zenmezuocainengwanhuilaopodexin,youqishiruguonifaxianxifudeneixinfangfozhujianpiaoqule,neileizheji、wuzhudeganjue,kanqilaijiuxiangbeiquanshijiepaoqileyiyang。biezheji,biezheji,xiamianwojiujiushilaijiwosong“jiushengyi”de!womenjiulailiaoliao,ruhewanhuiqizideneixin,rangqizhongxinaishangni,rangzheiduanganqingxiaochuanzaiduyangfanyuanhang!
一、先平静下来,不要做“冲动恶魔”
zuixiana,pengyoumen,ruguonifaxianxifuduizijidelengdan,huoshixiangfenshou、lihunshi,buyaozaiyijidongjiuzuochuyixiechunshi。liruyoukuyounao、kukuaiqiu、naizhiyanyuweixie,zheizhongkedoushibukequdea!nidezuofa,budanwanliubushangtadexin,fandaohuijiangtatuigenggaogengyuan。
shouxiannidepingjingxialai,jizijiyidianshijian,yejixifuyidianshijian。xiangyixianglianggerenzhijiandaodishizenmehuishi,douyounaxieyuanyinzaochenglexianzaidejumian。zheishibushinijinqigongzuomang,hushileduifangdeganshou?yeshidajiazhijiandejiaoliuyuelaiyuedi,xingchenglejiedi?huozhenideyixiebuliangxiguan,rangqinanyirenshou?
xunzhaowentidebenzhi,cainengshibangongbei。yinci,xianpingjingxialai,buyaorangzijichengweineige“chongdongemo”。
二、回忆美好,唤起她“初衷”
xiamiana,womendedayida“taojinhu”。nixiangxiangkan,dajiagangrenshideshihou,shifoutiantiandouzhanzaiyiqi,liaobuwandehuati?neishihoudeni,shifouduitahehubeizhi,haipatashouyidianbiequ?rujin,jinguanriziguoshijianzhangle,henyoukenengzheixiejiqingdoutuiqu,danshineixienanwangdehuiyiquehaizaia!
niyaozhaoyigeheshideshijian,liruyeliyiqisanbudeshihou,huozhezhoumoyiqikandianyingdeshihou,buzhibujuetidaozheixienanwangdehuiyi。jiangjiangdajiadiyicijianmiandechangjing,jiangxianimenyiqijingliguodeshiqingzheixieqiannanwanxian,yijineixierangqijidongdexilihualadeyishunjian。
zheizhongnanwangdehuiyi,jiuxiangyibasuochi,keyikaiqitaxinzhongdeneishanmen,huanqita“chuzhong”。rangqixiangdao,yiqianneiniyejiushineigerangtaxindongdenansheng,yiqiandajiayecengyouguoneiyangxingfudeshiguang。
三、改变现状,让其见到“全新的你”
guanghuiyimeihaokebugoua,pengyoumen,haidequchushentilixinglai。niyaogaibianxianzhuang,rangzijibiandegenghao,rangqijiandao“quanxindeni”。
lirua,jiaruniyuanlaishige“dananrenzhuyi”zhe,yizhibuzaihuduifangdeganshou,neinixianzaijiuyaoxuehuilijieta、dongta。duotingtadeganshou,duotiliangtayaoqiu。jiaruniyuanlaishige“woxingwosu”,jialideshishenmedoubuguan,neinixianzaijiuyaozhudongchengdanqijiatingzeren。shoushijiawu、daidaihaizi、peibanlaonianren,rangqijiandaonishiyigeyouzerenxindenansheng。
haiyoua,niyaotigaozijideneizaixiuyanghezishenxingxiang。duodushu、jianyundongjianshen、xuexixindejineng,rangzijibiandegengjiayouqizhi。zheiyangyilai,taziranjiuhuiduiniguamuxiangkan,renweinifangfobianleyigerenyiyang。
四、加强沟通交流,构建“心灵的桥梁”
goutongjiaoliua,shihunyinshenghuode“fangfuji”。xuduofuqiweishenmehuifashengzhengzhi,shiyinweigoutongjiaoliubuzu。niyaojijizhaoxifuxianliao,shuoshuonineixindexiangfa,yetingyitingtazhixinhua。
zenmezuocainengwanhuilaopodexin,liaotianshia,niyaozhuyifencun。bieyishanglaijiuwen:“nihaishiaiwoma?”huoshi“nishibushiyaohewolihun?”zheizhongwentitaizhijiele,feichangrongyirangtajuedegongzuoyali。niyaocongyixieqingsongdehuatixiashou,liruliaoyiliaojinqitianqi、kankanxinwenwanglimianyoushenmeyouyisideshi、huanjuhuashuoshuowogongzuofangmiandeyixiexiaozaojiu。
dengtaxinqinghao,niranhoumanmanzhengqueyindaotashuochuneixindexiangfa。takenengyikaishihuichiyi、huitifang,danshizhiyaonichongzuxixin、chongzuzhenxinshiyi,tayidinghuijianjiandichangkaixinfeide。
五、制造浪漫,引燃“爱情的种子”
pengyoumena,biewangjijixifuzhizaolangman!nvshengdoushiailangmande,yigexiaodeyiwaijingxijiukekaixinqilaihaozhangshijian。
womenkeyizaitashengrishi,qiaoqiaodetiqianzhunbeiyichanglangmandezhuguangwancan;huoshizaitagongzuozhongnanshoudeshihou,jitamaishangyishuxianhuaheyizhangtianmannongnongdeaiyixinyongka;yekeyizaitabuzhibujue,daitayigetayizhixiangqudanhaimeiyouquguodechengshi。
zheizhongyiwaijingxia,jiuxiangyibahuo,keyiyinranlianggerenzhijian“aiqingdezhongzi”。rangtaganshoudaonideyongxinyulangman,rangtagandaogennizaiyiqihaishineiyangyouyisi、neiyangxingfukuaile。
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