男生谈恋爱久了真的会腻吗，如何保持新鲜感

 shishishang，nanrenhenvrenxiangchudeshijianhenzhang“ni”，shirenzhichangqing。danzhisuoyihuibianni，qishishiyourendeshenglijizhijuedingde。nanshengtanlianaijiulezhendehuinima？

 renmenzairelianqijianhuifenmidaliangduobaan。duobaanhuizaiduanshijianneirangrengandaoxingfen。tongchangzaizheigeshihou，qinglvmenhuibiaoxianchuyizhongbukefengedezhuangtai。

 raner，rentiwufazhangqishiyingdaliangduobaandecunzai。kexuediaochafaxian，jingguo15geyuedelianrenjiaoliuhou，zheizhongduobaanhuizhujianxiajiang，zheiyeshuomingleyigewenti。lianaihenzhangshijianhou，nizhendehuijuedelei！

 jintiandenianqingrenzongshifenshouhelihun！weishenme？yinweiwomenzhengchuzaiyigelangmanzhuyishengxingdeshidai，xuduorenrenweirelianshiqijiushiaiqingdeyangzi。shishishang，congpingxin、relian、moheqihepingdanqidoushiaiqingbixujinglidejieduan。

neiwomengairuhebaochiaiqingdexinxianni？

 lvsetaimanle。shishishang，nidezhongdianshiruherangaibuyouni，dannidesudutaimanle。qianmiandejieshi，ruduobaan，shikongde，bushixingxiangde。womendeguanzhongshifumu。nanshengtanlianaijiulezhendehuinima？

第一，学会创造新鲜感

zhangshijiandeaiqingshenghuohuiquyupingdan，zheishibukenizhuandeguilv。suoyi，zaipingdandeshenghuozhong，ruhebaochixinxiangan？

 zuihaodebanfa，(zheijuhuayoushifeihua)jiushizaizhounianjinianrigaodianjingxihelangman。birulianggerendeshengri，yiqidezhounianjinianri...lianggerenkeyihuzengliwu，huxiangqingsuxinsheng，weipingdandeganqingshenghuo，zuoyidianwennuan。

第二，要保持自己独立的人格

 lianggexianghugulidedulirenshikeyipeibantamenduguoyusheng。aiqingzhongzuijihuideshimishiziwo，babicidangzuoshengmingzhongweiyideyifang。nikeyipeiyangyixiexingquheaihao，biruwudao、yuedu、xiezuohuojianshen。nengjinidailaikuailededongxizhidechangshihefazhan。niyuefuyou，tajiuyueaini；niyuewuliao，xiyinlijiuyuedi。

 nanshengtanlianaijiulezhendehuinima？dulidelinghunzongshisanfazhedutedemeili。ruguonimenbicixiangai，nimenyinggaiguliduifangbiandegenghao，erbushizhanyouduifang，jilingyibanshijiayali。