越不接受分手男人越怕你，男人反感你了怎么样才能挽回

 “nanrenzhuinvrenshishibing，zhuinvrenshijiangjun。”dangyigerenshiyimingshibingshi，tahuisuijiaosuidao，dandangtachengweiyimingjiangjunshi，tahuiyunizhengduoguanxizhongdezhudaodiwei。henduonvhaihuiwen，zaiyiqizhihou，tamendenanpengyousihubuxiangyiqianneimeaiwole。weishenme？nanrenfangannilezenmeyangcainengwanhui？

 shishishang，zheibingbushishuonibuai，yinweiyigejiankangdeqinmiguanxi，yifangfuchu，lingyifangxiangshou。dangnirenweitabuxiangyiqianneiyangainishi，yexunirengrananzhaoyiqiandebiaozhunwenta。suizheshijiandetuiyi，nanrenhuijuedehenizaiyiqihenlei，suoyitamenfenshoule。

neizheiyangdefenshouzenmenengfuheni？

 nizhixuyaolijieyitiaofeichangjiandandedaolu。nanrenbunengjianchiyiduanhuoredeguanxi。niyuebujieshoufenshou，nanrenjiuyuehaipani。zaizheigeshihou，nisuoyaozuodejiushijieshoufenshou，jiejinta。duwanzheipianwenzhanghou，nihuifaxian，shishishang，jigejiandandebuzhoukeyirangniyinghuitadexin。

zainikanlai，“zaihu，qiuhe”zainanrendexinmuzhongkenenghaiyoubiedeyiyi。

一、你的复合问题

1.jingchangshuacunzaigan，yuqianrenjiuchan。

 dangwomendiyicifenshoushi，shimeigerenqingxubuwendingdeshihou。ruguonizaiduifangxinfanyiluanshishiqukongzhi，chongjinduifangdeshenghuo，duifanghuigandaojidubushufu，danhuibimianshenzhiqieduanyunidesuoyoulianxi。ruguonishiqukongzhi，jishitarengranaini，tayehuirenweinishiyigejiuchanbuqingderen。niyiqianmeiyoufaxian。xianzainifaxianniyouqiangliedekongzhiyu，nanrenziranhuiliniyueyuanyuehao。

2.buxiyiqiedaijia，buzeshouduan。

zongshibayigerenfangzaizuili，bingbuyidingyiweizhezhendeaiyigerendaoguzili，yinweizaitadeguannianli，youliangzhongrenzhi:

①jiaruwofuchu，jiuhuiyouhuibao；

②niyinggaijieshouwojinidedongxi。

 zheizhongrenzhihenrongyidaozhiganqingzhongdedaodebangjia。jishinimenzhongguiyuhao，nimendeguanxiyehuibupingheng。ruguoniyoudianbukaixin，nihuixiangdaoniweizheiduanguanxifuchulezheimeduo，budebubuxiyiqiedaijiahetazaiyiqi，dengdeng。dangniyaoqiudeshihou，nibeiyuanwangle。zheiyangdehuahewuhuxiangzhemo。

3.shituyongduifangdetongqingxinmaican

 qinmiguanxipoliedeyuanyinyouhenduo。yexunipiqibuhao，zongshichaojia；zheikenengshiyinweibicichengzhangdebufabuyizhidengdeng。danwulunruhe，yiduanguanxidekaishishicongxiyinkaishide，eryiduanguanxidejieshuwangwangshicongshiqujiazhikaishide。

zuichu，nimendeguanxifendaoyangbiaoshiyinweishiqulexiyinlihedijiazhi。fenshouhoumaidebuhao，wuyiyuhuoshangjiaoyou。

 yinci，jishinifeichangjiaolv，xiwangtalijihuidaonishenbian，jiniguanxinhezhaogu，niyeyinggaijizhu，huifushiyigekunnandeguocheng，niderenhelumangxingweidouhuilangfeiniyiqiandenuli。

