如何冷漠起来？

 henduopengyoudouwangshangzhuzenyangxunlianlengdan、zenyanglengdanqi？jiqingderenhelengmoderenshibutong。bierenyehuiyouyulengdanershengxuduoshi。wojuedelengdanshibixuxingshenqichangde。qichangyuanrunhounenggousuiyidediaojiezishen。

wangbianjiushiyonghafuguanlishijiezhongdeyipianwenzhangxiaomin，laijiaojiaodahuoerzenyangxunlianlengdan。

一、怎样冷淡起來？

1、最先还要稳重。

1.1、bubisuiyixianchunidexintai

1.2、bubifengrenjiushushuonidejiannanhezaoshou

1.3、zaizhengqiutarendejianyiyiqian，xianzizhusisuo

1.4、bubiyihaiyoujihuijiuxutaonideweiman

1.5、zhongyaodejuedingjinkenengyoutarenshangyi，shigemeitianzaigongbu

1.6、fayanbubiyouyiqiedejinghuang，xingzoudoushi

2、仔细

2.1、duishenpangchanshengdeshiqing，changsisuotamendeluojiguanxi

2.2、duizuobujishideshixingnanti，yaowajuetamendebenzhiwenti

2.3、duijianguaibuguaidebanshifangshi，yaoyougaishanhuotishengdetiyi

2.4、ganshenmeshiqingbixupeiyangjingranyouxuhezhixujingrandexiguanxing

2.5、changchangquzhaohaoduogetarenkanbuchudewentihuoquedian

3、胆略

3.1、zishenyaosuishiduiyouyidingdebugoudediqubuwei

3.2、bubichangjianbuzixindejuzi

3.3、bubijingchanghuiyue，suibiandadaozaoyijuecede

3.4、zaixuduorenzhengchaonanxiushi，bubimeiyoushangjinxin

3.5、zongtiqifenxiaochenshi，nikeyikailang、taiyang

3.6、zuoyiqieshiqingbixurenzhen，youyuxuduorenzaikanni

3.7、shiqingburuyideneishihou、xiekouqizhong，zaicizhaoxuntupodian、jiuwanbihaiyaogancuililuo。

4、大度

4.1、bubiyouyibayoujianghuishixiaohuobanderenbianweidiren

4.2、duitarendexiaoguocuo、xiaobuzhengquebubixiaodujichang

4.3、zaiqiancaishangyingdaqi，xuexipeixunsanshi（caishi、fashi、wusuoweijushi）

4.4、bubiyouquanlidegaoaohezhuanyezhishidechengjian。

4.5、yiqiechengxiaohegongxiandouyinggaihetarengongxiang

4.6、wubixuduorenxunzhihuowusifengxiandeneishihou，zishenzouzaiqianbian。

5、诚信

5.1、meifazuodaodeshiqingbubishuo，jiangguojiujiabeinuli

5.2、xudebiaoyuhuoxuanchuanyububichangguazuibian

5.3、duiyugukemingquetichude“buchengxin”nanti，quchugaijindefangshi

5.4、zhongzhirenhe“buchengshi”defangshi

5.5、shuanongjiaoaozida、qieji！

5.6、cesuanyixiaxiashangpinhuofuwuxiangmudechengxinfuchudaijia，neibianshizhimingpinpaichengbenfei。

二、怎样拒绝冷漠？

renmenyaozenyangjujuelengmo？wojuedejianmeibanfadeshi，danshiyayiganzishenxinlideniantou。

 wojuedejujuelengmoshimeiyoubixude，renmenhuanshisuixinsuoyujiuhaola。jibuyubierengoutongjiaoliusixiangganqing，youduibierendebeijulengyanpangguan、shierbujian、meishenmezerenxin。jianguanlezheirenshijianrenshengbaitai，yeyebuneimazaihurenxinxiane、shitaiyanliangle。zhenxinhuoshijiaxin，wozhuyijiena。youyuworenweimeizheizhongdeyushiquanshirenshengdaoludezheizhongguocheng。