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 qianjitian，laotongxuecongshanghaishihuijiale，yuewoyiqiyongcan。yanshanghuozhi，talilehun，xiaohaiguita，zichanyeguita，lingyifangjingshenchuhu，takanqilaidashengleliyizheicigongjianzhan，kelianbuqueshixiaoxiedebugaoxing。 -wanhuilaopo

dangshitashuoaiwoyishengyishi，neimekuaijiufangkaishou，jianzhizha!

weihewonulineimeduo，taquekanbushangwomeijitamensuiyi?

weihewoneimeaita，taqueyaoheqitanvxingnuanwei……

xuduoxueshengdouhaosilaotongxueruci，jijiaoshifaguolaiyiduiqianzelingyifangdeyuju。

 shijishang，nvxinga，zaitaruhunyinshenghuoqian，jiugailejie，liangrenyinxianghuxiyinzhuerzouzaiyiqi，zaihoubianchupengzhong，bidinghuifajuelelingyifangdequexian，nagejizhidegaolengnanshenyuanxianyeshizheibanbukanrumudexiguanxing。shenghuoqijuzhong，mianbulezhengzhi，suizhifenqidechixuleiji，neifenxiyinzhuzhujianxiaotuile，jiarubulijijiejuemaodun，zhonghuiyouyitianbaofa，erbiededenvxingjiuhuichengxuerru。

 taguoduanlihunlele，ninanguoshangxin，jinqisuoyouqukenqiutaliuxia，haobuzaiyiquqiuqinqipengyouqushuohe，tabujinmeihuijia，fandaoliniyuezouyueyuanle。nihenfannao，benlaiweileai，zishendijianlaidaowanmei，weihetaqueliniyuezouyueyuanni?

 qingganchuxianweiji，zuibihuisipilailian，nideziyiweishiqiadangdezuofahaowuyiwenjiushishuosipilailiandedianxingxing，niyonglingyifangzuifangandefangfaquwanliu，tazongshiyaoxiangjinzaodetaochuni，jinzaodeyuniduanjuelaiwang，nishuobailedeqinfenyezongshiwanquandesangshita。

 qingganzhongchuxianlenantibukongbu，kongbudejiushinishiquwanliudedanliang，yongbuduiwanliudefangshi ，tiaoxuanqiadangdefangshi ，caikeyigaozitaiwanliulingyifang，zhenshidebalingyifangzaidulahuidaonishenbian。

 yangqiu，zhiqianshidahuoerwanliuzhongzuifeichangrongyifandebuzhengque，xuanyongzheizhongfangfabidinghuijiangtayuetuiyuelaiyueyuan，weiyouqiadangdefangshi caikeyiwanliuzishendexingfukuaile。

jiexiaqujiaoshiyongyigejianjiemingledeshili，weidahuoerjiangxiazenyangqiadangdezhangwohunyinwanhuizhongdehaoduogeguanjianbuzhou。

 jiaoshijinqijierenleneiyangyigeshili，lintong(biming)，wanhun5nian，youyige4suidexiaohai，pingchanggennanpengyoushidachaodanaomeiyou，xiaochaochixu。zhangfushijiazhongdedushengzi，deshenshangxiaowentiyidadui，liruaiwanyouxi，ailaichuang，erlintongzeshiyigexiguanzaoshangderen，yidankongxialaijiuhuiganjuequanshennanshou。

 libaitianlintongchulaiguangshangchangmaidongxihuijia，zhangfuhaiyaomengzhougong，yishunjianhuomaosanzhang，yichangduijuejiushizheiyanggangkaishi，dabufenquanshiyizhangfudeqiuraowanbi，keshixiayicirengranbugai。lintongshuciquandaotashaodayouxi，duoxuexipeixun，yibianzulantadayouxi，bajiazhongdediannaoshangdoujiejuele。

 zheiyixiahaola，zhangfubushidayouxile，duilintongjibenshangshiwulunbutan，huijialedeshijianyewanxiele，xiabanlelijiquwangkadayouxi。lintongbujingyifajue，zhangfuzaishoujiheyigenvrenliaodehuobao，yujuzhongbiaoluzhenuanwei。lianggerenyincierdachaoyijia，zhangfubiaocengshangtongyihezheiyinvxingbuzailianxi，keshiqueyizhitouzhehetafaxiaoxi，lintongyaoxiangjixiaohaiyigexiangxidejia，zaishizhelezhongduobuchenggongfangshi hou，zhaodaojiaoshi。

