danxinyuelaiyueduodelihunnannvduishehuizaochengbuliangyingxiang，shibushitaidanxinle？