如何打破夫妻冷战的局面 打破冷战的方法

 danglianggerenshenghuozaiyiqishi，zhengchaoshibukebimiande。danzhengchaohoudelengzhanshanghailetamendeganqing。yinweitamenliangrendoujujuexiangduifangditou，lengzhanwangwangchixuhenzhangshijian。zheiwuyihuishanghailianggerendeganqing，suoyihenduonvxingpengyouyefeichangkewangzhidao，mianduilengzhan，tamenyinggaizuoxieshenmelaixunsudapolianggerenzhijiandeguanxi，dapolengzhanhuidaotongchangdehexiehemeilideqingganzhuangtai。yixiasigejiqiaokenenghuibangzhuyouzheigewentidenvxing。

1.生活中的持续关怀

 lengzhanqijian，liangrenzongshibaochilinggoutongzhuangtai，danzaizheizhongqingkuangxia，tamenweizhangfuzhunbeilediertianchuandeyifu，caganjingdexiezi，huozhepaoleyibeirechaheyidunrefan。zheixiejudongshimomodijiduifangyibudebiaoxian。yexutayijingxianghenishuohuale，dantameiyoujihui，danxinnihuihulvetayunidejiaoliu。ruguotazheiyangzuo，taziranhuilijienidetaidu。zaizheigeshihou，zhiyaotachinizuodefanhuochuannizhunbeihaodeyifu，nimenlianggezhijiandelengzhanjumianjiuhuihenkuaidakai。zaizheigeshihou，ruguoniwenrenhewenti，tadouhuihuiyingni。

2.寻求亲戚、朋友的帮助

 dangnibunenghenhaodijiejuezheigewentishi，duinideqinqihepengyouyinmanbushiyigehaodexuanze。ruguonimenlianggeyinweilengzhaneryouhenduoyanzhongdewenti，nimenbufangzaijialixunqiuqinqiheputongpengyoudebangzhu。yijiarenyiqichifanhuocanjiahuodonghuiweinimenliangchuangzaohenduopobingdejihui。zaizheigeshihou，yigecongmingdefangfashibaochibicidemianzi。zainimendourenshiderendelianshang，nishouxianbiaoxianchuxiangduijiaodidetaidu。woxiangxintabuhuiguyibujinimianzide。youlezheigejihui，lianggerenhuijiahoukeyihenhaodigoutong。

3.用孩子当“借口”

 buguanshishei，tayidingxiangzaihaizimianqianbaochijiatinghexiedexingxiang。nanrenhenvrendoubuxiangrangtamendehaizizhidaozheiduifufuzhengchuyulengzhanshiqi。yinci，dangnimeiyoujihuiyulingyibandapojiangjushi，nibufangqiuzhuyunidehaizi，zhenchengdigaosunidehaizinimenzhijianyouyidianmaodun，xuyaotadebangzhu。woxiangxinnidehaizihuihengaoxingtongyide。zaizheigeshihou，babamama，nimenlianggeweishenmebushuohua?nichaojialema?meiyoujieshi，nimenlianggehuishunlikaishigoutong。zongzhi，womenbixuzhuazhuzheigejihui。

4.先低头的那个

 shishishang，danglianggerenzaiyiqishi，dapolengzhan，mianzibingbuneimezhongyao。ruguonixiangzhenzhenghuanhezheiduanguanxi，baituolengzhan，zuizhongyaodeshizuoyigexianditouderen。xianditoubingbuyiweizhenishule，niyebubigandaoxiukui。xiangfan，diyigeditouderenwangwangkaolvdaozhengtiqingkuang，gengkuanrong。zailengzhanzhong，ruguolianggerenbuditou，dengdaiduifangzhaodaoziji，neimezheiduanguanxijiuyongyuanbuhuidapojiangju。yinci，weilegenghaodibaohuzheizhongguanxi，nibufangzhudongxianditou。nidanxinhenjiudeshiqinghuihenrongyijiejuede。