男人分手留后路的表现

　　nanrenfenshouliuhouludebiaoxian，zuixian，womenyinggaimingqueyidian，dangganqingpolieshi，wanliubingbushiyijianjiandandeshiqing。taxuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendou，renzhenfansi，jiqikeyiweilebicizhijianyuhunyinweilaidefazhanerfuzhunuli。xiabian，womenjiangcongsangefangmianlaitantaozenmewanhuipoliedefuqiguanxi。

　　一、分析问题，探寻根本原因

　　fenshouwanhuifuqiguanxiyiqian，womenxuyaoxianyishidaowentidecunzai，bingshizhetanxunwentidebenzhi。youxieshihou，fuqijiandemaodunhechongtubingfeiyicuerjiu，fanershiyouxuduoxiweidenantimanmanleijiercheng。yiner，womenyinggaiyongxinqingtinglingyifangdebaoyuanhebuman，lejieduifangdeyaoqiuheqidai，congerzhaodaowentidezhengjiesuoshu。

　　1. 真诚沟通交流

　　hezuoshichuliwentidehexin。womenyinggaiheduifangkaizhanzhenchengdejiaoliu，biaodazijideganshouyuxuqiu，tongshihaiyaolingtingbierendexiangfahejianyi。zaigoutongdeshihou，womenyinggaifangzhiqingxubuwending，jinkenengbaochilixinghelixing。tongguogoutong，womennenggenghaodilejiebicizhijian，xunzhaoxiangtongdianhejiejuewentidebanfa。

　　2. 反省自我

　　yizhizaixunzhaowentidegenyuandeguochengdangzhong，womenhaixuyaoshenshizijigerenxingweihexingwei。youshi，womendexingweihexingweihenyoukenengwuyijianshanghaidaolingyifang，zaochengganqingchuxianwenti。yiner，dajiaxuyaorenzhenshenshizijidegerenxingweihexingwei，zhaochuzijidecunzaidebuzu，bingbuduanjiuzheng。

　　3. 寻求专业协助

　　jiarufuqijiandenantijiaoweiyanzhong，womenkeyikaolvxunqiuzhuanyexiezhu。biru，hunyinzixunshihuoxinlizhuanjianengbangzhuwomengenghaodelejiebicizhijian，xunzhaojiejuewentidebanfa。tamennenggoutigongzhuanyedejianyiheyindao，bangwomenfujianfufuzhijiandexinrenyuqinggan。

　　二、重建信任，修复关系

　　zaizhaodaowentidebenzhihou，womenyinggaizheshouxiufuguanxi，zhongjianxinren。zheishiyigexuyaoshijianhenaixindiquanguocheng，danzhiyaowomenjianchidaodi，jiuyidingnenggouhuodechenggong。

　　1. 真诚面对困难

　　nanrenfenshouliuhouludebiaoxian，zuixian，womenyinggaitanchengdimianduikunnan，chengrenzijidecuowuyubuzu。womenyinggaixinshouchengnuo，jiduifangzhiqian，haixunuohuijinliangjiuzhengzishendewenti。yucitongshi，dajiayeyaojilingyifangchongzuderenkeyukongjian，nengrangduifangtihuidaozijidechengxinheyongqi。

　　2. 复建共同爱好

　　gongtongdegerenaihaoshizengjinfuqiganqingdeyouxiaotujing。womenkeyichangshiheduifangyiqicanjiayixiehuodonghuokechengneirong，birujianshenyundong、lvyou、pengzhideng，yizengjinbicidelejieyuhudong。zheiyangdehuodongbujinnengrangwomenzhaodaogongtongyuyanhexingquheaihao，haikeyizengqiangfufuzhijiandemoqiheqinmigan。

　　3. 造就浪漫氛围

　　langmandefenweinengrangfuqizhijianganqinggengweinonghou。womenkeyichangshiweibicizhizaoyixiexiyuelangmanshike，birusongjinyishuxianhua、anpaiyiciliangrenyuehui、xieyifengqingshudeng。zheixiexiaoxiaodexingweikeyirangduifangtihuidaodajiadeqingyiheguanai，congertishengbicizhijiandeganqing。

　　4. 相互信任

　　fenshouwanhuifuqiguanxidehuanjiezhong，womenyinggaixianghuxinren。bulunshimianduikunjinghuoshikaoyan，womendouhuixieshoutongxing，yiqimiandui。womenyinggaijiduifangchongzudelijiehezhichi，nengrangduifangtihuidaozijideshouhouheguanhuai。yucitongshi，dajiayeyaodongdezaibicixuyaoshishenchuyuanzhuzhishou，yitongduguonanguan。