女人越安静男人反而害怕失去

　　nvrenyueanjingnanrenfanerhaipashiqu，yingduilaopoguoduanlihundexintai，henduonanrenjiuhuigandaowulihejuewang，haoxianghunyinshenghuodedashazaoyitubengwajie，jianglaiyipianandan。danshi，jibianzaikanqilaiyaoyaowuqideqingxingxia，dajiayejuebunengsheqiwanjiuhunyinjianchibuxiedenuli。laopodeguoduanxintaisuiranlingrenxinsui，danzheiyejiuyiweizhetahuoxuyijingfuchulejudadeqingxuchengben，huoshiduiganqingdewentiyijingshenzhongkaolv。zheishi，womenxuyaozuodebingbushimangmugenfengdikang，fanershilixingfenxi，xunzhaowentisuozai，bingyizhenchengxingdongchangshixiubuliefeng。wanliuhunyindeguocheng，bujinjinshiduiwaijiedebianhua，yeshiduineixinshenchudemolianyuchengzhang。zheixuyaowomentourujudadenaixin、yiliheconghui，gengyinggaidajiawanquanfanshengzijizaihunyinlidexingwei，ruhegenghaodicainengzhenzhengdiaiairen、aixizheifenganqing。yixiashiyixieshijidesiluheguocheng，xiwangnenggoubangzhudaoniyizhizaiwanjiuhunyindaolushangzhaodaofangxiang。

　　一、面对现实，调节情绪，保持理性

　　dangqiziyijingquedinglihun，erqietaidufeichangguoduanshi，shouxianjiuyaojieshouzheizhongcankudeshishi。tuolixianshi、xiangxiangjingxi、naizhishituyongsipilailianquwanhui，douzhihuishideqifan，jiazhonglaopodedichu，ranglihunquedinggengjianding。renkeliyidegailv，bingbingbushiyaojiucifangqi，ershirangnikeyigengjiashenkedikandaishiwu，genglixingdizhidingwanliuduice。womenyaomingbai，hunyinshenghuobushiyicuerjiude，yebushiyichengbubiande，taxuyaoshuangfangyongxinjingying，zijueweihu。dangchuxianwenti，duobihedikangfanerhuirangnantibiandegengzao，ermianduixianshi、leguanmiandui，caisuanshijiejuewentidiyibu。

　　nvrenyueanjingnanrenfanerhaipashiqu，ciwai，qingxukongzhiyefeichangzhongyao。yingduilaopodelihunqueding，niyexuhuigandaofennu、youshang、bengkui、naizhikuijiu。zheiyangdeqingxudouhenzhengchang，danwomenbixuxuehuikongzhitamen，bimianyinweiqingxubengkuierzuodechongdonggerenxingwei。biru，youkuyounao、yanyuweixie、huoshijiatinglengbaoli，zheizhongxingweidouhuishilaopogengweiyanfanni，gengjiandinglihunxinxin。womenyinggaibaochilixing，yonglixingdedanaoqusikaowenti，yongrouhedefangshilaiheqizigoutongjiaoliu。jilao，jijiqingxuderen，cainengweilaopochanshengguishugan，cainengjiwanjiuhunyinzhizaojihui。

　　二、认真反思，找到问题的根源，真心实意悔改

　　laopotaidujianding，kendingyoutadeyuanyin。zuoweizhangfu，zanmenbunengyiweidimata，ershiyaorenzhenfansitazaihunyinzhongdewenti。womenyinggaijingxialai，huiwangzheiduanganqingshenghuodediandi，zhaodaozaochenglaopoxinxinliyidegenbenyuanyin。shiyouyugoutongbudaowei，yizhizhengzhibuxia?shiyouyuqianqueguanzhu，rangtajuedebeishoulengluo?shiyouyujiazhiguanchayi，meifadachengyizhi?yeshiyinweiyulunyali，rangqishiquduinidexinren?youhuozheyinweixingshenghuobuxiediao，rangtajuedexinhan?yihuozheshijinqianwenti、jiawuhuofentandengrichangsuosuijidianbianchengmeifakuayuede?

　　zhiyouzhaodaowentidebenzhi，caikeyiyoudefangshidijinxinggaibian。fansidequanguocheng，xuyaodajiafangdizitai，conglaopodejiaodusikaonanti，lailijieduifangdeganshouyuxuqiu。dajiawenwennizishen，wozaihunyinshenghuozhongjiujingnalizuocuole?wonaxiexingweishanghaidaolaopo?woshenmexintairangtajuedexinhan?woshenmexiguanxingrangqinanyirenshou?jinyouzhenxinchengyirenshidaozijidecuowu，caikeyichedijiejue。