二、如何重新连接

 huifulianxidefangfayouhenduo。henduorenhuigaosunibuyaozhaoduifangdepengyou，dengdeng。zheibingfeibuheli。ruguoniquduifangdeqinqipengyouneilizuoshuoke，duifanghuiyanjuannichuangrutadequanzi。raner，ruguotazhishiyonglaixunwenxinxi，worengranjianyi“shuanggui”lianxifangshi——nideqianrenhenizhouweiderendouyinggaibanigaibiandexinxichuandijiduifang。

yibanqingkuangxia，womenhuixiantongguobierenchuandanidefansihejiuzhengcuowudexinxi。zheiyousangemude：

1.zengjiaxinxidekexindu：tongguopengyoudechuandi，huixiayishidijiangditaduixinxidejingti，congerxiangxinnizhendebianle。

 2.jifaqianrendehaoqixin：ruguonizhouweiderengaosutani，neikendingbushi。tahuijuedenihaizaikongzhita，danruguoyigehaopengyouwuyizhongtidaoleyixieguanyunidexinxi，zheihuirangtagandaohaoqi，bingguanzhuni；

3.ceshiqianrenduinidefanying：zheishiyizhonghenhaodeceshifangfa，dangnibuquedingqianrenduinidetaidushi。

 suirannizhouweiderenkeyizuoweinimenzhijiandeqiaoliang，dantamenbushizhuli。buyaorangtamentainuli。ruguonitainuli，yidannirangduifangzhidaonizaihuilutazhouweiderenshuohaohua，tahuigengjiayane，juedenigongkailetamendesishi，jizijidailailemafan。

 huifuganqingbujinzaifangfashanghenzhongyao，erqiezaishijianshangyehenzhongyao。ruguonixiangzaizuihaodeshijianyizuihaodefangshifuhe，nikeyihewotantan。fenxihou，laoshihuigaosunifuhedechenggonglv，zuihaodeqingganfuheshijian，zuihaodefuhefangfa，bingjiaonifuhecaozuodemeiyibu。

三、观察期的吸引法

 daduoshurendefenshouwufeishishiquyixiaxiyinli:xingxiyinli(waimao、shencai)、qingganxiyinli(shenghuotaidu、qingganjiazhi)、shengcunxiyinli(wuzhitiaojian、fengxianjingshen)。yinci，zaiyudaonideqianrenzhiqian，nibixuweizheixiejinshengzuohaozhunbei。(anlijindaibiaogeren，shijixiaoguoyinreneryi)

 gaibianhejinshengbujinjinshishuoshuoeryi。nibixurangtaganshoudaonizhenzhengdegaibian。wocengjingyouyigexueshengzaifenshouqijianbangeyuejiandiaole10gongjin。dangtazhidaozheigexiaoxishi，tahenjingya，suoyitadayingzaitongxuejuhuihoulijilaidaoxueshengsuozaidechengshi。

 zheishiyigezhenzhengdebianhua，suoyizaitamenjianmianhou，zheigerendetaidufeichangreqing，yinweitamenfenshoudeyuanyinshiqingganqipian、xingxianghepiqi。dangduifangkandaotashi，tayehenhaoqi。tazaizheiduanshijianlijinglileshenme？

zheishizhenshibianhuahoudefuhesudu，suoyidangnizhanshinidebianhuashi，yidingyaofenxishishenmeyangdejiazhisunshidaozhinifenshou。

 ruguonirengranbaochilianxi，jiugengrongyixianshizheixiebianhua。zhiyaorangtazhuyinijiuxingle——buyaotaipinfan。takeyishiyizhongyouqudeshenghuozhuangtai，yizhongjijidesixiangrenzhi，huozheyixiedakajilulaizhengmingwozhendezaigaibian。

jiaruniyijingbeiqianrenwanquanshanchu，meiyoupingtaixianshinidebianhua。

zheixuyaoxiayigezhunbei：yifengzhongzixin。

 meigerendeqinggantiyandoushibutongde。yuqicongbierendegushizhongxunzhaofuhecelve，buruhelaoshitantan。laoshibujinkeyiquanmianfenxinidewenti，haikeyigaosuniruhetigaonidefuhelv。

