离婚后怎样挽回老婆的心？

 zenmewanhuilaopodexin？dangyigenvrengangkaishihuailianyigerendeshenghuodeqingkuangxia，bianshitalihunledejixiang;wulunnizenmerencuozhiqian，douzongshirangtagengweijiandingbuyiliyideniantou。naizhihuijinicaiyitahaishifoudangshihenijiehundeneiren。lihunzhihouruhewanhuilaogong?jinnianlaiwofaxianlehunyinshenghuodezixunanlimanmanzengjia，nvshijianchiliyidezhuangkuangxuduo jian，tongchangquanshilaopozaidachaodanaoliyi，laogongquelianlihunyuanyindoubuqingchu。nanrennvrenluojisiweicunyoubunengchaoyuedechabiechaju，xianghubukeyilejiedezhuangkuanghenpubian，yibianwanliusilexinliyidelaopo，xuduocikexintiaopanbianyongyixiepianjidefangshizaochenglingyifanglijixiaotui，zishennenggou xunsuwanliudehunyinshenghuobiandigengweimingan。zenmewanhuilaopo？

一、实例概述

 wohelaopogangwanhundeqingkuangxiashifenxingfukuaile，tanlianaideqingkuangxiawoyeyikaozijidegongzuonenglizaiwuhanmailaiyitaofang，meixiangbabamamayaoyifenqian，taganjuexunzhaoyigebukenlaozuderenhenhaoyun，shuoneiyangdenanrenxinggeburongyicha，weirenyeba。tanlianaidabannianhou，womenjiehunle，tahentiexin，wulunwojiabanjiadianduowan，tadoushidengwohuijia，dajiachangchangyouhui，guangjiegouwu，tashuojishijielehunhaiyaomingbaiyonglanmandiaojirichangshenghuo，worenweihetazaiyiqiganshenmedoushufu。haizichushenghou，taquanzhidedaihaizi，worenzhengongzuozhengdezhangxin。jinshenghouwobiandifeichangmang，yizhijiabanjiadiangongchu，pinciduole，tayebuyiwoshuijuele，meiyiciwohuijialetadoudaizhuxiaohaishuile，zaochenwoqilaitarengzaishui，gongzuofangmiandeburuyiwozaochengduitabiandiyanfan。

 tashuowobuhuiaitale，wohuiqiangtagongzuozhongyangjiahukouzaoyitingleile，jinyoubuganhuoerdeyouxiurencaidianjizhexueyuefenghua，tayigebanbanyuebuliwo。congneishiqidajiagangkaishifenfangshui。haizishangyouzhiyuanyihoutalikehuidaochuruzhichang，dajiagengmeiyouhuashuole。fenqibaofajiushiwonalesanshiwanjibabamamadajiazhuzhaixiaoqumailaitongfangxingdefangwu，talejiehoumeiyouyoukuyounao，lijibalihunxieyiqianlezifangdaowoyanqian，woneishihoujiuzhiyitashifouwaibianyouxierenlecaineimexinjiliyi。tabukezhixindekanwo，hongleshuangyanqiangcuiwoqianming。

 yibianwanhuita，wolijibiaomingburongyiqianming，gentashuoyibeizidoubiexiangjiejuewo。lengbaoliyigeduoyuehou，woqueshichibuxiaojiugentashuoliyinenggou ，haiziliuyou。takukuaiqiuworangwojianghaizijita，haishuotachukaihaizishenmedoubuyao。womingbaihaizishitaderuanzhu，nabushanghaizidehaizifuyangquan，tayidingburongyiliyi。qineiwoshizhehetaguoxingshenghuo，meiyicidoubeitalengdanhuijue，zongsuanyouyitianwobaofale，zhiyitadisanzhedaodishishei，tajiwoyigebiyi，haijiangguoyijujingshenbing。suirandajiameiyouliyi，keyinweiwolejietabuaiwole，neiyangdeshenghuoqueshinanshou，wojuedewanliuta，danbuguanwoganshenme，douxiangbeizugezaitadezhuanqiangyiwai。

二、老师剖析

 xiaobingbukeyilejiedangshifeichanghaojianghuadelaopoweihehuranliyi，jianxinxuduodixiongyeganjueshilingyifangbumingshili，danshijishangyigenvrenbuguyiqiedijueceliyibingbingbushiyouyumouyijianshiqing，zhishiyizhiyilaidefenqileiji，zaochengnvxingduihunyinshenghuoshiqubentou。xiaobingdehunyinshenghuobianshifeichanghaodeshili，zaitadehunyinshenghuoli，yicuozaicuozuizhongdaozhizheileijushichedishitabudongnvrenxindaozhide，liru：

