怎么去挽回老婆？

 zenmewanhuilaopodexin？dangyigenvrengangkaishihuailianyigerendeshenghuodeqingkuangxia，bianshitalihunledejixiang;wulunnizenmerencuozhiqian，douzongshirangtagengweijiandingbuyiliyideniantou。naizhihuijinicaiyitahaishifoudangshihenijiehundeneiren。zenyangwanhuilaogong?jinnianlaiwofaxianlehunyinshenghuodezixunanlimanmanzengjia，nvshijianchiliyidezhuangkuangxuduo jian，tongchangquanshilaopozaidachaodanaoliyi，laogongquelianlihunyuanyindoubuqingchu。nanrennvrenluojisiweicunyoubunengchaoyuedechabiechaju，xianghubukeyilejiedezhuangkuanghenpubian，yibianwanliusilexinliyidelaopo，xuduocikexintiaopanbianyongyixiepianjidefangshizaochenglingyifanglijixiaotui，zishennenggou xunsuwanliudehunyinshenghuobiandigengweimingan。zenmewanhuilaopo？

一、实例概述

 wohelaopogangwanhundeqingkuangxiashifenxingfukuaile，tanlianaideqingkuangxiawoyeyikaozijidegongzuonenglizaiwuhanmailaiyitaofang，meixiangbabamamayaoyifenqian，taganjuexunzhaoyigebukenlaozuderenhenhaoyun，shuoneiyangdenanrenxinggeburongyicha，weirenyeba。tanlianaidabannianhou，womenjiehunle，tahentiexin，wulunwojiabanjiadianduowan，tadoushidengwohuijia，dajiachangchangyouhui，guangjiegouwu，tashuojishijielehunhaiyaomingbaiyonglanmandiaojirichangshenghuo，worenweihetazaiyiqiganshenmedoushufu。haizichushenghou，taquanzhidedaihaizi，worenzhengongzuozhengdezhangxin。jinshenghouwobiandifeichangmang，yizhijiabanjiadiangongchu，pinciduole，tayebuyiwoshuijuele，meiyiciwohuijialetadoudaizhuxiaohaishuile，zaochenwoqilaitarengzaishui，gongzuofangmiandeburuyiwozaochengduitabiandiyanfan。

 tashuowobuhuiaitale，wohuiqiangtagongzuozhongyangjiahukouzaoyitingleile，jinyoubuganhuoerdeyouxiurencaidianjizhexueyuefenghua，tayigebanbanyuebuliwo。congneishiqidajiagangkaishifenfangshui。haizishangyouzhiyuanyihoutalikehuidaochuruzhichang，dajiagengmeiyouhuashuole。fenqibaofajiushiwonalesanshiwanjibabamamadajiazhuzhaixiaoqumailaitongfangxingdefangwu，talejiehoumeiyouyoukuyounao，lijibalihunxieyiqianlezifangdaowoyanqian，woneishihoujiuzhiyitashifouwaibianyouxierenlecaineimexinjiliyi。tabukezhixindekanwo，hongleshuangyanqiangcuiwoqianming。

 yibianwanhuita，wolijibiaomingburongyiqianming，gentashuoyibeizidoubiexiangjiejuewo。lengbaoliyigeduoyuehou，woqueshichibuxiaojiugentashuoliyinenggou ，haiziliuyou。takukuaiqiuworangwojianghaizijita，haishuotachukaihaizishenmedoubuyao。womingbaihaizishitaderuanzhu，nabushanghaizidehaizifuyangquan，tayidingburongyiliyi。qineiwoshizhehetaguoxingshenghuo，meiyicidoubeitalengdanhuijue，zongsuanyouyitianwobaofale，zhiyitadisanzhedaodishishei，tajiwoyigebiyi，haijiangguoyijujingshenbing。suirandajiameiyouliyi，keyinweiwolejietabuaiwole，neiyangdeshenghuoqueshinanshou，wojuedewanliuta，danbuguanwoganshenme，douxiangbeizugezaitadezhuanqiangyiwai。

1、随处表露对老婆的看不上

 hunhounvxinghaipadebingbushizishenshuailao，zhishibeilaogongkanbushang，xiaobingdelaopolizhizaijialishiyibiandaiwa，takonggaoxiaobingbuxihuanta，shijishangshiyaoxiangtingtadeyijukuanwei，yijuqinghua。kezaitabixubeiguanaideqingkuangxia，xiaobingjiushuo【jinyoubuganhuoerdeyouxiurencaidianjizhexueyuefenghua】，zheihuadepohuailibianshieshalenvxingweijiazhongdenuli，yincixiaohaidaoleyouzhiyuantalikejiuhuidaochuruzhichang，youyutayishidao，xiaobingzaikanbushangtameishouyi。fenfangshuiyihou，xiaobingbujinmeiyouquchengrencuowu，haishifenxiangyoumeiyouxiaohaichaotarushui，shijianjiule，nvrenxinyejiuliangle，tafenfangshui，shijishangbianshiyaoxiangbeigaoduzhongshibeizaiyi。