四、用“种子信”恢复联系

xiexindehaochuzhiyishi，takeyirangduifangwanzhengdiyuedunidechenshu。

bijing，meigerendouyouhaoqixin。shoudaohouhuixiangkankannishuoleshenme。

 suoyinixuyaoxie200pianwenzhang~300zide“zhongzixin”zaizheiduanshijianli，biaodanidefansiheganshou。nanrenfangannilezenmeyangcainengwanhui？

zheifengxindehexinneirongbaokuoyixiayinsu：

①接受分手的事实。

②shidangdedaoqian，fansizijiguoqudebuchengshu。

③zaiduifanglikaihoubiaodanidexinlibianhua。

④chengkendiyaoqiuduifanghuifulianxifangshi。

zaiduanduande200~zhei300zizhong，niyinggaiqingchudichuandazheigexiangfa：

 woyijingjieshouleshishibingzuochulegaibian。yiqianwohaibugouchengshu。xianzaixiangyipengyoudeshenfenyunijianlilianxi，rangnikandaoyigebuyiyangdewo。

 yuyanbixujianjiemingle。zaizheigeshihou，buyaobaoyuantongkuhuozhongcheng。nibixurangduifangyishidao，zainijiahuilaihou，nibuhuizaijiujiele，tahuihenleyizaiciyunilianxi。

五、以“弥补遗憾”约他出来

 dangnizaicipengyoushenbianshi，wozhidaonihenxingfen，xiangmashanggaosutanideyihan，nidegaibian，nidexiangfa...danshiyuexiangshuohua，jiuyuexuyaobizui。

 gaibianbushinizijidekuayao，ershirangtajuedetaqinyankandaodeshizuizhenshide；qici，nitongguoqingsongdehuayuhejijideshenghuozhuangtaichenggongdixiyinletadezhuyi。suoyibuyaotijizheixiebuyukuaidehuiyi。

 jiexialai，baochipengyouquangengxindepinlv，zhutikaishixiangtaguoqudexingquqingxie。womenzhengzaidengdaiyigejihui——tadeaihepinglun。

zheiyijudongbujinyiweizhetaganxingqu，erqieyiweizheyijianfeichangzhongyaodeshiqing：tayuanyirangnizhidaotaduizheijianshiganxingqu。

 zheishiyigehenhaodeqiekou，danbuyaowangjita。womenzhixuyaojiecijihuiyutajiaotan，gaosutazheishinizuijinzaizuodeshiqing，fenxiangnideganshouhezhuangtai——zheijiushiquanbu。buyaoyixiazixiaohaosuoyoudeqinggannengliang。womenbixushouxianrangbicixiguanyuniliaotian。

jiexialai，zaiwangshangliaolesanwucizhihou，keyishizheyaoqingtacanjiayougongtongxingqudehuodong。

youyuyixiajigeyuanyin，nindechenggonglvjiangfeichanggao：

1.nideqianrenduinizanbujuekou，pingjiahengao，yijingmingquebiaodalexingqu。

2.qianrenyuanyiheniliaotianhudong，shuomingtayijingzhujianxiexialeduinidepaichi。

 3.yuqianrenyuehui，yikao“gongtongxingqu”zheigemeijie。nimendeguanxishiyougongtongxingqudepengyou，buhuirangtagandaominganhuoganga。

fuheshiyiduangududelvcheng，danzhiyaoninenglijienanrendexinli，fuhezhishishijianwenti。

 nanrenfangannilezenmeyangcainengwanhui？huifuganqingdezuizhongmijueshizuoyigegenghaodeziji。weilerangniweifuheernuli，zheibuhuishitulaode。zheixieliliangjiangshenshendimaizangzainidexinzhong，yindaonijianlijiankangdeqingganguanxi。fenshouhou，womenyinggaiyouyongqimianduikangfu。ruguowomenzongshixuanzeduobi，liefengzhihuiyuelaiyueda。