1、随处表露对老婆的看不上

 hunhounvxinghaipadebingbushizishenshuailao，zhishibeilaogongkanbushang，xiaobingdelaopolizhizaijialishiyibiandaiwa，takonggaoxiaobingbuxihuanta，shijishangshiyaoxiangtingtadeyijukuanwei，yijuqinghua。kezaitabixubeiguanaideqingkuangxia，xiaobingjiushuo【jinyoubuganhuoerdeyouxiurencaidianjizhexueyuefenghua】，zheihuadepohuailibianshieshalenvxingweijiazhongdenuli，yincixiaohaidaoleyouzhiyuantalikejiuhuidaochuruzhichang，youyutayishidao，xiaobingzaikanbushangtameishouyi。fenfangshuiyihou，xiaobingbujinmeiyouquchengrencuowu，haishifenxiangyoumeiyouxiaohaichaotarushui，shijianjiule，nvrenxinyejiuliangle，tafenfangshui，shijishangbianshiyaoxiangbeigaoduzhongshibeizaiyi。

2、专权现实主义不重视老婆

 youshizaiqingganli，zhongshibiaigengguanjian，zhongshidaibiaozhezaiyi，yincixiaobingshanzuozhuzhangjibabamamagoufangduilaopoeryanbujinshibatadichuzaijiazhongyiwai，yeshimeiyouzhongshifufudezhengtiliyi。benjiubuduanjianwendehunyinshenghuo，fenqiyitianmeichuliqingganjiubutaikenengtiwen，yinerzheijianshiqingbianchengnianguohunyinshenghuodezuizhongyigendaocao。laopolejiehouxiaobingbudanmeibiaoshu，haicaiyitawaiyu，wanquanrangtaduizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoshangtoulexin。

3、挽留不正确越推越来越远

 xuduonanrenzailaopomingquetichuliyidediyishijianbingbushifuweihezhengqueyindao，zhishiculudidianjizheruhexiyinren，ranglingyifanghaipayouliyidesixu，quebuzhidaoneiyangzongshibanvxingyuetuiyuelaiyueyuan。xiaobingyibianduandiaolaopoliyidezhinian，xiaobingxiangdeshi“fudichouxin”——lijinahaizikunzhulaopo。zaishehuixintaixueshangyouyigezhimingdefantiaojichulilun——yuefayayiganlingyifangdeyaoqiu，baofadeqingkuangxiasunhaijiuyueda。yincixiaobingdelaopojinguanyibianhaizimeiyoutiliyi，duitadexintaiquegenglengdan，liangrendegoutongjiaoliuyejiugengshao。

三、挽留实际操作

 zaixiaobingdeqingganli，tajiaodadebuzhengqueshiyonglingyifangzuibukeyijienadefangfaliudaoshenpang，bumingbaigenjuxiufuganqingdefangfaranglingyifangyueguoneixindekan，buhuiliaotianbuyongshuo，xintaikongzhiliyebutaihao。yibianxiezhutawanliu，wofenle4geliucheng，meiyigeliuchengdoushiyouduiyunvshidexingweixintaixue;

1、单项工程创建新意，培养另一方依靠

 xuduodixionghenyoukenengdoushiyouguoneiyangdetihui：dangyigenvrenyikaonideqingkuangxia，tadeweixiaohuijinifeichangyoumanzugan;fanguolai，jiarulingyifangquandoubuyongni，ninengjuedehenfali。xinyidepeiyangbixushijian，yinciwanliudediyibujiuxuyaogangkaishiranglingyifangjuededaozheileizhuanbian，caikeyijinzaodirangtamendeqingganpobingzhilv。duiyuxiaobingdezhuangkuangkanlai，hunyinshenghuodejianwenshilingyifangganjuehunyinshenghuolimeiyoudonglexin，zaizaijiabuzhengquedewanliufangfaranglingyifangxinrusihui，zhiqianshiwanliudediyiguize。

 yibianbuzaochenglaopodedichu，xiaobingjianchibuxiezaoshangweiyijiarentiqianzhunbeizaofan，jijijiesongshangyouzhiyuan，xianlahuiyidianqinzigoutong，jiezheyongbianqianxieyixiewennuandezhufutiezaijialixingmudediqu，jishilaopobugentajianghuayehuijiandaotaxiedebianjian。lingwaitayehenzhongshizishendewaizaipinpaixingxiang，zhongjiumeiyouyigenvrenhuiduiyichengbubiandezhangfuzijintouruzhuanzhuli。

许多弟兄感觉不会聊天不容易表述感情本来有一肚子话说起却不清楚如何张口，那麼这类便笺的方法就可以绕开零距离的沟通交流，用文本表述会更轻松一点，可是一定要留意相互配合行動，这才算是较难的地区，由于另一方的提防心很重，你需要根据对她的性格色彩分析后才知道哪些的个人行为可以触动她。时间长了，她的在潜意识中了会接纳那样的交往方法，乃至会希望见到这些温暖的便笺，这个时候就可以用情感里的推拉门生产制造另一方的心态状态起伏了，适度地有一些肢体接触探察她的反映。

