婚姻有始有终什么意思，有些婚姻从最开始就注定没有结果

 yiweiguanxihenhaodepengyoucengjinggaosuwo，taduihunyinchongmanlelangmandeganqing。zaitadeqianyishili，hunyinbixuyiaiweijichu，fouzetaningyuanyizhiduzishenghuo。hunyinyoushiyouzhongshenmeyisi？

 bujinshizheigepengyou，worenshidehenduorenyezheimeshuo。meigerendougengjiaguanzhuhunyinheaiqing，yinweitamendoujuedezhiyouaiqingcainengchengweihunyindejishi，zheiduanhunyincainengzhangjiu，cainengyougengyuandeweilai。

 danwoyeyudaoguohenduoduihunyingengxianshideren。zailiaotiandeguochengzhong，wozhidaotamenduihunyindekanfashixianshide。zhiyouguoshangmeihaodeshenghuo，womencainengguoshangwendingdeshenghuo，guoshangwendingdeshenghuo，womencainengguanlihunyinheaiqing。

 yeyouyixierenduihunyindetaidujieyushangshuliangzhezhijian。tamenbujinxiangyaoaiqing，erqiexiangyaoguoshangmeihaodeshenghuo。yushangshuxiangbi，zheigezonghedexiangfazhendehenhao。raner，shishishang，nibunengtongshiyongyouyuhexiongzhang。zuihou，nizhinengranghunyinbiandegengzao。

 yannvshishuyuzheizhongren。suirantahezhangfushichulian，dantayikaishiyinweiaiqingerjiehun。danglianggerenjiehunshi，tamenbujinkaolvyongyouaiqing，erqiehaixiangguoshangxingfudeshenghuo。

 dancongyikaishi，yannvshijiumeiyoujihuahaozheiduanguanxi。tazhishixiangyouyigehaodejia，zhishaoyouyigewendingdejiating。yinci，yannvshizaijiehunqianhulvelehenduozhongyaodeshiqing。

婚前没有考虑到的事情，婚后有了孩子，很多问题开始慢慢出现

 tebieshizaihaizidewentishang，yannvshiyouzijidegongzuo，zhangfudegongzuoyehenmang，suoyitamenbahaiziliujigongpozhaogu。suirangonggongpopoyetongyizhaoguhaizi，dantamenbuyuanyi。

 yannvshizuishoubuledeshi，buguantazuoshenme，poposihudoubuxihuanta，shenzhigulierziheyannvshichaojia。zuihou，yannvshizaizhaogujiatinghejiatingsuoshidetongshi，budebuzhaogutadegongzuo。

 gengzhongyaodeshi，yannvshideshiyexinbijiaoqiang，zaigongzuoxianrantahennuli，danyizhimeiyoudedaolaobandezhongshi，zheirangtadexinhenbupingheng。

 youyuyuzhangfuwuxiuzhidezhengchao，yannvshicengxiangguolihun，danzuizhonghaishimeiyoujieshu。yinweihaizishinvrenderuodian，buguantamendangshiyouduoshengqi，zhiyaotamenxiangdaohaizi，tamenjiuhuizaixinligaosuziji，renshouta。

youyici，yannvshihezhangfuchaojiahou，zhangfubataxinxinkukumaidejiajuhebangongzhuodouzale。

 suiranfangzishitamengongtongdecaichan，danzhiyaoyannvshizijimaidongxi，tajiuhuibutongchengdudishoudaozhangfudeshanghai。zheibushidiyici。tayiqianbeidaguohaojici，danmeiciyannvshidouhuizijishoushi，zhongxinzuzhi。

duiyuzheiyangdehunyin，yannvshizhidaoyijingmeiyouxiwangle，danshitazuishihaizi。

meicihepengyouliaotian，dajiadouquanta，dantazongshishuo“yaobushiyinweihaizi，wozaojiulihunle。”

 tazhidao，ruguoxianzailihun，huozhehunyinnaodehenda，congrenhejiaodulaikan，duihaizidoushijidadeshanghai，taxianzaiweiyinengzuodejiushirenshou。

 woxiangxinhenduorendouzhidaoyannvshideqingkuang。buguantahezhangfuchaojiaduomejilie，tadoubuhuilihun。tabuhuiweilehaiziercanrendilikai。suirantacengjingshuoguo，dangtaxiangdaoyigehaodehuitoulushi，tahuilihun，danzheijuhuahenrongyishuo，danbingbushineimejiandan。hunyinyoushiyouzhongshenmeyisi？

 shishishang，duiyuyannvshidejingli，wozhiqianyeyudaoguojici，youdeyijingchulaile，youdehaizaijinglizhetongku，buzhidaoxiayibugaizenmeban。

有时候我会想，如果自己遇到这种情况，到底会怎么办

 houlai，womanmanyishidao，ruguowozhendeyudaozheizhongqingkuang，zhiyouyitiaolukeyizou，erzheitiaoludeguanjianzaiyuwomenshifouyuanyixuanzezheitiaolu。

 ruguomeiyouhaizi，hunyinchulewenti，neijiujiandanduole。zhijielihunjiuhao。danshiyoulehaizizhihou，jiandandexuanzejiuhuizhongxindingyi，xuanzedeguanjianzaiyuhaizi。

 ruguonizhendexuanzelihun，zheijiangyuhaizidejianhuquanyouguan，shenzhiyingxiangnijianglaiyuhaizixiangchudewenti。bijing，zheishinizijiderou。nibunengyibeizidoubujianmian。nibuzaihuma？

 ruguonixuanzebulihun，nibixukaolvyunidebanlvxiangchu，yijinideshenghuofangshi。lingyigeguanjiandianshi，nihuiyizhikaolvshenmeshihoulihun。zaizheigeguochengzhong，zheishifeichangtongkude。meiyicibuxingdehunyindoushishenghuodetongku。

 raner，wulunnishifoulikai，zheizhuyaoqujueyuniruhexuanze。ruguoniyizhiyaobaibuding，nizuizhonghuishoudaogengdadeshanghai。zhangtongzongbiduantonghao。zhiyoujinzaoxiadingjuexin，nicainengshixiannideyuanwang。

guanyuhaizidewenti，qishinikeyi，zhishiyoumeiyouyongqi。

hunyinyoushiyouzhongshenmeyisi？jiranyouxieganqingyijingzhuding，neijiumeiyoubiyaomianqiang，fangkaiziji，yefangkaiduifang。