2、专权现实主义不重视老婆

 youshizaiqingganli，zhongshibiaigengguanjian，zhongshidaibiaozhezaiyi，yincixiaobingshanzuozhuzhangjibabamamagoufangduilaopoeryanbujinshibatadichuzaijiazhongyiwai，yeshimeiyouzhongshifufudezhengtiliyi。benjiubuduanjianwendehunyinshenghuo，fenqiyitianmeichuliqingganjiubutaikenengtiwen，yinerzheijianshiqingbianchengnianguohunyinshenghuodezuizhongyigendaocao。laopolejiehouxiaobingbudanmeibiaoshu，haicaiyitawaiyu，wanquanrangtaduizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoshangtoulexin。

3、挽留不正确越推越来越远

 xuduonanrenzailaopomingquetichuliyidediyishijianbingbushifuweihezhengqueyindao，zhishiculudidianjizheruhexiyinren，ranglingyifanghaipayouliyidesixu，quebuzhidaoneiyangzongshibanvxingyuetuiyuelaiyueyuan。xiaobingyibianduandiaolaopoliyidezhinian，xiaobingxiangdeshi“fudichouxin”——lijinahaizikunzhulaopo。zaishehuixintaixueshangyouyigezhimingdefantiaojichulilun——yuefayayiganlingyifangdeyaoqiu，baofadeqingkuangxiasunhaijiuyueda。yincixiaobingdelaopojinguanyibianhaizimeiyoutiliyi，duitadexintaiquegenglengdan，liangrendegoutongjiaoliuyejiugengshao。

三、挽留实际操作

 zaixiaobingdeqingganli，tajiaodadebuzhengqueshiyonglingyifangzuibukeyijienadefangfaliudaoshenpang，bumingbaigenjuxiufuganqingdefangfaranglingyifangyueguoneixindekan，buhuiliaotianbuyongshuo，xintaikongzhiliyebutaihao。yibianxiezhutawanliu，wofenle4geliucheng，meiyigeliuchengdoushiyouduiyunvshidexingweixintaixue;

1、单项工程创建新意，培养另一方依靠

 xuduodixionghenyoukenengdoushiyouguoneiyangdetihui：dangyigenvrenyikaonideqingkuangxia，tadeweixiaohuijinifeichangyoumanzugan;fanguolai，jiarulingyifangquandoubuyongni，ninengjuedehenfali。xinyidepeiyangbixushijian，yinciwanliudediyibujiuxuyaogangkaishiranglingyifangjuededaozheileizhuanbian，caikeyijinzaodirangtamendeqingganpobingzhilv。duiyuxiaobingdezhuangkuangkanlai，hunyinshenghuodejianwenshilingyifangganjuehunyinshenghuolimeiyoudonglexin，zaizaijiabuzhengquedewanliufangfaranglingyifangxinrusihui，zhiqianshiwanliudediyiguize。

 yibianbuzaochenglaopodedichu，xiaobingjianchibuxiezaoshangweiyijiarentiqianzhunbeizaofan，jijijiesongshangyouzhiyuan，xianlahuiyidianqinzigoutong，jiezheyongbianqianxieyixiewennuandezhufutiezaijialixingmudediqu，jishilaopobugentajianghuayehuijiandaotaxiedebianjian。lingwaitayehenzhongshizishendewaizaipinpaixingxiang，zhongjiumeiyouyigenvrenhuiduiyichengbubiandezhangfuzijintouruzhuanzhuli。

 xuduodixiongganjuebuhuiliaotianburongyibiaoshuganqingbenlaiyouyiduzihuashuoqiquebuqingchuruhezhangkou，neimazheileibianjiandefangfajiukeyiraokailingjulidegoutongjiaoliu，yongwenbenbiaoshuhuigengqingsongyidian，keshiyidingyaoliuyixianghupeihexingdong，zheicaisuanshijiaonandediqu，youyulingyifangdetifangxinhenzhong，nixuyaogenjuduitadexinggesecaifenxihoucaizhidaonaxiedegerenxingweikeyichudongta。shijianzhangle，tadezaiqianyishizhonglehuijienaneiyangdejiaowangfangfa，naizhihuixiwangjiandaozheixiewennuandebianjian，zheigeshihoujiukeyiyongqingganlidetuilamenshengchanzhizaolingyifangdexintaizhuangtaiqifule，shidudiyouyixiezhitijiechutanchatadefanying。