”jiaoshi，renmenzheiyangdeshiqingnengwanliuma?”lintongpobujidaidegenwoshuo

shijishang，baifenzhijiushiwudeliekaiqingganchangyouwanliudejianghui，quankanshibushinixuanyongleqiadangdefangshi 。

 zaiqingganzhong，lianggerenyougaoaiweizhifende，wulunnichengbuchengren，nijiqieyaoxiangwanliulingyifang，nibiranshichuzaiqinggandediwei。

tamingquetichuleliyi，yaosheqizheiyiduanqinggan，niyaoxiangwanliu，niqiutabuyaolikaini，nibukeyimeiyouta。

 zheiyineishihoutayouerzhongtiaoxuan，yaobuliuxia，yaobufangqini，nijiuhuifaxian，tagesanchawuyaolairangniliqudeshujuxinhao，gesanchawuyoulaitiaodouniyixia，

 beibierendaozhierchenghuzhierqu,nihentongchu，danshibuqingchuzenyangjiejue。 qinggannantihenxinlei?10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan

 tangruobujuchanshengledanizhuan，tayilaizheni，beinishenshendidexiyinzhu。zheiyineishihoujiuzhanyouleqinggandejiji，nisiwujidandezuohaoziji，ertayizhihuipidianpidiandereqingyinglaini。

bunankanchu，nideqingganbuju，jueceledajiazhongjianqinggandemaixiang，genggaidiweibuju，fangkegaozitaiwanliuta。

yibianxiyinta，nihaojinshichuhunshenjieshu，weicengxiangquejiangtayuetuiyuelaiyueyuan，zaibugaibianfangfa，nijianghuiwanquandesangshita。

 changchangyouxueshengshuo，jiaoshi，woxuelecaizhuang，rujindewoyuzhiqianhaosishihuanxinyan，zouzaidajieshangyeshihengaodefugou，shifouwowanliutajiuduoyicengyingmian。duile，zheigengnengxiyinzhulingyifangdejizhongzhuyilile。

 xingfujingmeidezhuangmianyizhinengxiyinzhudaolingyifangdeyanguang，danzhenshiranglingyifangliuxiadebidingjiushinibenzhideyouhuoli。xiabianjiaoshicongsancengmianeryanshuonvxingzenyangtishengbenshenyouhuoli，jinerchaoguoniuqubenshenbujudemudi。

 dangnizhiguanxinyikexingchen，bijianghuisangshiquanbuxingkong，zheishijiejiushishuoneimeqite，niyuefayaoxianghuodenaxie，jiuyuefawufadedao。erruguonichongzuchusedeneishihou，niyaoxiyinzhuderenyehuijiezhongerlai。

 dajiayiqizaifandianyongcan，lingyifangdixiatoukanjianshoujishang，nixinggaocailiedehetashuojinrichanshengdeshier，tayibianwanshouji，yibianhuiyingni，ng。

niwennixiaichiroucai，huanshihuncai，tashuo，dounenggou，suihouzaiciwanshouji。

niwennicaizenmeyangchi，tashuo，haihao，shuangyanhuanshimeiyouliqushoujishang。

nibeirenaole，gaoshengxunchita，jiubukeyixiangshoukuaile，haohaodideyuwoshuoshuohua。

 yexudajialejiedaobukeyizailejiele，shizhijinkouhennanmeilexinlvjiakuaidejuede，lingyifangdeyigezishi，jiulejietayaoganshenme;tadeyigemuguang，jiulejietayingshuonaxie，jibianlejiedaozheibanshuiping，goutongjiaoliubujishi，lianggerenyehuizhujianyuelaiyueshengshu。

 niganjuetabuxiangzhiqianneiyangkandaini，tafashengbianhua，yexutazaoyibuainile，zaixinlikaizhanlefumianxinxijiangjie，jiqingganyinrulezaodongbuandexintai。jibianlinshimeiyoubaofa，danyehuiweijinhouzhongxiayikebuzhadan。xingfukuailebixugoutongjiaoliu，dangoutongjiaoliuquebuyidingxingfukuaile，renmenbixuxuehaoqiadangdegoutongjiaoliu。

