zenmecainengwanhuilaopo,zaiganqingzhanghezhong,zhongshihexinrenshiweixishuangfangguanxidezhongyaoqianti。danshi,dangyifangbuxiaoxinwaiyu,zheifenxinrenbianhaosijiacengbolibanfensui,liuyoushenshendiliefeng。mianduichuguizhihoudehunyinwenti,youqishidangnibeiganhuihen,qipanwanhuiqizideneixinshi,hequhecong?xiamianwomenjiuweinintigongyixiliehaoyongjianyiyuliucheng,bangzhunizaitongkuhesikaozhong,zhujianxiufushousundeguanlian,zaicihuodelianrendexinrenhexin。
一、正视错误,认真反思
1. renkebingyingduibuzhengque
zuixian,nixuyaohaowubaoliudechengrenzijidecuowu。waiyubujinjinshiduihunyindebeipan,gengjiashiduilingyibanqingganshangdejudasunhai。buyaoqingyiduobihuozhaoliyou,zhenxinshiyilumianweizijidexingwei,shiwanliudediyibu。
2. shencengciziwofansi
sikaoweishenmehuilaidaowaiyuzheiyibu。shiyouyuhunyinlideyixiebumanyimeibeichuli?haishiqitazuorendedixiandesongchi?lejiewaiyudegenbenyuanyin,youzhuyunichedijiejue,fangzhijianglaiyicuozaicuo。
3. biaoshuzhenchengdeqianyi
xiangqizibiaoshuniyinxiangzuishendeqianjiu。jilao,zhiqianbingbushiweilehuanjieziyidefuzuigan,fanershiweilerangtakanjiannidekuijiuheduiyutadezhongshi。xuanzeyigeheshidejihui,yongzhenchengdebiaoda,gentashuoniweizijidexingweijuededuomedehouhuimoji,jiqiniyaoweicifuchuyiqienuliqumibu。
二、全透明沟通交流,重建信任
1. 打开真诚会话
hezuoshixiufuguanxidechuangkou。zhaoyigeqingjing、sirendeziranhuanjing,heqizijinxingshenrudehuihua。rangtazhidaoniyuanyiqingtingduifangdeganshou,buguanduometongchuhuonaonu,douqingduoyidiannaixinyulijie。
2. toumingdurichangshenghuo
weilenengzhongjianxinren,womenxuyaorangzijiderenshengbantoumingde。jijifenxiangzijiderichangxingchenganpai、xiuxianhuodong,naizhishoujijiesuomimadeng,yongshijixingdongdaibiaoninenggoujieshoujianguan,jiangditadebuan。
3. 一同设置标准
heqiziyiqitaolunbingshedingyixiebiaozhun,biruruheweichijiexian、zenyangchulijianglaidemaodundeng。zheibujinnengtigaobicizhijiandecanyuxing,hainengweihunyinshenghuokaisheyigexindebaohupingzhang。
三、改变自己,呈现诚心
1. benrenchengzhangyugaibian
zenmecainengwanhuilaopo,waiyutongchangbaoluchubenrenzaiyixiefangmiandebuzu。yunyongzheigejihui,buduantishengziji,bulunshiqingganguanlishuiping、goutongdejiqiao,haishiqitadaodexiuyang。genjushentilixingzhanshinidechengzhangyuzhuanbian。
2. 担负家庭压力
yongyuchengdangengduojiatingyiwu,bulunshijiawuhuohuoshihaizijiaoyu,douhuiranglaopokanjiannidechengxinziwogaibian。jingguoshentilixingzhengshiniyaoweijiarentouru,erbuzhishikoutoushangdefuwuchengnuo。
3. 造就浪漫时刻
zairichangrichangshenghuochuangzaoyixiexiaolangmanhuolangmanshike,lirutiqianzhunbeiyidunteshudewanfan、anpaiyicizhuanshuyuerrendelvyoudeng。zheizhongsuirankanqilaixiwei,dankeyizhujianwenxinqizidexin,rangtaganshoudaobeiaigenbeiguanzhu。
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