冷战的正确处理方式 异地恋的正确处理方式

 ruguoniwenyigenvhai，nizuihaipashenme?woxiangxinhenduorendedaandoushiyiyangde：lengbaoli。wobuzhidaoshenmeshihoukaishi。zaimeiyicizhengchaozhong，nidenanpengyouyijingchengweichenmodedaibiao，zhiliuxianixiesidili。danwomenyezhidao，lengbaolibingbuyiweizhewomenbuai，ershiwomenbuzhidaoruhequai。baituolengbaolibingbuxiangnixiangxiangdeneimekunnan。nizhidao，lengbaoliwangwangshiyulengzhan。nvhairuhezhengquechulinanpengyoudelengbaoli?yiqilaikanlengzhandezhengquechulifangshi。

一、拒绝冷战

 tongchangzailengzhankaishizhiqian，shiyinweiduifangdeguandianwufayuzijidachengyizhi，bingkaishiyinqizhengchao，ranhouguodudaolengzhanshiqi。yinci，zaiwomenbimianlengzhankaishizhiqian，womenyinggaixuehuihuanweisikao。buyaozongshixiangzheruhehuxiangzhize，ershiyaoyougengduodetonglixin。

二、切忌“以冷制冷”

 zailengbaoliqijian，woxiangxinhenduorendouhuiyouyizhongfuchouxinli：nibuliwo，woyebulini。danzheizhongxingweiwangwangshizuibukequde。shishishang，yunvhaixiangbi，nanpengyoudexiangfabingbufuza，tamenyebuhuitaidanxin。tamenzhishixuanze“lengjing”faxieqingxudefangshi。suoyi，dangnidenanpengyoulengbaolideshihou，qianwanbuyaoyiwei“gengleng”huiyingtadefangshishizuoyixiewennuandeshiqinglaiwennuanta，rangtaganjuedao。

三、进行“有效”沟通

 lengzhandezhengquechulifangshi，danzuizhongyaodeshixuehuiyubanlvyouxiaogoutong。suoweidehuaihuashiganqingzhongdeyidajinji，yinweitahuibaolubicizuichouloudeyimian。ciwai，wulunmaodunyouduonanjiejue，zuizhongdouhuitongguogoutonglaijiejue。yinci，womenxuyaozuodeshiduizhengxiayao，zhaochushuangfangdewenti，ranhouyiqifenxihemianduiwenti，congerhuifuduiganqingdexinxin。