孩子能挽回老婆吗？

 jiaruhunyinshenghuozhongbingbushilaidaozaoyinanyirenshoudechengdu，nvshitongchangburongyisuibianmingquetichuliyide，zaoyuliyi，laogongcaihuiguanniandaozishendenanti。danghunyinshenghuozaoyiliekai，nengwanliuwaiyuxifumadexin?xifuliyinengwanliuma？xifuyiqingbieliannengwanliuma？xiaohaineng wanhuilaopo ma？xiabian，youwangbianlaiduinishuo。

一、先平静下来，找到存在的问题

1、richangshenghuodebuliangxiguan

 zaijiehunqian，dajiahuijinliangzailingyifangyanqianbaochihaozishendepinpaixingxiang，danzaihunhoujiuhuiyuanxingbilu。richangshenghuodebuliangxiguan、huaixiguansuizhepuluzailingyifangyanqian，lingyifangtaoyannixiyan、shijiu，shuciquandao，nihuanshimeiyouhuiguo。yiciyouyiciranglingyifangxinhan，yeranglingyifangzhangchuyuanyijiejuezheileiyishizhuxingdexiangfa。

2、bukeyikaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu

 zheierchangshuodeyaoqiuyou3gecengmian：huaxuewuzhiyaoqiu、ganqingyaoqiu、shenglixuqiu。nvxingkanhaodejiushishuonanshengdeshengcunli。danglingyifangdexuangouchongdongshiqukaolvhuoshidajiadeyishizhuxingshenxianlejiongpolishi，lingyifanghuiduinixinhan;nvxingbixudeshiguanzhu、lejie、zhongshi、tiexin，kuanwei，ruguonihushiletadeyaoqiushi，huoxulingyifanghuixiangwaizhaoxunfuwei;shenglixuqiubunengmanzudoushilingyifangwaiyuhuoshilihunyuanyinqiyi。

3、yishizhuxingguodufawei、quefareqing

 hunyinshenghuobixuchangchanglengzang。huoxunixiguanmeitianliangdianyixiandeyishizhuxing，danbuyiweizhelingyifanghuiganyuanyishizhuxingdefawei。huoxunijuedeyouyanjiangcujiushishuoyishizhuxing，lingyifangjianghuihuiganjueqianquekuaile。

二、对症治疗来挽回妻子

1、提高自身。

 nengwanliuwaiyuxifuma？zuixiangaizhengrichangshenghuodehuaixiguan，kaizhanpinpaixingxianggengxingaizaohebenzhihanyangdetigao，jianxinnidegenggaihuiranglingyifangermuyixin。

2、yunyongxiaohai、qinrenlaitishenglianluo。

 xiaohainengwanhuilaopoma？jiarudajiazhongjianyeyouxiaohaizaiweichi，neiweilebaobaokuailechengzhangdekaolvdao，lingyifanghuirenzhenwanchengnidekenqiu。qinrenheqinpenghaoyoudoushiyouliangdequdongli。

3、zhengqueyindaotazijintouru。

 xifuyiqingbieliannengwanliuma？ruguonibunengmanzutadeyaoqiushi，shizheqianyitadejizhongzhuyili，shizheyixiaxiadajiacongmeizuoguodeshi。nvxingbixudeshi1genengzhengqueyindaotadenansheng。rutongpojingzhongyuangongsichuangbanren、zhongguodiyiweifuhedashikangnalaoxianshengchangshuode，zaimeiduanguanliangangkaishiyihou，xuduonanshenggangkaishilansan，gangkaishizongrongzishendelianren。nvxingzaizheiyineishihou，gangkaishiganjuezheiyinanshengbingbushinansheng，qitaqianghandenanshengsuanshinansheng，youyumeiyinvxingxinlidoubixu1gebitaqianghandenansheng。tabixuneigerennengcaozongta，bingfeitacaozongneigeren，dabufennvxingxiantianxingyebumingbailingzhenansheng。

4、shengchanzhizaoxiaolanman。

yicanlanmandezhuguangwancan、1gexiaolipin，nenggourangnvxingjuedekaolv。

5、baochizishendefuwuchengnuo。

 xifuliyinengwanliuma？lingyifangzaikaolvdaoyunifuhunshi，xiangqideshinikefoujita1gehaodejianglai。ninengzuochufuwuchengnuo，danbixuyaobaochi，chuerfanerhuiranglingyifangduinisangshixinlai。

 yigenvhaixiangyaosheqiyiqiansuojingdeyishizhuxingyuniwanhun，bixujudadedanliang。hunyinshenghuobixurenzhenyunying，zhangqixingguanliangengbixumoheqi，qidaizouruhunyinshenghuodemeigerendounengrenqingjiaowangzhongchuxiandenanti，nenggoulijigoutongjiaoliuchuli，neiyangguanliannenggouzhangqipingwen，nenggoubaochizhenshishijiyiyishangdewanliu。