和男友冷战 和男朋友冷战怎么办

henanyoulengzhan，ruguolianggerenxiangchuhenzhangshijian，jiuhuiyoumaodun。zheizhongmaodunkenenglaizinideshenghuoxiguanhuogexingwenti，daozhinimenzhijiandelengzhan。

nvrenbushuohua，nanrenbushuohua，lianggerenjujueshuohua，bushuohuagengbukenengjiejuewenti。youshinixiangrangnideguanxigenghao，danyouyunvhaidelian，suoyihenshaoyounvhaihuizhudongchengrenzijidecuowu，huiqiwangnanhaichengrenzijidecuowu。danyouxienanhaiburuan，yiliangcilengzhanhuizhudongxiangnvhaidaoqian，danhenzhangyiduanshijianhou，shenzhichengrencuowudetaidu，nvhaikandaogengshengqi。

zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，bushinanhaibuxiangdaoqian，ershitameiyouyishidaotayinggaidaoqian。ruguonixiangrangnanhaitingnide，nixuyaoxuexiyixiasangejiqiao，bingxunsushoujitamen。

首先，无论如何都不能纵容对方的行为

lengzhanzhongzuikepadexingweishilianggerendoubushuohua。jirantamenbushuohua，jiubuyaokaolvjiejuewenti。nvhaimenxiangdeshi，ruguonibushuohua，buyaozhiwangwoxianshuohua。nanhaimenjuedezheizhongxingweiyijingyouhenduocile，wobuxiangshuohua。shuojijuxiaoshimeiguanxi。ruguoninengtongguozhengchaojiejuewenti，buyaobataliujilengzhan。

jishinidashengshuohua，shuochunisuoyoudebumanyebibushuohuayaohao。shishizhengming，lianggerenzhijiandedazhengchaobilengzhangengnengjiejuewenti。zaizheiduanguanxizhong，nvhaigengcuiruo，suoyiruguotamenxiangzaizhengchaohouhuolengzhanhouhehao，tamenhuirangnanhaixiatai。youyicimeiguanxi，danjicizhihou，ruguonanhaibuxinshang，buyaohuxiangzongrong，yinweizainanhaikanlai：ruguonizhudongxiangwochengrennidecuowu，zheizhengmingnishidiyigecuode，erbushiwo，woyouliyoujixujiuchan。

ruguonizongrongta，nihuizhudongjiangdinanhaideshuiping，dannanhaibuzhuyi。ruguoshizheiyang，buyaozongrongnanhaidexingwei。niyuezongrong，duizijideshanghaijiuyueda。zaizheiduanguanxizhong，nihewoshipinghengde。meiyoushenmeshinixiancuohuowoxiancuo，dantamendouyishidaozijidecuowu，xiangyaojiuzheng。congmingdenvrenbuhuizongrongnanhaidexingwei。jishitamenxiangchengrenzijidecuowu，tamenyebuhuicaiquzhudong。yidantamencaiquzhudong，ernanhaimenmeiyouyishidaotamendecuowu，tamenhenrongyikanqilaihengao，gengbuyongshuofuhele。zuihaodefangfashirangnanhaizhudongyishidaotacuole，taziranhuilaizhaoni。ruguotazhaobudao，zheizhengmingtabingbuxiangnixiangxiangdeneimezaihuni。

第二:冷落男生一段时间

daduoshushujubiaoming，nanhaizaifenshouyizhouhoushizuikuailede，nvhaishizuibeishangde。raner，nanhaizaiyizhouhouhuibiandefeichangbeishang，nvhaihuimanmanjieshou。zheizhongxianxiangbiaoming，jingguoyiduanshijiandehushi，nanhaihuicuoguoyiqianzaiyiqidekuaileshiguang，ernvhaiyijingxiguanlezheizhongzhuangtai。nanhaihuijixuxunzhaonvhailaixunzhaoaideganjue，nvhaiziranhuirangnanhaishuncongdichengrenzijidecuowu。

hushinanhaidezuihaofangfashixiaoshi。wulunshixianshanghaishixianxia，tamendouyuanlinanhai，rangnanhaitiyanmeiyouzijideweidao，niyekeyijiecijihuifangsong。yexuzheigenanhaizaitousantianbuhuilaizhaoni，dantahuizaisantianhoulaizhaoni，yinweitazaizheigeshihoufeichangxiangnianni，tahuitongyiniderenheyaoqiu。ruguotarengranbulaizhaoni，neimexingweiyijingbiaomingnizaitaxinzhongbingbuneimezhongyao，niyebubitaizaiyizheiduanguanxi。

xuduonvhaihetamendenanpengyouzailengzhanhoufeichangshangxin。tamenrenweitagenbenbuzaihuziji。ruguonanhaizaitousantianmeiyoulaizhaota，yemeiyouyuyanguanxi，tamendejingshenjiuhuiwanquanbengkui，congerzuochushanghaizijidexingwei。ruguonanhaibuaini，danqingxuehuibaaifangzaizijishenshang。buyaoyinweinanhaidebulibucaierchongdaotamianqianchengrenzijidecuowu，zheizhihuirangnanhaigandaofeichangzihao。buyaoduozaijiaoluolikuqi，yinweimeiyourenzhidekuqi。

henanyoulengzhanzuihaodefangfashirangnanhaijuedeniyijinggaibianle，rangtayouzaicizhuiqiunidechongdong。nikeyihenhaodigaibianziji，buzaihuzheizhongxingweiguanxi。jishinizhendezaihu，yebuyaozainanhaimianqianbiaoxianchulai。chuanyifushi，niyinggaibiyiqiankanqilaigenghao，zaijingshenshangtouziyugaozhiliangdeshenghuo。dangnanhaikandaonidebianhuashi，tamenhuiduizijidecuowugandaonaohuo，bingzhijielaidaonimianqianchengrenzijidecuowu，erbushiniduzigensuinanhai。woxiwangnanhaimennengyuanliangwo，zheimeiyourenheyiyi。suoyidangnimenzhijianfashenglengzhanshi，meiyoushenmebiaiduinimenzijigengzhongyaodele。buyaoyinweizheixieshiqingershanghainiziji，yinweitamenbuzhide。