表述实际要求

 dangbixulingyifangzuoyijianshierdeneishihou，jinliangshijidebiaoxianchulai。bubijuedetashandaizijijiuyingdangyaodongzishen，tajiaruxintengni，jiuyingdangyaolejieruhezuo。jiarulingyifangkeyizaihunigengqiang，tangruobukeyizaihuni，neimaniweishenmebukeyijiangyaoqiubiaoshudegengshijini?qiadangdebiaoshu，lingyifangcaikeyigengqiangdelejieni，cainenggougengqiangdexiangzheniguidingdefangweiquqinfen。

称赞另一方

 meigerenbingbushijizhide，lingyibandoushizheiban，bubitiaomaobing，jiarulingyifangganleyijianshier，qianwanbuyaoqishixiongxiongdejiuyaochize。

 shiyixiazheileibiaodaxingshi：”zhangfu，niyulaiyulebuqi，woyemeiyouxiangqiniyaohuizuozheiyi，wojiushiyulaiyuchongbainile，danshizheiyibuwei，jiaruhuanweidanhuangse，neimejiujizhile。”neimeshuojiqiangdiaolenanti，lingwaiyejinibiaoshuleqingyi，zuiguanjiandeshi，lingyifanghaishanyujiena。

 chengzanlingyifangyaorangzishencongzhenxinshiyideshijiaolaikan，henjiadechengzantongchanghuijuyoufanguolaidegongxiao，lirulingyifangjinrichuanleyijianyifu，bubishuonijinrihenshuai，xiangyaokuadeshijiyidian，liru，nidechenshanhelingdaidapeifeichanghao，chenshanchentuodenizuixianbai，gengyouqichang。

换位思考

 quanshijiemeishenmeshenyoutihui，renmenshizhongyemeifaganshoudaobeigaofangdeqingxu，danrenmennenggoujinkenengyonghuanweisikaoquzuoshier。jiaruhuanzuoniyeshita，ninengyaoxianglingyifangruhekandaini，neimajiuruhekandaita。

 dangpengdaolezishenbukeyizhangwodeshiershi，nenggoushidudequwenyiwenlingyifang，liruniyeshixiaigentuanlvyouhuanshizijialvyouzheixie，jilingyifangyigetiaoxuandeshineikongjian，tishenggoutongjiaoliushijixiaoguo。

 xuduoneishihourenmendelizudianquanshizishen，doushiyizishendeshijiaolaikaolvdaonanti，nijuedezishenzaiqinfendejitamenshide，danshilingyifangqueyilianxianqi，youyuzheibingfeilingyifangyaoxiangde。zheijiurutongshilingyifangbixuyigepingguo，yexufeiyaoyaojibierenyigejiezi，haixiangfanwenyiwenbierenzenmeyangchi。

 zhengchaojiuhaosishixiaopengyoufensuilebolidanzhuyingdelingyifangdeguanxin，jiarujizhengchaoyigeyouxiaodebiaoshu，neijiushiwoqidainikeyitingjianwodeshengyin，yiner，caihuizheibangaosheng。

 haijideyouyiciqiyepengyoushuo，meirifanhuijiadoushiheqiziqiangdiannaoshangdayouxi，zuorimeiyouqiangzouxifu，meiyouwanshangyouxi。yincihaihetachaoleyijia，tashualaipi，youyilaizhezuoweibudong。

lingyigepengyouqueshuo，neimejiuzaimaiyitaidiannaoshanghao，jiuwuxuqiangle。

shubuzhineiweipengyoushuo，qiangzhecaiyouqu，jiarutabuyuwoqiangle，woyebuyuanwanle，ganjuemeiyouhanyi。

fufulianggerenzaijiali，gegangedeshier，xianghuzhichi，zheiyijiajiuhuisangshiweierle。

 rentiyongyouneidusu，renmenyaogenjujichudaixiepaichuqu，erqingganzhongyongyouqianjiadexintai，renmenhaiyaogenjuyidingdefangfaxuanxiechuqu，zuipubiandeyejiushishuozhengchao，zheiyejiushishuorenmenchangshuodechaochaogengshenxinjiankang。

