zenmewanhuilaopo?dangnvxingjianchilihunledeqingkuangxia,buyidingshitabuainile,danyidingshitaduinitaixinhanle,zaiyebuhuifangfaxiangxinnihuigenggaile。zheigeshihou,xuduonanshenghuixiangyaozhidaozenyangwanhuilaogong?wanhuilaogongdefangshiyouhenduo,jiarunijuedehaotingdehua,liulei,songli,yemeiyouyong,youyunimeiyouchulileijidenanti,henyoukenengxuduocikexintiaopanbianshuo,neiyinweiwowenletaxianggaizenmeban,ketabianshihuijuegoutongjiaoliu,buhangsheng,gaizenmeban?nvxingyibugennigoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia,biaomingnidexingdonghenzhongyao,suirantaduinilengyanxiangdai,danhaihuiguanxinnideyijuyidong,shubuzhixuduodixiongquebuqingchuxifudesixu。jiarushuonifeijinxinjidiquyue,naizhiganyuannuodongyuefumulaizhenjiejiunidehunyinshenghuo,huanshimeiyouyouqise,jiububizaijinyibuebiandajiadeguanlianle,benwenhuijiaoni:jianbienvxingsixu,budijianbuquyuelajinheqizideguanlian;shunshuituizhouzhengqueyindaolingyifangdexintaixiji,wanliuliyijushi;gaoqingshanggoutong,rangxifujijixuehuifangxiatifanggennishenjiao;shutongleijifenqi,fuqiguanxigengshangyicenglou。zenmewanhuilaopodexin?
一、学生实例
woyuyanghuiwanhunwunianle,zhiqiandetahuanshiwodexiashu,yihoulianaiguanxifabu,tajiulizhizizhuchuangyele,yongyouwodexiezhu,zizhuchuangyeyehenqudechenggong,dajiarujinderichangshenghuohenfeichanghao,jinqiyinianduodajiajiujinrulebeiyunqiqingkuang。kewocongweixiangguoyouyitianwohuikuzhewanliuwodelaopo,zhongjiucongqiandewoyizhibeitaqinpei,yizhiyilai,womendehunyindoushifenxingfukuaile,tayizhihenxianshu,wodegezhonggeyangchuxu,xinshuiyequanshijiaodaota,yizhiyilaiwoduineiyangdehunyinshenghuodoushifenlingrenmanyi。beiyunqiyizhidoumeiqudechenggong,yanghuoyanjinjingkanjianjiuxuyao30suile,yehenji,yincitajianyiqubaoyigejianshenjiaoliantigaoyixiatizhi,wojuedeyemeixiangjiuyuanyile。danshizidatabaolejianshenjiaolianbanhouwomendeguanxijiujianjiandibianjiaolvbuanle,neiyiduanshijianqiyeyizhibijiaomang,tayizhi11dianduocaihuijiale,pinciduolewoyewentashifoupengdaolenaxiebubian,kemeiyicitadoushuowobudongqiyedeshi,tahuijiejuehao,wodoufeichangxintongta。yigeduoyuehouyigepenyoushuowodelaopohenyoukenengyongyouhunhouchugui,woyikaishibuganxiangxin,penyoushuochengzaijianshenhuisuojiandaoyanghuihejianshenjiaolianchupenghenqinmiwujian。
suiranwoyizhishuodongzishenqujianxinta,hunyinshenghuozuipacaiyi,danshicaiyidezhongziyidanzhongxia,tadeyijuyidongdoushiyaowojinzhangjiaolv,xinfanyiluan,yinciwozhuizongleyanghui。yejiushiyici,.woganjuezishenxianggeshaguayiyang,wokandaojianshenfangjiaolianjingranlouzheyanghui,liangrenshifenqinmiwujian,yiqizhixiawochongguoquhetadaguoqilai。huijialehouwozhiyiyanghuishifouzaoyibuyuanbangwoshengxiaohai,shifouzaoyigennagejiaolianyuanzaiyiqile。womeixiangdaotarenkedishifentongkuai,haishuonagejianshenfangjiaolianshitamenqiyedeqianzhigong,yizhidouduitayouhaogan……shuodaohoubian,tanaizhishuozaoyixianggenlihunle,haishuowoyizhibumingbaita,yizhiyebuguanzhuta。woqueshibuqingchuwodouyaozenmezuo,cunzhezaitashouli,suoyoudejieriyebuluoxialaidahongbao,jigenanshengwanhunwunianhainengneiyangduixifu?duiyanghuidegerenxingwei,woqueshihanxinle。zhengdangxingwojuedejitayigejiyudeqingkuangxia,taquemingquetichuleliyi。woyixiajiuhuangle,wunianzhijin,woduiyanghuideaizhizengbujiang,nanyixiangxiangliyidexiangfa,yinweiwomeifaliquta,wulunshishenghuoshanghuanshixintaizhuangtaishang。keshijiangwanliyi,tajiulikaile,wokanjiantabanliquanbudewupin,tingzhetashuozishenjingshenchuhu,naoxiuchengnuwopobudeyixunqiubangzhuyuefumu,bashierhaowubaoliudechuanjijiamengshang,renweineiyangwoyenengzhanyouyoudian,huoderenherendexiezhu,keyanghuiqueyaowoqianwanbiehetababamamalianluo。wojiujingzuobuduinaxie?!
