不想冷战了，如何打破冷战

xianshishenghuozhong，henduofuqichaojia，shuangfangdoujuedeyaodengdaoduifangditoucainengjieshu“zhanzheng”danduifangshiyingqi，juebuditougaizenmeban?ruhedapolengzhan？zhendeshizhijiefenshouhaishilihun?danshizhudongpao，haoxiangyoudiulianle，neiwogaizenmeban?

幸福

woyouyigetongxue，tahenguzhi。ruguotahebierenchaojia，tahennanditou。hetananpengyoudelengzhanyiyang，tahenshaozhudongqiuhe。tadefangfabushishuohua，ershizuoshi。lengzhanjieshuhou，tahenanyoudiertianjiuchongdaonanyoujia，kaishixiwan，shoushijiawu，yijuhuayemeishuo。youshihouhuizhudongjitazuofan，danbiaomianshanghaishimeiyourouruandeyisi。zheishi，tadenanpengyoutongchanghuiguaiguaidigenzheta，butingdihetashuohua，danbuguantashuoshenme，tajiushibulita，dantahaishizaixingdongshangbangtagongzuo。

dangtajihubananpengyoudejiadasaoganjing，huozhebushuohuashi，tahuixishou，nazhebaozhunbeilikai。tongchangzaizheigeshihou，tadenanpengyouhuibatalazou，ranhouliangrenyouhejiele。

感情

yeyouyixienvhaikeyidapolengzhandejiangju。liru，ruguotahenanpengyouchaojiasantianhourengranmeiyoukandaotaditou，tahuizhudongjitafaweixinyanjiang。dangran，tashuodeyutamenchaojiadeneirongwuguan。yibanlaishuo，gongzuohuolianggerendepengyoufashengleshenme。batafangchulai“wobuxiangzhudonghenishuohua，ershibeipozhaoni”mudeshixianhuanjiejiangju。danglianggerenliaotianshi，keyishuoyixiebutongbuyangdehua，biru：“zheijitiannibuliwoshibushigongzuotaimangle?”“nibuliwoyouxinhuanma?”kaiyixiewuguanjinyaodexiaohua。zongzhi，nikeyitanlunrenheshiqing，dannibunengtanlunjitianqiandezhengchao。xiacijianmianshi，liangrenzuoxialailiaotian，ranhouhaohaotantan，fenxishangcizhengchaodeyuanyin。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，renmengenglengjinghelixing，gengrongyilijieduifang。

haiyoulingyizhongfangfa。youyigenvhai，meicihenanpengyouchaojia，liangtianhoujiuhuizhijiezhaonanpengyou，zhongfutamendangshichaojiadeshiqing，ranhouzaishuomoujuhuadeshihoutingxialai。ranhoutahuishuo:nishuodehuashanghailewo。tongshi，tahaiyunxunanyoubiaodabuman。liangrengaoxingdifenxileshiqingdeyuanyin，yiyijiejue，bimianwujie。

状态

zuoweiyiduifufu，zhengchaozongshibukebimiande，zhengchaobuyidingshiyijianhuaishi，dankeyirangganqingshengwen，danlengzhanzuihaozaitongyitianhejie，fouzewanguderentongchanghenrongyibeiai。