jidahuoshuoyigezhenzhengdeshier。zai《jinxingxiu》 zhong，tianwangxinggongxianglezishengennanpengyouhansizhengchaodeqinshenjingli。

tianwangxingxingzishouhuanying，meiyicizhengchao，wubiyaochaoyinglingyifangsuihoushuaimenerqu。

erjiuzaitadengdiantijiaoxiangdeneishihou，tingjianjiulaichuanchuledongdongdongdexiangsheng，hairenweishihansizaishuaiwupin。

 menkaiyikan，yuanxianshihansizaiqiaodachaoshigouwudaixuanxiexintai。congneishiqicailejie，bingbushilingyifangchaobuyingzishen，zhishizairangzhezishen。

 zaizhengchaozhong，youjigezaizhengchaozhongzhanyouyoushi，chaohuosheng，danqueshulelexianghudeai。qingshanggaoderenzhengchao，bingbushiyibianchaoying，zhishiyibianrangzishenbiaodachulai。

 jiaoshitishidahuoer，zhengchaoshi，yaojihuibubijiebahen，bubishanglingyifangzizunxin，bubimalingyifangbabamama，yaoxuehaozhangchiyoudu，xintaiwufakongzhidezhengchaoyaolijijiaoting。

 aodailihebencengjingjiangguo，jibianliangrenliaodezaitoujixing，pengmianyihou，huanshirongmaojueceyiqie，rongmaoqueshishinvxingbibukeshaodezichan。waizaijueceliangrenkefouzouzaiyiqi，erbenzhijueceleliangrenzaiyiqishijianzhangdu。

piaoliangderongmaoshilaotianyeduirenmendeyouhuidaiyu，erbenzhiquenenggougenjuhoutianxingdeqinfendedao，liruyazhi。

 yazhishiyizhonghemudemei，leisipiaoliang，keshiquebipiaolianggengnengqinrenfeifu。yazhiyeshiyizhongshenghuoguannian，shiconglidaowaishifangdeqichang，wanruyihuchennianlaojiu，zongyouyuzhongbutongdexiangwei。

jiaoshicongxialiehaoduogecengmianlaijijiangjiang，zenyanglianchuchengyigeyouyanvren

感恩之心看待一切

richangshenghuonanengquanbudeshierdouruyuanyichang，yongganenzhixinqukandaiyiqie，xinqingfashengbianhuayiqiedoushibian。

 ganxiezijiyouzhedeyiqie，shizheyongtarendemuguangquduidaizishendeyishizhuxing。ruguonikanbushangzishenxuezibuzuhaodeneishihou，xuduorenquemeiyoujiao。yeyouxuduorenshiqulenineimahaoyun，bukeyijiandaotaiyangguang，tihuidaoqingfengqingfu。

怀着愉悦之情去解决日常生活的琐碎

按时的消除心里的负面情绪

感谢相遇，给碰到的人一个笑容

认真工作，学好分摊

 renzhengongzuo，jiufangfonibuyongxinshuineiban;changkuaidezijintouru，jiufangfotashiniyizhizaizuozuixihuandeshier。bubikoumenzishendeqinfen，sheiyebuzhidaosheihuichiminirenzhengongzuodemoyang。

 gongzuozhongyunvxinglaijiang，jiushinichengxianfengcaideyigefangshi，yeshiniyishizhuxingdezixin。liangrenzouzaiyiqi，bidingyaohuxiangqianjiu，nanrenyangjiaburongyi，nvxingyaozaigongzuonenglifanweizhineitinanshengfentangongzuoyali，zheiyeshiyizhongaidebiaoshu。

衣着得当，从容接纳一切

zaoshangxinglai，jibianwobuwaichu，haiyaohuandiaoyishendedangdeyifukuzi，huashangmeimeidadezhuang，zhashanggancuililuodemaweibian。

 yazhilaiyuanyuyuyishizhuxingdeguanjiandian，congmeiridewujianshounazhenglidaomeirideqingli，manhuaiyuyuedeqingxu，rangzishenhaohaodidexiangyouquanguocheng。

buguanganshenmebixupingxinjingqi，congrongdejienayishizhuxingjiyudeyiqie，jianxinzheiyiqiedoushizuigaichanshengde。