二、老师剖析
1、过度坚信自己的诱惑力
zhanbinbahunyinshenghuodeguishuganzhishichuangjianzailezishendedeshenshang,zhanbindingyizhongdehunyinshenghuoshiyichengbubiande,shiburongyifazhande,shiburongyizhuanbiande。zheigengshizhanbinqianquehunyinjingyinggongzuonenglidezhengming,erdanghunyinshenghuochuxianweixiaodezhuanbiandeqingkuangxiazhanbinshimeifarenzhide。rutonglaopoyanghuicongdangshimengdongwuzhidexiaonvhai,jianjiandidegenjuchupengbuyiyangderenshiqingyihou,jiazhiguannianfashengleyixiezhuanbian,keshizhanbinhaiyiweiyanghuishineishihoudexiaonvhai,quandoubuyong,zhibixutapeizaishenbianjiuxing,qishiyaoburan。
2、不明白女人的心态
zhanbinmeiyouzaidiyishijianrongrulaopodezhenshishenfenzhuanbian,zhenduihunyinshenghuoeryanshishifenfengxiande,lingyifangzaoyiyongyougenggai,keshizuoweilaogonghaishizhongbubianjiaowangfangfa,jiuzaoyijuecelelaopozaixintaizhuangtaishangheganqingshangdeyaoqiubianhuibeibierenkaolv,yincizhenduiqianzhigong,yanghuihuanshimingzhongshenghaogandu,youyuzheizhongxintaizhuangtaishangdekaolvshizhanbinjibushangde。yejiushishuo,hunyinshenghuozhongdenvxingyidanfajuelaogongmeiyoubanfarangzishenfazhanbianweidezijishi,jiufeichangrongyizaochengyanjuangan。
3、不会聊天无法调节情绪
zenmewanhuilaopo?zaizheiyijianshang,shijishangzhanbinyinggaishizhanlideyifang,keshiyouyutadechulifangfa,rangzishenbiandishifenchuyubeidong。zaitafajuelaopohenyoukenengwaiyudediyishijianbingbingbushizhangwoyuangu,zhishidiyishijianzuoshilaopoliyidekeguanshishi,zhengzhidequanguochengzhong,laopoyijiandaotadexintaibianhuiganjuezheijianshiqingwufazhuanyuan,yibianbaocunzishendetimiandi,diyishijianjiangguoliyi,zhanyoulejiji。laidaozheigeshihouzhanbinquzhaoleyuefumu,ranglaopoxiufennanren,dadadedijianshaolelingyifanghehaodegailv。
三、专享挽留方案
1、分手提高(缓解老婆心态提高本身工作能力)
youyuzaoqizhanbinganlexuduokuanrongdadudewanliufangfa,jilaidaoyanghuidaliangdefumianxinxiyinxianghexintai,yincilaoshiqixianfenpeilezhanbinkaizhanlejiridefenshou。(zheiyifenshoushijianyijujutiqingkuangerdingde,yijingduwendepenyoububisuiyifenshoue)zaifenshouqinei,laoshifenpeilezhanbinquanfangweitigaoleqinmiwujiangoutongxiediaonenglihegaoshiyongjiazhibiaodashoufa,jiqixiezhuzhanbinxuehuilenanrennvrenluojisiweichabiehelejieleyanghuidexintaizhuangtainiantou,yihouyeyongleqiriqingshanggaosuchengfaxiezhuzhanbinkuaisuchuangjianqingshanggaojiagou,lingwaicongweixintuxiangdaoweixinfapengyouquanjiqibenshenpinpaixingxiangduizhanbinkaizhanquanfangweidiaojie,weijiexiaqudefuchouzhelianmengzuozhunbei。
2、复仇者联盟破冰之旅(改进和妻子的沟通交流气氛)
zaigaohaodiyijieduandetigaoyihou,laoshigenjuxiezhuzhanbinkaizhanconglingjiaomeijuzenmejiangdefangshi,xiezhuzhanbinheyanghuixiufulianluo,kuobiejigeyue,yanghuidiyicihuiyinglezhanbindexinxineirong,yihoulaoshiquanxianxiezhuzhanbinkaizhanxianliao,genjubeiyunqi,jiazhongyeyouzishendegongzuoguihuadengzuoweihuatitaolunheyanghuigoutongjiaoliu,rangyanghuigangkaishiduizhanbinyinxiangyouyidingdegenggai,chuangjianlexindegoutongjiaoliushitimoxing。
3、二次吸引(另外解雇第三者)
shijishangzaidierjieduandeqingkuangxialaoshijiuzaoyixiezhuzhanbinheyanghuihuanjieleguanlian,naizhiyanghuihaiyuanyilezhanbindeshipinkenqiu,yincizaidisanjieduanlaoshizhidaolezhanbinheyanghuikaizhanledaliangdehudongjiaoliu,congweixinshangdegoutongjiaoliudaokuaidigongsidelipinzheixie,gengqiangzhanxianlezhanbindegenggai,rangyanghuibeizhanbindegenggaisuozaicixiyinzhu。lingwailaoshixiezhuzhanbinhedisanzhejianlilianxi,kaizhanledisanzhejiegu。
4、执迷不悔(让另一方坚信自己的更改并合好)
zenmewanhuilaopodexin?zaidisanjieduangaohaoyihou,shijishangyanghuiduizheiyixindezhanbinzaoyibiaomingchuxianzhudeqinggan,keshibianshimeiyoumingquetichufuhexing,shijishangshiyanghuiyeyoudanyouheguji,pahehaoyihouhaihuijixuxiangzhiqianyiyang。yincilaoshifenpeilezhanbinzhuangzuohezui(zaoqicongweixinpengyouquandaoshoujiweixinganlexuduomaixiafubide),yihouchenzhe“zuijiu”heyanghuikaizhanleyicishencengcidegoutongjiaoliu,rangyanghuiwanquanjianxinlezhanbindegenggai,zuihouyuanyihehao。
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