挽回死心的男人的绝招

　　wanhuisixindenanrendejuezhao，tijiwanjiuhunyin，haoduorendiyifanyingdoushi“songguizhongliwu”“pinlemingzhiqian”huoshi“zhaoqinpenghaoyouquanhe”，renweizhiyaozuohaobiaomiangongzuo，jiukeyirangposundeguanlianhuidaozuichu。

　　danxianshitongchangshi，lipinjilelingyifangbuxihan，zhiqianjianglelingyifangjujuejieshou，bierenquanlefanerhuirangfenqigengjiang。

　　youxieshihou，dajiazongshixiangzheyong“xindongzuo”chuliwenti，quehushilehunyinzhong，zuixuyaoqishijiushixichudebianhua。

　　jiandandeshuo，wanjiuhunyinzuiyouxiaotujing，qishiyejiuliugezi：duoqingting，shaochize。

　　zheiliugezikanjianjianyi，dankeyichuodaoxuduohunlianwentiyaohai，bangzhuwomenjianjiandixiubulianggerendeganqing。

　　01、多倾听

　　xuduofuqi，laidaoyaofuhedechengdu，bingbushiyouduodayuanzewentifenqi，fanershiyizhiyilai“meiyourenyuanyitingbierenjianghua”。

　　liru，laopotucaogongzuolei，laogongzhangzuibianshi“sheishangbanbulei”;laogongliaodianhaizidejiaoyu，laoposhunshouqieduan“nidongshenme”。

　　shijianzhangle，liangrenxinlidehuayuegunyueda，jiediyeyueshen。

　　lingtingbushijiandande“tingdaoshengyin”，fanershifangxiazijidexintaihefenxipanduan，yongxintinglingyifangshuodemeiyijuhua。

　　rutonggebilinjuzhaojie，yiqianyulaogongtiantianchaojia，chadianerliyi。

　　zhihou，tachangshigenggai，meiyicilaogongshuohuadeshihou，tabingbuchahua、bufanbo，jinjindiandiantouhuifu，youshihouwenyiju“zhihouni”“nidangchuhenqifen”。

　　wanhuisixindenanrendejuezhao，xiangbudaocaiguoleyigeyue，laogongjiulimagentatanqilezhixinhua，shuo“henjiumeirenweinineimedongwola”。

　　shijishang，zhaojiemeiyouzuonaxiehonghonglieliedeshi，jinjinranglaogongtihuidaole“beiguanzhu”。

　　hunyinzhongdexuduofenqi，wangwangdoushiyouyu“meiyourentingwoshuohua”caisuochanshengde，erlingting，bianshijiechuzheiyijiediyibu。

　　02、少斥责

　　youduoshaogehunyinshenghuo，huidaole“xiayishichize”li?

　　laogongwangjilemaijiangyou，laopobianshuo“niweishenmezongneimecuxindayi”;laopozhufanwanledian，laogongjiumaiyuan“nizaijialianzheidianshidoubuhuizuo”。

　　zheiyangdehuakanshangqushi“tishi”，qishixiangdaogeyiyangzharuduifangxinli。

　　zhizedeyueda，duifangyeyuexiangbianbo，manmanbiancheng“nimawoyiju，wodingnishiju”deexingxunhuan。

　　haopengyoulaoyangzhiqianjiuyijinglaoaichizelaopo，zhihoulaopomingquetichufenli，zheicaihuangleshoujiao。