2、行動第一的霸气侧漏邀请

 zenmewanhuilaopo？xuduodixiongdoulejiexiaohaishinvxingderuanzhu，xiaohaikeyibianchengniwanhuilaogongdezhutui，keshixuduodixionghexiaobingyiyang，bazheigezhutuiyongyubangjianvrenle，bujinfuqiganqingxiajiang，qinzigoutongyewufachuangjianqinmiwujiangan。woyuxiaobingliaowanyihoutashifenyumen，danshihaozaiyeyouxiubudeshineikongjian。jiarushuojiehunhoudewennuannengchudongnvrendexin，neimajiehunhoudelanmanzhenshibianshinvxingsagouliangdeshenqi。biciguanlianhuanjieyihou，worangxiaobingbawanliuchangsuozhuanweilanmandefandian，goutongfangshiyecongdanxianggongchengdebianjianzhuanweishuangzhongdejiaoyouruanjian。

 yibianquebaolaopofuyan，lijimanhengbadaoyidianbidechutiaoxuandejilvhuigaoxuduo。youshinvxinggengxihuannanshenglijiyongxingdonglaibiaoshuzishendemudi，erbushiyongyuyanlaibiaoshuniantou。ziran，kaoyiciyouhuinanyiranghunyinhuifudaozhiqian，yaoqingyiqian，xiaobinghaiganlexuduokecheng，lirugerenxingweipobingzhilvfa，fantiaoweixinliaotianjiqiaozheixie，zhenshiyaowanliuyiduanpinweifensuidehunyinshenghuobingbingbushikaohaoduogexiaoqiaomenjiukeyi，zaizheiyiqiannixuyaoxuehaohenduodepouxi，nenglejienvxinggerenxingweishenhoudeyaoqiu。

3、面对分歧处理关键难题

 wokanlexuduodixiongzainvrenshengqideqingkuangxiapinlemingbiaoshu，jieguomeiyougengqiang，fandaogengcaogao，zaitayouxintaideqingkuangxia，yiqiebiaoshuquanshixintaidejinshucuihuaji。zainvxingyouxintaidediyishijianbingbushiqubiaoshu，zhishichangshihuanjietadexintai，nanshengdexintaishifenliefenqidediyibu。zhidaolingyifangxintaihuanjieyidianzaichulijibenmaodun。xiaobinghelaopodejibenmaodunbianshijibabamamamaideneitaofangwu，shijishangzheitaofangwumailaizuizhonghaihuiluohuitamenzijishouli，quankanxiaobingcongshenmeshijiaoranglaoporentongzheijianshiqingle。

 wojitamendehuashushi：xianpouxijiatingbeijing(xiaobingdebabamamajinyoutayigehaizi，qinjiejiejunyijiaren)biaomingbabamamazuizhongyidinghuibafangwuzuoweicaichanjiaojita;zaicongfangdichandezengzhishijiaobiaoshuzishenjibabamamagoufangdeyuangu;zaibafangdichanzuizhongdedongxiangjiaodaiqingxi，biaomingzheitaofangwuzhihounenggou jihaizi，youzaitongyigezhuzhaixiaoqu。xiaobingjiangwanyihou，laopochuxianyiwaidimeiyouzainaopiqi，zhideyitideshihaibiaoshuzishenfahuojinjinyouyuxiaobingmanzheta。huashuodaozheiyifenshang，zainaobianshibumingshili，lejiefangdichandongxiangyihou，lianpoxizhijiandouhemulexuduo。

4、借机修补亲密无间感

 zenmewanhuilaopodexin？xingcaisuanshijiancehunyinshenghuodeweiyibiaozhun，xuduokanbushangdoushiyirentigangkaishide，jiaruyigenvrenliannairexingburangni，neihaizhiwangtaduiniduoshendeqinggan?kanjianlaopozaoyiyibuduiyiwangdeshizhuizele，xiaobinglikejiusichanlandabalaopohonghuiletamendewofang。nvxingzaixingxuqiuzheijianshiqingshangshihanxudibiaoshude，jiarunitaizunxun“qianqianjunzigongzuozuofeng”henyoukenengdajiagangtiwenyidiandeguanlianhuiyouyuxingdefenlichulaizhongfanbingliang。keshiniyebukeyisheqiu，zheigeshihougouqinvxingdetianxing，huisuibianjinizuodaonidemudi，jiunaxiaobingeryan，tayibianhonglaopohuifang，zaihaizidewuzipazheshuijuele3geyeli，zhihouqueshijinbuzhu，laopomuxingfanlanjijijiaotayiqihuifangshui。daocilianggerenqudechenggongfuhexing。