ruguonidebanlvshineizhongbuhuishuohuaderen,womengaizenmeban?zheishiwomenxuduonvrendetongku。wojuedewodenanrenzhendebuhuai,dantabuhuishuohua。tayikaikoujiurangwoshengqi。nanshengqingshangdibuhuishuohuazenmeban?
jintian,woxiangpujiyigexuyaoxianghuxunhuadeqinmiguanxidegainian。shenmeyisi?yigebuhuishuohuaderenzhijieledangdishuo,tadeqingshangxiangduijiaodi。ciwai,tabutaishanzhangtigongqingganjiazhi。
danshiniyoumeiyouxiangguo,tabujinjinshizheiyangduidaini。zaitaguoqudechengzhanghuanjingzhong,tadefumujiletazheiyangdejiaoyu,huozhetajiletazheiyangdeshifan,tashuodehenzhijieledang。
huanjuhuashuo,nimenlianggeqingshanggaoderenyidingshini。ranhouniyinggaixuehuijiaota。ruguonijiaota,nihuixiangchudehenhao,nideganjueyehuihenhao。neimewomendaodigaizenmebanni?
第一,我们必须学会在情感上占据高位
ruguotaxiangbianpaoyiyangshengqi,nibixulengjing。ruguonixiangtayiyang,tayibeizidoubuhuishuodehao。nizheiyangrenweima?huanjuhuashuo,nibixujitayigezhengquedeshifan。
liru,dangnizhongwuqucanguanchifan,ranhoudabaoyixiepanzishi,neigerengaosuni:xianzaiqiwenhengao。dangnihuiqudeshihou,jidemashangbatafangzaibingxiangli。jieguo,dangtaxiabanhuilaishi,tafaxianpanzihaizaizhuozishang。
tafeichangshengqi:wogaosuguoniduoshaocile,wofaxiannijiushizheiyang。nisuozuodeyiqiedoushihuangusizhou。shengyinhenda。cishiwomendezhengchangfanyingshishenme?nizaihanshenme?woshinideqizi,bushinidepuren。ruguowobufangshou,wojiubufangshou。nizhidaoshenmeshizunzhongma?
nikan,zheilianggerenkendinghuichaojia。zaizheigeshihou,niyinggaixuehuiyongnizijidexingdongxiangtazhanshishenmeshizhenzhengdezunzhong:wozhidaowodezhangfu。ranhoubadongxifangzaibingxiangli,ranhougaosutayuanyinshishenme。nanshengqingshangdibuhuishuohuazenmeban?
yuqibixupingjing:gangcainizouhou,wokanzhetianyoudianyin,suoyiwoqushoujiyifu,shoujiyifu,guanshangchuanghu。ranhouwoxiangdaoyangtaishangyoujishuangxiebeimeishoule,woqushoujixiezi。mangleyihuier,wowangle,pingjingdishuo。
第二,一定要说出你的感受
gangcainilaogongneiyang,zhendehedaowole。womeixiangdaonihuiweilezheimexiaodeshiqingduiwodahandajiao。xianzaijuedeyoudianweiqu,biaoqingyoudiankelian。ranhou,zaizheigeshihou,nikenenghuinannanziyu,gaosuniyixieshiqing。nizongshizheiyang。congmingderenzhidaoqizibukaixindeshihouhuidaoqian。
第三,我们必须提出要求
zheigeyaoqiushiweileshenme?rangtayouzhangjiudejiyili,huizengqiangnimenxiangchudelequ。nikeyizheiyanggaosuta:nijuedenixianzairangwoxinqingbuhao。niyinggairuhebuchangwo?
yejiushishuo,nixianyongshifan,ranhoushuochunideganshou,zaijiashangyaoqiupeichangdefangshi,xiangtabiaomingnizuozheijianshishicuowude。nizuozheijianshirangwoganjuebuhao,suoyinibixuweicifuchudaijia。
danshinicongtoudaoweidoumeiyouzemata,yejiushishuo,zaiqinmideguanxizhong,henduoshihounibushuoneixieweidadezhenli,zhishiyongyixieshijidexingdonglaigaosuta。
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