发生冷战怎么办？冷战怎么高情商处理

 lengzhanzenmegaoqingshangchuli？wulunshilianaizhongdelianrenhaishijiehunduoniandefufu，tamendoubukebimiandihuiweishenghuozhongdesuoshizhengchao。nvrenxihuandiediebuxiu，xiangbatamensuoyoudebumandouqingsuchulai，rangduifangzhidaotamenbingburongyi。danhenduoshihou，nanrenbuhuizheimerenwei，juedenvrenshibuhelide。

 weilejianshaobubiyaodemafan，tamenhuixuanzelengzhan，erbushihuxiangjiaotan。zainanrendexinli，tamenrenweizheishiyizhongjieshuzhengchaodefangshi，danzainvrendexinli，tamenhuirenweiduifangbuzaiaiwole?jieguo，meiyourenxiangting，meiyourenxiangting，danshishishang，nanrendelengzhanbunengjiejuerenhewenti，shenzhihuixueruotamendeganqing。

neimeyudaolengzhanshigaizenmeban?qingshanggaodenvrenyongyixiasanzhongfangfa，rangnanrenzhudongchengrencuowu!

1.转移注意力

 lianggerenganggangchaojia，bicidouhenshengqi。zaizheigeshihou，buyaohenanrenzhengchao。dangxuduonvrenyudaoshiqingshi，tamenxihuanhenanrenjiangdaoli，bingqiebixulijie。shishishang，wobuzhidaoshenmeshihouwoganggangchaojia。yinci，tawangwangbiandeyuelaiyuejilie。lianggerenhuiyuelaiyuehenduifang。youhenduonvrenxihuanchaojiahoushengmenqi，buxuanzejixuhenanrenjiuchan。

 zheimezhangdeshijianhuimiaoshuzheigewenti，bunengchulai。zaiheniyiqihuijiahou，diyijianshijiushizhuanyinidezhuyili。nikeyikaolvsheishicuode，sheishiduide，ranhoutinggequhuokandianshi，buyaorangzijiqingxuhua，xiangrangshiqingdedaoshidangdechuli，shouxianrangzijizou。lengjingxialaihou，lianggerenhuihaohaotantanzheijianshi。

2.嘴巴动一动

 lengzhanshiqidefuqi，”duibuqiyuanliangwo“wocainiyeshuobuchuzheizhongchengrencuowudehua。shuochulaijiuhaoxianghenbeiwei，diulelian。suoyizheigeshihoubufangyongyixieyoumodejuzilaijiejuezheizhongqingkuang。

 nikeyijiduifangfazheiyangdexinxi，biru”niqidewodeliandoubaile，xiexienijiulewodefuse”“hei，haihuozhe，jigemianzi，wanshangyiqichuqushaishaitaiyang。“”wojiniyigetaijie，yaobuyao?kuaixialai，ruguowobunengxialai，wozhinengzaishangyigetaijie。“。zheizhonghuajiyoumoyouweiwan，jijileduifangyigetaijierangtafangsongxialai，youbushimianzi。

3.不要给他做饭

 “renshitie，fanshigang，yidunfanbuchi，edehuang”woxiangxinhenduorendoutingshuoguozheijuhua。lengzhanjieshuhou，yixienvxingjixuweiduifangzuofan。shishishang，zheiyeshiyizhongtuoxiedefangshi。lengzhanzenmegaoqingshangchuli?youyulengzhanyeshiguyizuofan，haipaduifangele，zheiwuyihuirangduifangjuedezijihenzhongyao。youxienvrenbuweiduifangzuofan，guyiguaduandianhua，zhishizijichi：nibuxihuanlengzhanma?neiwojiubujinizuofanle。wobushimianfeibaomu。shishishang，zheiyijucuoyoushifeichangyouxiao。