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1. 正视问题,认错
gemen,niyaogaoqingchu,xiangwanhuixifu,diyibujiushiyaomianduinimendeguanxinanti,jiandingdichengrenzijidecuowu。buyaozongshizhaoliyou,huozhejiangzerendoutuidaoxifudeshenshang。nidexiangzuiqiangnanzihanyiyang,tingshenerchu,shuo:“xifu,wozhendecuole,jiushiwomeiyouzuohao,rangnishouweiqule。”
liru,yiqianniyinweigongzuomang,changchanghushixifudetiyan,feichangshaopeizheta。cikenijiunengchengkendishuo:“xifu,womingbaizheiyiduanshijianwodegongzuogoupin,hushileni。nitiantianzaijialiaolijiawu,peihulaorenxiaohai,zheimexinku,quemeilaidejizaihuni,jiushiwozheiyizhangfupeidetaixiaojidaigongle。”neiyangdehuayishuochurukou,xifuxinlikendinghuiyoudiandadong,renweinizuishaolejiedaozijidenanti。
woyouyigepengyou,dangshiyinweimilianwanyouxi,changchanghelaopochaojia。zhihoutaxiangyaowanhuiqizi,jiuzhenxinchengyiduixifushuo:“xifu,woshizhendezhicuole。wobugaiyitiandaowanjiumingbaiwanyouxi,jiangniliangzaiyibian。nijiwofuchuneimeduo,queneimebuzhidaozhenxi,wotaibingbushirenla。”taqizitingwanzhihou,suiranyikaishimeiyoushuohua,danyanshenzhongyouleyisisongtuo。
2. 分析不正确根本原因
zenmeyangnengwanhuilaopodexin,rencuobugou,haidepouxiyixiazishenfancuowugenbenyuanyin,ranglaopokanjiannijishigaizhengxinxin。yekeyishuo:“xifu,worenzhendexiangleyixia,wozhisuoyihuifanzheiyangdecuowu,yinweiwotaizisile,guangxiangzhezijikuaile,meiyoukaolvdaonideqingxu。zhihouwoyidinghuigai,duozhanzainishijiaosikaowenti。”
haishinamilianwanyouxineiyigeshilieryan,ninengjixushuo:“wodayouxishiyouyugongzuotaileile,xiangfangsongyixia,kewoxiangbudaozheihuirangninanguo。shijishangwogaizhaogengjiajiankangfangfalaishifangyali,lirupeiniyiqisansanxin、kangedianying。yihouwohuihelianpai,duopeibanni。”neiyangshencengdifenxibuzhengquegenbenyuanyin,xifuzhihuijuedeshizhenzaifansi,erfeifuyansaize。
3. 表示内疚之心
chukairencuohepouxigenyuan,nihaidebiaodachuzijideneijiuzhixin。ranglaopolejie,niyinweizijidewentiergandaoshifenzizeshangxin。yekeyishuo:“xifu,wozhendechaojineijiu,youyudoushiwodecuo,shininanguo。womeitiandouxiang,ruguodangshiwokeyiduozaihuniyidian,duojiannizuoyixieshi,shuobudingjiubuhuizheiyangle。”
jiuxiangzhiqianneiyigeyouyugongzuohushilaopodeguimi,tanenggouduixifushuo:“xifu,womeiwanzaichuangshang,yixiangdaoniyigerenzaijianeiyanggudu,wojiutebieneijiu。wohenbudefeidaonishenbian,haohaodibaobaoni,henishuoyishengduibuqi。”zheiyangdehuayu,nengranglaopotihuidaozijineixindetongkuyuaohui,bijiaorongyichudongta。
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