2、行動第一的霸气侧漏邀请

 xuduodixiongdoulejiexiaohaishinvxingderuanzhu，xiaohaikeyibianchengniwanhuilaogongdezhutui，keshixuduodixionghexiaobingyiyang，bazheigezhutuiyongyubangjianvrenle，bujinfuqiganqingxiajiang，qinzigoutongyewufachuangjianqinmiwujiangan。woyuxiaobingliaowanyihoutashifenyumen，danshihaozaiyeyouxiubudeshineikongjian。jiarushuojiehunhoudewennuannengchudongnvrendexin，neimajiehunhoudelanmanzhenshibianshinvxingsagouliangdeshenqi。biciguanlianhuanjieyihou，worangxiaobingbawanliuchangsuozhuanweilanmandefandian，goutongfangshiyecongdanxianggongchengdebianjianzhuanweishuangzhongdejiaoyouruanjian。

 yibianquebaolaopofuyan，lijimanhengbadaoyidianbidechutiaoxuandejilvhuigaoxuduo。youshinvxinggengxihuannanshenglijiyongxingdonglaibiaoshuzishendemudi，erbushiyongyuyanlaibiaoshuniantou。ziran，kaoyiciyouhuinanyiranghunyinhuifudaozhiqian，yaoqingyiqian，xiaobinghaiganlexuduokecheng，lirugerenxingweipobingzhilvfa，fantiaoweixinliaotianjiqiaozheixie，zhenshiyaowanliuyiduanpinweifensuidehunyinshenghuobingbingbushikaohaoduogexiaoqiaomenjiukeyi，zaizheiyiqiannixuyaoxuehaohenduodepouxi，nenglejienvxinggerenxingweishenhoudeyaoqiu。

3、面对分歧处理关键难题

 zenmewanhuilaopo？wokanlexuduodixiongzainvrenshengqideqingkuangxiapinlemingbiaoshu，jieguomeiyougengqiang，fandaogengcaogao，zaitayouxintaideqingkuangxia，yiqiebiaoshuquanshixintaidejinshucuihuaji。zainvxingyouxintaidediyishijianbingbushiqubiaoshu，zhishichangshihuanjietadexintai，nanshengdexintaishifenliefenqidediyibu。zhidaolingyifangxintaihuanjieyidianzaichulijibenmaodun。xiaobinghelaopodejibenmaodunbianshijibabamamamaideneitaofangwu，shijishangzheitaofangwumailaizuizhonghaihuiluohuitamenzijishouli，quankanxiaobingcongshenmeshijiaoranglaoporentongzheijianshiqingle。

 wojitamendehuashushi：xianpouxijiatingbeijing(xiaobingdebabamamajinyoutayigehaizi，qinjiejiejunyijiaren)biaomingbabamamazuizhongyidinghuibafangwuzuoweicaichanjiaojita;zaicongfangdichandezengzhishijiaobiaoshuzishenjibabamamagoufangdeyuangu;zaibafangdichanzuizhongdedongxiangjiaodaiqingxi，biaomingzheitaofangwuzhihounenggou jihaizi，youzaitongyigezhuzhaixiaoqu。xiaobingjiangwanyihou，laopochuxianyiwaidimeiyouzainaopiqi，zhideyitideshihaibiaoshuzishenfahuojinjinyouyuxiaobingmanzheta。huashuodaozheiyifenshang，zainaobianshibumingshili，lejiefangdichandongxiangyihou，lianpoxizhijiandouhemulexuduo。

4、借机修补亲密无间感

 zenmewanhuilaopodexin？xingcaisuanshijiancehunyinshenghuodeweiyibiaozhun，xuduokanbushangdoushiyirentigangkaishide，jiaruyigenvrenliannairexingburangni，neihaizhiwangtaduiniduoshendeqinggan?kanjianlaopozaoyiyibuduiyiwangdeshizhuizele，xiaobinglikejiusichanlandabalaopohonghuiletamendewofang。nvxingzaixingxuqiuzheijianshiqingshangshihanxudibiaoshude，jiarunitaizunxun“qianqianjunzigongzuozuofeng”henyoukenengdajiagangtiwenyidiandeguanlianhuiyouyuxingdefenlichulaizhongfanbingliang。keshiniyebukeyisheqiu，zheigeshihougouqinvxingdetianxing，huisuibianjinizuodaonidemudi，jiunaxiaobingeryan，tayibianhonglaopohuifang，zaihaizidewuzipazheshuijuele3geyeli，zhihouqueshijinbuzhu，laopomuxingfanlanjijijiaotayiqihuifangshui。daocilianggerenqudechenggongfuhexing。