为什么恋爱进入倦怠期会是感情升华的时刻，恋爱期间怎样提升感情

 yexunibuzhidao，zheijuhuahaiyouhoubanju：“aiqingjinrujuandaiqi，yaomeshiganqingshenghuadeshike，yaomeshiganqingpoliedekaishi。”yinweisuoweidejuandaiqishijishangshilianggerenzhenzhenglengjingxialai，huxiangshenshi.tiyanganjue，panduanshifouheshi。lianaiqijianzenyangtishengganqing？

biqiaimeiqideweixun，lianaiqidemangmu，moheqidexiangaixiangsha，juandaiqicaishizhenzhengtanchengxiangdaideshiqi。

jiuxiangyipingyinliao，zhiyouzaibulengburedeshihou，cainengchangdaotadeyuanwei，cainengzhidaotashifoushihezijidekouwei。

 yexutahuihongzhanideweilei，rangniyiciyouyicididiantou；yexutadebiaoxianpingping，buzaiyoudangchukoukeshi，congbingxiangliyiyinerjin。

由于倦怠期，往往伴随着双面属性

比如：

1.xinxiangandeliushi，richanggandejuzeng

 bijing，shenghuoshiyouputongerzhongfuderichangsuoshizuchengde。zaijinglilenianqingerrexuedeqingchunqizhihou，juedaduoshuchengnianrenrengranxiwangzijideganqingnengzaiturangzhongzhanfang，zaipingdanzhongxunzhaoxingfu。tamenzaojiumingbai，zhenaibujinshichongdongdetiandi，yeshirichangshenghuozhongjileidexinren。

 erjuandaiqishirichangganjueturanzengjiadeshiqi.guanxizhenzhengluodideshiqi。huoxunihennanganshoudaoguoqudexindonglangman，danquegengjiajiaotashidi。

tarangnixiangxin，zaiyiduanzhenzhengdeqinmiguanxizhong，chulezijizhiwai，haiyoulingyigerendezerengan。

2.jiyidejilei，yilaihexiguandexingcheng

 henduoshihou，nibunengmeiyouyigerendeyuanyinbushiyinweizheigerenyouduohao，ershiyinweinifuchuletaiduo。ruguonifuchutaiduo，nijiubuhuifangqi，yebuhuifangqi。niningyuanjixujiuchanshoushang，yebuyuanfangshou。nizongshijuedeniyinggaishouzhipingheng，jieguobuzhiyuci。

 yinci，juandaiqizhudingshiyiqiansuoyoujieduandouwufadadaodezuigaochengben。meiyicimeili，meiyicizhengchao，meiyiciyanleihexiaosheng，doubushinitouzidedaijia。

zheixiechengbensuzaodejieguoshijiyi.yilaihexiguan，shishenrugusuideshentou，shiwuyishideshufu。

3.moqidugao，buketidaixingzengjia

buzhidaoniyoumeiyouzhuyidao，yiduanqinmideguanxi，wangwang“xindong”he“shushi”bunengjiande。

 niyuetouru，yuexihuan，yuejuedezijiaideyaosi，zheiduanganqingyuerangnibushufu，yuerangnihuandehuanshi.ziwohuaiyi.xianruyiyu。

 xiangfan，dangganqingfazhandaoyigewendingdeshiqi，xindongbiandeyuelaiyueshao，danmoqibiandeyuelaiyueduo。nixugengwending，qingxugengchengshu，xiangchugengziran。

 zhengyinweiruci，nirenweizijideganqingburuyiqianle——danshishishang，dangnishitugaibiannidelianxirenshi，nirengranhuifaxianmeiyourenbixianzaideguanxigengshufu.gengmoqi。

jianjinjianjindeguanxi，kansibutongbuyang，shizewufatidai。

另一方面，倦怠期也存在麻木成性的缺点

1.xianghulejiejiashen，yinanmianbaolu

laohuachangshuo“duoshuoduocuo”qinmiguanxiyeshiruci。

duolejie，wangwangyedaibiaozhekandaodequedianzengduo。lianaiqijianzenyangtishengganqing？

 dangnimenbugoulejiedeshihou，nimencongyuanchukanzheduifang。nizhikandaotayingjunganjingdewaibiao，quekanbudaotadeyanjiuxiguan。tazhinengwendaonianjingkerendexiangwei，dantaconglaimeiyoujiaoguonirenxingduoyidexingge。

nimendourenweiduifanghenhao，yinweiqianbodemianjubuzuyimiaoshuyigezhenshidegeti。

 suizhelijiedejiashenhequediandeyigejieyigedebaolu，nihuibuduandigandaodajiheshiluo，duifangyeshiruci。ruguoniyudaoyixieyourichangsuoshiyinqideqingganweiji，tamenzhijiandeguanxihenrongyixianrukunjing。

2.zengjiapanduankeguanshifeidenengli，butaikenengshoudaoganqingdeyingxiang

jiarushuorelianqishichixushangtou，neimejuandaiqijiushichixuxiatou。

 yikaishi，neixierangnimangmuchongdongdeheermengzhongjiuhuipingjingxialai，neixiedeqingxuzaizhongfuzhongmamu，beiganxingmengbidelixinghuizaixianshizhongzhujianlengqueheqingxi。

 dangqingganhuanjingpomieshi，shuangfangjiangshiyongkeguanbiaozhun——shenzhibikeguanbiaozhungenggaodebiaozhunlaiyaoqiuhepanduanduifang。suoyitamenduibicibumanyi.tandewuyanshichangyoudeshi。

3.pingdandeshenghuoquefaciji，quefaaiqinggan

suoweiqinianzhiyang，jiushiduipingdanmamudedikang。

jishizaihenduoganqinghaodeqinglvzhijian，yebufa“zhuiqiuciji”erfenliederen。

 yinweipingdanlehenjiu，wojiumamule。woshenzhijuedechaojiahenmafan。ruguowoshiqulehonghonglieliedelianaigan，wohuibeirenweishiwoziji。“buaile”。

zhisuoyichengwei“juandai”zheiyeshiyuanyin。

leile，leile，leile，zaihaoyehennanruyan。

youcikejian，“juandaiqi”zheibenshenjiushiyibashuangrenjian。

meiyoulianggerentianshengshihe，danzhiyaobicixiangai，yiqinuli，juandaiqizhendekeyirangganqingcong“xihuan”shenghuawei“shenai”;

danshichuxianleyidianxiaocuowu，juandaiqiyexiangdangrongyiyipailiangsan，bukanyiji。

 lianaiqijianzenyangtishengganqing？zhengshiyinweitadecuiruoxing，tayejianglilesuoyouanquanduguozheiyicuiruoshiqideren，shitamengengjiagaogui.gengjiangu.gengmoqideguanxi。