如果男朋友不主动联系你怎么办，他是什么心理

 “yigenanrenbulianxini，yebushanchulaheini，taxiangyaoshenme？”xuduonvxingdouyouzheiyangdekunhuo：mianduitamenganggangjiechudaodeyixingduixiang，tamenyouyigehenhaodeyinxiang，dantamenhaimeiyouwanquanzhuiruaihe。nanrendelengmorangnvrengandaobuanquan。ruguonanpengyoubuzhudonglianxinizenmeban？

youzheizhongxinlidenvren，zhengmingnimenxinzhongyouduifang。youyunimenzaidengdaiduifangdezhudong，nimenzijiyebuzhudong。

weishenmenanfangbulianxinvfang，bushanchunvfang，lahei？

有三个原因

1.欲擒故纵

 yigenanrenbulianxinishiyinweitarenwei“huohou”goule，xiandouni，ranhourangnidongxin。dangnibeitayouhuoshi，zaicichenmo。yongyuqinguzongdefangfabinizhudong！

ganqingbujinmeili，erqieshangren。lianghaodeguanxikeyishirenkuaile.jijileguan。yiduanshibaide，yenengshirentuifei。

yinci，zaiganqingzhong，sheixiandongxin，sheixianshu。

2.tashangliangsouchuan，nizhishiyigebeitai

 nanrenbulianxinideyuanyinshiyinweitamenyoulexindeairen。nizhishigebeitai。dangtaheniyouyiduanshijiandeaimeiguanxi，faxiannishiyigechidundenvrenshi，tashoubule，kaishixuanzexiayigemubiao。zhijieledangdishuo，nizhishitadebeitai。

3.他是海王

 dangyigenvrenkusi：“taweishenmebulianxiwo，yebulahei？.shanchuwo？”jiuzainijiaojinnaozhixiangduifangshishenmeyisideshihou，henyoukenengtayijingyouleyiduinvpengyou，buqueniyige。

 youyizhongjiaohaiwangdenanren，ganqingfengfu，shenbianbuquenvren。nikenengzhishitagudu.jimodeshihouanweixinlingdelequ。tabujidenishishei，dangtaxianrunvrendui。

 ouernihuijitafagexinxi，tahuifanyingguolai：“e，yuanlaizheigejiejieyedashanguo”ruguonanpengyoubuzhudonglianxinizenmeban？

nanrenbuzhudonglianxini，yebulahei.shanchu，ruhejiejue？

 nanrenbuzhudonglianxini，yebulahei.shanchushi，zhuyaokannvfangduizheiduanguanxidetaidu。jiaruliangrendeganqingyijingdaoleyidingchengdu，huozhequerenleguanxi，zhijiewenta：“niweishenmezheimejiulaikanni？”。

zhenzhengainidenanren，manyandoushini，tadeshijiandoushinide。bulianxi，jiushibuai！

要想弄清楚，男人不主动联系你该怎么办

shouxianyaonongqingchuzijiduizheiduanganqingdedingwei，ranhouyigeyigedidapo，wentijiuhuiyingrenerjie。

①.putongguanxi=shunqiziran

ruguozhishiyibandepengyouguanxi，weishenmehaiyaozaiyiduifanghuibuhuizhudonglianxini？.weishenmebushanchu？

yibanpengyoudezhengchangbiaozhunshi：youshilianxi，wushichenmo，ranhouzhujianxiaoshizaibicidepengyouquanli。

 renyurenzhijiandeganqingshirucishengdong，huoreqingruhuo，fazhanchenglianren。yaomefanlianburenren，fendaoyangbiao，guozijideshenghuo，anjingxialai。

ganqingzhong，zuihaodezhuangtaishi：buduguoqu.buweiweilai，buluanyuxin，bukunyuqing，suoyianhao。

②.donglezhenganqing=zhudongchuji

jiaruniduizheiduanganqinggandaozhencheng，xiangyaojixuxiaqu，yebubishishidengnanrenzhudong。

 dangnanrenxiguanyuzhudongshi，tamenyehuigandaopilao。tarenweinishiyigemanredenvren，bunengzhuizhu，suoyitabuxianglangfeishijian。bijing，zaichengrenshijieli，shijianchengbenxiangdanggao。

③.querenduifangshihuaxinluobu=shanchulaheita

youxienvrenshilianainao，zhiyaonanrenshaoweigouyinyixia，tajiukaishihuanxiang，yiweinanrenzhendeaishangleta。

 shishishang，nvxingdeganxingsiweishilianaizhongzuitongkude。nanrendelixingsiweishitamendemubiaofeichangmingque，tamenzhidaoweishenmeyaolianxinvren。

daduoshunanrenduinvrendehaoganshi：shiyuyanzhi，zhongyurenpin，ermudeshixing。

 yinci，dangniquedingzhuiqiunidenanrenshiyigewanpidenanrenshi，nibixuhaobuyouyudilaheiren.shanchu，qianwanbuyaozailajiduilizhaonanpengyou。jiarubuzhidaojiejushishenme，kankanmasichun。

 ruguonanpengyoubuzhudonglianxinizenmeban？wulunnannv，dangnixiangqingchudijinruyiduanganqingshi，yidingyaokanqingchuduifangdexingge，aishangkekaoderen，nijiubuhuishoudaoshanghai。xiangfan，nanrenhuonvrenbuyinggaizhudonghuobuzhudong，zhiyousheidongdezhenxishei。