ruguodalelaopochedishanglexinzenmewanhui?yaoxiangwanjiuhunyin,bixuxuehaoyixiefangshi,wanjiuhunyindefangshiyouhenduo,meiyigerenhunyinshenghuochuxiandenantiyebuyiyang,zuixianyaoxunzhaofuqiganqingpoliedeyuangu,huodeqiadangdehuida。ruhewanhuiyigesixindenvren?
如何挽留一段婚姻生活
1、找到离婚原因
“nanshengzuibixusuiyiherentong,nvxingzuibixuzhongshiheaixi”,wulunlihunyuanyinshisha,doulibulezheizuijichudejijuhua。zuoweinansheng,jiuxuyaozhengqueyindaonvxingrichangshenghuo,jitachongzudeguishugan,rangtaganjueyouyigezhenzhengdenanrenzaiaixita;erzuoweinvxing,jiuxuyaoxinganqingyuanzuonanshengshenhoudeyinlingzhe,jitamenjingshenshizhishangquanliyifudeshiyongherenke,jitamenchongzudesuiyi,shitayouxinxinfazhanqushizishendeqianli,zuoyigezhenshinenggoulingzhezishennvrendenanren。ernvxingdeqianghanheyikao,nanshengdeduobiheruanruo,dourangliyiyuelaiyuelaishixiongxiong。
2、平心静气路面对爱人
jiarulingyifangmingquetichuliyi,neibidinglinshibuyuangenjinijinjudechupeng,zheigeshihouyaocaokonghaozishendexintai,qiewutongkudachaodanaonongdezhongrenjiezhi,ningjingdiyuanyitadeliqubianshi。ruguodalelaopochedishanglexinzenmewanhui?airenzaimingquetichuliyishinilizhidijiena,tafandaohuiganjuezishendejueceshibuzhengquede,rihouzaihundegailvhuigenggao。jiarunizheishihoutongkudachaodanao,zongshixiangtachuansongyigexinxineirong:tabianshiyingdangfangqini,jiejuezheigeshenjingbing。
3、换位思考一下
hunyinshenghuoshiliangrendeshier,jinyouyitongyunyingcaikeyizhangqi。jiranairenmingquetichuliyi,bidingjiushinideshenshangyoutawufarenshoudeexi。zheigeshihoujiuxuyaolizailingyifangdeguandianxiangnanti,bubizhidianjizhezishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongdetouru,shijishanglingyifangyehenrenzhen。yiqiedemaodunhefenqiquanshigenjuxianghuzhijiandebulijie,zenyangnengbaozhengxianghulijie,jiandaolingyifangzaiguanlianzhongdetouru,zheitongchangshihuanjieguanliandediyibu。
4、适当打真情牌
zishenyigerengushenyirenganjuejiannan,nenggoukaolvdaorangjiarenmenlaibangzhu。qinrenbangzhudeqiantitiaojianshilingyifangyuniqinrenhuoshitaqinrendeguanlianbijiaohao,bingqielingyifangjiaoweizaihuzhoubianjiarendeguandian,cike,niyichengxiangdaidigentamenbiaominglihunyuanyin,bingbiaomingzaihundexinxin。youtamendexiezhu,nideairengenghuiganshoudaojiazhongdeguanjian,gengfeichangrongyizhonggui。
5、用心沟通交流
renherenzhijiandefenqiyoubaifenzhibashiquanshiyinweigoutongjiaoliubuchangzaocheng de。niyaoshuodemeiyouchuandijilingyifang,lingyifanglejiedeyouyouwucha,yincifenqijiuqieheershengle。youqishifuqijian,liangrenzhangqixingrichangshenghuozaiyiqi,wofangkanbudaocantingchufangjian,goutongjiaoliuzaochengnantijiuyeshimafanshi。jiezhebicipingjingxialai,tanyitanhunyinshenghuo、liaoyiliaoxiaohai。yaoxiangzaihun,jiudejijirenkezishendeshenshangdenanti,shuomingzishenxiangyaoqinfenshiqinziguanxizhuanhaodeguandian。haikeyiyiqihuailianguoqudekuaileshiguang,xiezhuairenzhaodaowenxindejiatingxinrengan。
6、给相互理智的時间
jiarudajiatichufenshouqianshiyouyulijingmengliezhengzhierfashengzhengzhide,neicikebukeyilikequzhaolingyifang,zhishibixujishijiandahuoerlizhilizhi,youyudahuoerlijingmengliezhengzhi,huijuedeshifennaonude,rendaonaonushi,shitingbujinqurenhedongxide,yincizheigeshihou,qianwanbiequzhaolingyifang,bubiquzaicizhenglunshishifeifei,zheihuizongshigengweijiazhongfenqi;bingqiegengbubilikejiuyaodixiatouchengrencuowu,xianglingyifangquebaofuwuchengnuozhihoudeshier,zheiyangzizongshishitayufahelixingzishenjuecefangqinidegerenxingwei,youyulingyifangzaiqianyishizhonghuiganjue,zhengyouyunizuobudui,yincinicailaichengrencuowu,yincitalikaishiqiadangde。suihou,dajiazailengbaoliqineibixuhaohaodiziwofansi,baohanbencizhengzhifanxiadebuzhengque,jijixianglingyifangrencuo。youyuyiqiezhengzhihaowuyiwenbicidoushiyoucuo,keshijiarunixuyaowanhuita,niyejiuwubixianfansizijidebuzhengque,erqieguzuyongqi,xiangtarencuo。zhengzhiyihou,bubiqudajiaota,zhidaoyiduanshijianyiwang,shuangfangdoujingxiaxinlaile,zaizhaoyigeshihedejihui,zuihaozaitaxinqingbucuodeqingkuangxia,qugentarencuo。
7、造成另一方的共震
kenengzaidajiaguanlianhaodeqingkuangxia,dajiayiqianjingligezhonggeyangchengnuo,danyinweigezhongyuanyin,rengweinengyiyiwancheng,yincizheishi,ninengzishendanduqujinxingzaiqizhongyigechengnuo。liruyigerenquhenzaoyiqiandajiajiuhenxiangyaoqudefandianyongcan,suihougenjuhulianwangzhanxianbaxiangpianzhanxianjitamenkan,peiyiduanhua:zongsuangandaozheier,shicaimeiwei,danqidainenghemoumoumougongxiangciju。yihou,danglingyifangdenuhuohuifule,lianggerenzhongjiandefenqiyejiejueyihou,nizaizhaoyigejietijitamen,bingqienizhaoyigeshifenbixutachuxiandeyuanyin,suihouzaishunlichengzhangdigentahehaojiukeyile。
8、换一个方法思索相互关联
ruhewanhuiyigesixindenvren?fenshouzhihouzhenghaojixianghuyigeshineikongjianshijianlaisisuozheiyiduanguanlian,yeyongyoushijiansikaozishen,jiandaozishendebugou,jinergaibianxianzhuang,tigaoziji,liruyundongjianshen,qukanshu,lvyou,xueyizhiyaoxuedejitaheshuicaihuazheixie。jilaozaichixutigaozijidequanguochengzhong,yeyaogenlingyifangweichishidudelianluo,yiqieshunqiziran,shidudewenhao,ranglingyifanglejiezishendegenggai,zaihaohaoditanyitanguoquneiyiduanqingganzhongsuocunzaidebuzu,qiewuyoukuyounao,qingjingdepouxicunzaidewenti,suihoujiejuekunnan,jianxinlingyifangyehuixiangyaogennixitan。jianxinlijingzheizhongfangshi,nizaoyizaiwanliuhuoshiqudechenggongwanjiuhunyindelumiandaole。
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