情感咨询：不想离婚的怎么挽回老婆

　　buxianglihundezenmewanhuilaopo，zaiganqingzhanghezhong，fuqijiandegoutongjiaoliujiuxiangyizuogongluqiaoliang，lianjielebicizhijiandeneixin。danshi，danghunyinshenghuochuxianliehen，youqishidangnizaoyulaopoxiangyaolikainidekunjingshi，zheizuoqiaolianghenyoukenengyuelaiyuejijikewei。jinri，rangwomenlaishenrufenxizenyangtongguoyouxiaodegoutongdejiqiao，wanhuihunyinwanhuiqizideneixin，tigaofuqijiandelejie，ranghunyinzhiqiaozaicilaoguxiaqu。

　　一、聆听：懂她的内心世界

　　lingting，shiyouxiaodegoutongdezhongyaoqianti，gengjiashiwanhuiqizideguanjianyibu。youxieshihou，xifuxiangfenshouhuobiaoxianchulebumanyi，bushiyinweiwentibenshennanyijiejue，ershitajuedezijidexiangshengmeibeitingjian，qingxubingmeiyoubeirenlijie。

　　ruguonifaxianxifuxinqingdiluohuoshiduizijideyouyidingdebumanyishi，xianbuyaozhejibianbohuoshijichujiejuefangan。zhaoyigeqingjing、shufushijianhedidian，hetalingjulizuozhe。weichiduishi，yongrouhedekouqishuo：“qinaida，womingbaizuijinwomenzhongjianyoudewenti，wohenxiangtingyitingnideguandian，zhangwozijineixindezhenshitiyan。”suihou，jitazugoudeshijianqubiaoshu，bantububiqieduan，jibiantingdaoyixieshininanshoudehua，yidingyaobaochilengjinghexixin。

　　biru，nideqizikenengshuo：“nizongjianggongzuofangzaidiyiwei，quanranbuguzheigejiating!”zheishihou，xianbuyaozhejifanboshuo“wodegongzuodoushiweizheigejiaa”。fanershiyongxintingwan，suihouhuifu：“qinaida，womingbainixiwangzijinengduohuaxieshijianpeizhenigenhaizi，woyiqiandequehushilenideqingxu，rangniganjuedaohengudanhejuewang，zheishiwobudui。”

　　tongguozheizhonglingtinghehuifu，tanenggouganshoudaoniduitagaoduzhongshiyuzunzhong，lejieniyaozourutadeneixinshijie，qudongtadeyaoqiuhebumanyi。zheileibeirenlijiedeganjuele，keyizaihendachengdushangjianqingduifangdeqingxu，weihouxudegoutongyuwanliuzaojiuhaodefenwei。

　　二、表述：真心诚意传送你的爱与信心

　　zailingtingxifuxinshengyihou，niyexuyaozhenxinchengyibiaodazijideganshou、niantoujiqiduiganqingdefuwuchengnuo。biaoshubingbuzhishiqingxufaxie，fanershiyoufangfadichuansongzheifenai、guanzhujiqiwanliudexinxin。

　　(yi)biaodazijideganshou

　　zaiyuyanshi，shouxiantanchengdigongxiangniyizhizaizheiduanganqinglidetihui，tebieshiniduitadeaiyubushe。yong“wo”dechanshufangfa，fangzhinengrangduifangjuedezaoshouchize。liru：“qinaida，tingjiannijuedeneixiehua，woxinlitebienanshou。worenshidaozijizaigegefangmianzuodebugouhao，bingmeiyourangnichongzudeguanxinzhichi。danwozhendehenaini，zheigejiatingduiwoeryanyehenzhongyao。”

　　(er)biaoshuduiyutaderentonghehaowuyiwen

　　buxianglihundezenmewanhui，laopohunyinshenghuoli，womenchangchangrongyihushiduibiciderentonghehaowuyiwen。zaiyuyanshi，yaoquanmianditanjixifudeyoushigentaweijiarenfuchudenuli。biru：“niyizhidouhenzixi，bajialideyiqiedouanpaituotuodangdang。wodehaizizainindehehuxia，yebiandefeichangdongshi。niweilezheigejiafuchuhenduo，woyehenganjini。”

　　(san)biaoshuwanliudejuexinhejihua

　　zhishibiaoshiaiyihexinshangbugou，gengzhongyaodeshiyaoranglaopokanjianniwanjiuhunyindejuexinheshentilixing。keyizheimeshuo：“qinaida，womingbaibicizhijianhaiyouhenduowentiyaojiejue，kewoxiangyaoweicifuchuqinfen。woyijianlileyixiefangan，lirumeigexingqianpaiyiciwomenzijideyuehuishijian，meiwandoupeihaiziyiqixiezuoye，libaitianhuizhudongchengdanyixiejiawuhuo。xiangxingenjuzijidenuli，womenyidingnenggouzhongshicongqiandexingfukuaile。”