该怎么挽救婚姻：挽回那段曾经美好却又遗憾错失的爱情?

 ganqingyihuiertianmei，yihuierkuwei；yihuiershirenshishouxingfu，yihuiershirentongkubukan。fenshouhou，niyaoxiangzaiciyulingyifangzaiyiqi，gaizenmewanjiuhunyin？xiamianlaigaosunizaiwanhuinanrendexinzuijiashijianruhexiewanhuiyigenanrendexinduanxin。

一、修复联络

 fenshouzhihoukendingshiyouyiduanyanfanqide，gangtichufenshouruhekanlingyifangruhekanbuguan，yinciyaojibicizhijianyigelizhideshijian，zheiyishijianniyongyupouxiganqingzhongfashengdenanti，suihouzuochugenggaihouxiufulianluo，xiufulianluoyeshiyouxuduodefangshi，lirunenggougenjuqiaoyu、genjupenyouzaojiujiyu，genjuweixinpengyouquanzhanxianhewenbendegoutongjiaoliu，erqiexiufulianluodeqingkuangxiayidingyaoliuyibubisanjubulifuhexing，neiyanghuiranglingyifangzaochengdangxinjinerdichu。renshengluganqingjuedeyingyouqianrushen，buguidingkuai。

二、明白倾听

 gaizenmewanjiuhunyinzhongdianzaiyuci。shijishangfenshoudeyuanyinxuduozhuangkuangshiyouyufenqidejiqierfenshou。jiaruzheigeshihouniyaogechijijiandehua，kenengmeiyousheihuixiangyaozaicigennishuoxialaide。meiyigerendouqidaizishendeniantoubeizhongshiyurenke，danjiarunizhituzhezishendejuedezoudehua，shierbianhuibianweierle。youqishinanxing，nanrenshibixubeizhongshiheqinpeide，yincimingbailingtingdenvrenshizuixiyinrende，neiyangyeshijibenjianshezishendefengcai，zaiqingtingtarenhezunzhongtaren，bujinganqinghuodetiwen，erweixinpengyouquanderentongyehuodekuozhang。

三、提升投入

 tishenglingyifangjinizaiqiancaishangdetouru。nihenyoukenengganjuenanrengennvrenyouhuijiuyingdangtaoqian，jiaruyaonvxingchuqianjiukanqilaimeiyoulianmian，shi“ruanfannan”degerenxingwei。keshi，nizhibuzhidao，shidudiyaonvxingtaoqiangengyouliyulaogudajiadeganqing，youyu，dangtaduinitouru、jinitourushi，wuxingzhongjiutishengletaduinidehaowuyiwen。

 tishenglingyifangjinizaiganqingshangdetouru。weilegenghaodishidajiadeganqingpaodegengzhangjiu，niwubizhengqueyindaolingyifangduinizaiganqingcengmiandetouru。ruhejingqueceliangganqingdetourushuiping，yigehenhelidefangshi，neibianshifenbianxuqiugandegaoai。ruguonidexuqiuganyuegaoyuezhengshiniduitazaiganqingshangdetouruduo，xiangfanyeshi。yiner，ninengshidudi，jianshaonidexuqiugan，tishenglingyifangdexuqiugan。

四、提高自己

 wanhuilirulingyifangduiniyouganjuejianyizhengjiedechuanzhedaban，huoshiduiniyouganjueyougaoyoudashenxinjiankangdeshenxingzheixie。ninengyizhaozheiyiguifangengxingaizaozishen，goumaiyifu，xuepeida，huoshiqujianshenhuisuo。ciwai，yeyaoliuyipingchangdeliyizhishi，liruzhuzhongliyizhishi，wenrunruyu，limaodeng。zheizhongzhuanbianquanshijijizhudongde，hehulingyifangdeshenmeiguanguifan，ranglingyifangyongxindeshuangyanheerduolimiankanzheni，ranglingyifangzaicibeinixiyinzhu。

 wanhuixuduorendaozishenfancuodeqingkuangxiadouburongyiganjuezishenfancuo，yincishiwomensikaoyixiazheigewenti，jinyougaizhengzishendebuzhengque，caikeyibazijitigaodaolingyigecengji，zheigeshihou，zishendeyouhuoliyejiushenggaole。

 zongjie：wanhuiyigenanrendexinduanxinyidingyaofazaiwanhuinanrendexinzuijiashijianli。zhishangbianshiyouguanwanhuiganqingdefangshi，qidaizhuweidoushihuiyouzheyiduanzhangqieryoutianmideaiqing！