婚姻咨询：不想离婚该怎么挽回

　　buxianglihungaizenmewanhui，fuqiliangzairichangshenghuozhongnanmianhuichuxianmocazhengzhi，tebieshizaijiliedemaodunshishikeke，liyiyoukenengbeisuibiantanji。danshi，dangqizhongyifanghaizhenxihunyinshenghuo，bukenmaixianglihundeshihou，takenenghuixunzhaowanliudefangshi。meiyigerenwanhuifangfagebuxiangtong，yerangbushaorenganjuemimang。neiyang，ruheyouxiaodiwanhuilaoponi?jiexialaijutineirongjiangweinintigongxiangguanjianyi，bangzhuniweijijiangdaolaidekaoyanchongfenzhunbei。

　　一、媳妇果断离婚，该怎么挽回?

　　1、提升自己

　　zaifanmangdegongzuoxianxia，hebuchupengxinhuoban，zhuiqiugenggaodesixiangjingjie，mingquezijifazhanguihua。zheiyangdegaibian，bujinkeyirangrichangshenghuogengjiajingcai，hainengweiwanhuiairentigongqiangyoulideshiyong。

　　2、外不断变化

　　xuexipeixunyifudapeijiqiao，chengxianyigexindepinpaixingxiang。jibianwuguanbingbuchuzhong，tongguohelichuanzhedabanyekeyihuanfachudutedemeili。yucitongshi，zhongshishenxinjiankang，yangebakongyinshidapei，zuheshidangyundong，yingzaojianzhuangdeshenti。ruguoyoutiaojiankeyibaomingjianshenban，jienazhuanyepeixunzhidao，xiaoguogenghao。

　　3、改进交流和聆听

　　dongdeyouxiaodegoutongheqingtingshiwanjiuhunyindeguanjiansuozai。zaigoutongdeshihou，yaokongzhihaozijidexiangfa，xianlingtinglingyifangdejianyihetihui，zaibiaodazijidekanfa。yucitongshi，duishiheshidufanyingyeshifeichangzhongyaode，nengrangduifangkanjiannidezunzhongyulijie。

　　4、共同体验与创造

　　tanxunliangrengongtongxiangzuodeshiqing，rujianshenyundong、lvyoudeng，tishengnanwangdehuiyi。zaixiangchudeguochengzhong，buduantishenggezishenmeipinweiheyishuxiuyang，juededuifangdefazhan，weihunyinshenghuozhuruxinxianxueye。

　　二、如何挽回老婆的内心挽救婚姻

　　保持理性

　　zailaopoguoduantichulihunshi，shouyaorenwushibaozhengzijibaochilixing。qingxuguojitongchanghuiyingxiangwomendepanduannengli，kenengzaochengzuochucuowudejueding。yiner，zailizhizhuangtaixia，dajiacaikeyigenglixingdijiejuenanti，zhaodaogenghaodejiejuefangan。

　　深刻理解老婆心结

　　nvxingduiyuhunyinyouhenshendechongjing，tamenyibanyebuhuiqingyizuochulihunqueding。dangtamenjuedinglihunshi，zheikenengyiweizhehunyinshenghuozhongcunzaiwufadiaohedefenqihuoshanghai。weilewanhuiqizidexin，womenyinggaishenkelijietaxinjie，zhaodaoshitawuzhudeyuangu，bingbuduanjiejuezheigewenti。

　　静静地改变现状

　　dangqizijuedinglihunshi，tahuoxuyijingduinanrendemouxiexingweihuoxintaifeichangshiwang。weilewanhuitadexin，nanrenyaojingjingdigaibianxianzhuang，buduantishengziwo。womenyinggaiquebaozijidegenggaizhenshicunzai、zhangjiude，erbuzhishiweilenengtaohaolaoposuozuochudeliefengfuwuchengnuo。neiyang，dajiacainengzhujianhuodetarentonghekuanrong。

　　4. qinfenyingzaowenxindejiatinghuanjing

　　buxianglihungaizenmewanhui，nvxingxinlingshenchudouqidaiyigewenxin、hemudejiating，tamenxiwanghuodelaogongdetengxiyuhaizidetinghuadongshi。yiner，fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，goujianlianghaodejiatinghuanjingyouweizhongyao。nanrenyaoxunsuxingdong，budanrenzhengongzuo，haixuyaohuoyuexingjiatingfenwei，bingranghaizimenjijicanyuqizhong。dangyigenvrenjiandaojijizhudong、hemudejiatinghuanjing，tihuidaolaogongderechenxiaohaidecongming，talikaideneixinjiuhuimanmanbianruan。zhongjiu，shenaiderenzhongjian，hennanzuodaoguijiduoduan。yikanjianqidai，huiguotoujiushiyijianziranerrandeshiqing。

　　提供稳定的物质条件

　　“jingjinengli，wuzhijuedingjianzhu。”fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，tigongwendingdewuzhishenghuoyeshifeichangzhongyaode。nanrenjiuyinggaiyibianqinfenwanliu，huirangnvrenjiandaozijidegaibian;yibianyeyaogaoduzhongshigongzuozhong，danfuqiyingyoudezeren，baozhengqizihehaizikeyiyougenghaodewuzhitiaojian。neiyang，cainengjihunyinshenghuodelaogudaxiajianshidejichu。