婚姻颜值重不重要，女人的重要底牌就不再是颜值和身材了

 nvxingnianqingshizuizhongyaodezibenshinianqinghemeili。suizhenianlingdezengzhang，tamendewaibiaoheshentidouzaizhujianshuailaoheshuaitui。zaizheigeshihou，duiyunvxinglaishuo，zuizhongyaodepaibuzaishishencaihewaibiao，yinweitamenyoushenghuojingyanhegengduodejingyan。zaizhongnian，tamenkeyigengchongshiziji，rangzijigengyouxiyinli。hunyinyanzhizhongbuzhongyao？

01.体贴温柔，懂得同理心

 zhongnianfunvzaishehuizhongzheimeduonian，yougezhongbutongdejingli，yougezhongbutongdeganjue，suoyitamenzhidaoruhezunzhongbieren，youtonglixindedaobierenderenke，dedaobierendezhichi，suoyiruguoyigenvrenyoutonglixin，keyititiehewenrou，keyirangzhouweideaikeyidedaonanrendeai。

02.知道如何推拉，不要抓得太紧。

 zaiganqinghehunyinzhong，nvrenwangwanghuijinruyizhongwujie，juedenanrenzaiwaimianyoutaiduodeyouhuo。zhiyoudangtamenzhidaozijiyizhizaizuoshenmeshi，tamencainenggandaogengzizai，weichitamendeganqinghehunyin。

 shishishang，zheiduinanrenlaishuoshiyizhongyalili，yeshiyizhongyueshu。yinci，zhongniannvxingyinggaigengshihelieshi，yijiruheyingdui。tamenyinggaizhidaoruhetuila，zaishidangdeshihoufangsong，zaishidangdeshihoushoujin，buyaozongshibashengziladetaijin。

03.懂得自律，让自己美丽迷人

 xuduonvrenzailianaihejiehunhouhuijuedezijiyijingyoulezhuren。tamenbutaizaihuzijidewaibiaohenengli。tamenkaishifangzongziji，buzhidaoruhezilv。tamenmanmandicizhi，shencaibuhao，budabanziji，bianchengleyigehuangliannvren。hunyinyanzhizhongbuzhongyao？

 zheishiyinweizheihuirangnanrentaoyanta。yinci，zhongniannvxingyinggaidongdezilv，dongderuheweihuziji，rangzijimeilimiren，congerdedaonanrendeai。

04.有自己的事业和能力

 youxienvrenjiehunhouhuifangqizijideshiye，yikaonanrenshenghuo，yikaonanrenshenghuo，zheibushiyigehaoxianxiang，nvrenyinggaiduli，yinggaiyouzijidenengli，youzijideshiye，zhiyoujingjiduli，youshiyexiangzuoshenme，shuohuagengzixin。nenggouyulingyibanpingdeng，huodezunzhong，shihunyingengmeihao。

05.情商高，有处理问题的能力

 yigeqingshanggaoderenkeyizuoyiqie，keyidedaobierenxihuandedongxi。zhongnianfunvdaozheigenianlingyinggaizhidaoruhexingwei，yougaoqingshang，yiqiedoukeyizijichuli，danyekeyichulidehenhao，ziranhuirangyigerenkanjizhiyanjing，huigengyouxiyinli。

 hunyinyanzhizhongbuzhongyao？suirannvxingnianqingshidezibenshinianqingde.qingchunhehuoli，danzhongnianyihou，tamenyeyouzijidemeili，danrangtamenjiaoaodebuzaishiwaibiaohewaibiao，ershiyixieshijiandechendian，ershiyixieshehuijingli。jiuxiangshangmiandedipaiyiyang，zhongniannvxingzhanshizijidelilianghemeili。zhiyouzhuazhuzheixie，tamencainenggengyoumeili，gengxiyinnanrendeai。