婚后必知 正室击败第三者儿的7招

第一招——攻心计

hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating ?keyongdisanzheerleixing：ganqinggaoyuyiqiexingdisanzheer

 yushangle“jiangqinggan”dedisanzheer，qizizhiyoucaiyonggongxinfangshouzhanshu。zheizhaokanqilaijianyi，shishishangbixudashijian：ren!zheicisaishi，pindejiushishuodongzhiyiqing。xuduoqizi，shijianzhibaozhengyiban，qiangrenqiangrenjiuhuijinbuzhu，shijingerdachaodanaoyifan，naoguoyihouyoushijingerren，jieguoshijianquanfei。dangnibuyuanshudiaohunyinshenghuo，zheishihoujiuderangzishenchendezhuqi。

第二招——打攻坚战

keyongdisanzheerleixing：ruanruoyanggaoxingdisanzheer

 yanggaozairuhegouren，huanshiqizibawoshiquande。wuxujijiquchaikai，youyuyuechaizhanjieliyueqiang。yanggaoxingdisanzheeryibandouburongyitailianzhan。yaoshiqizishizhongbazheiyizhangdaxialai，shengsuanhuanshiyoude。kenengzainilaogonghaibudengtaquanshenertuideneishihou，xiaoyanggaozaoyiyouxiayigezongtimubiaole，zaoyiyanfanzheicijuerjijichechule。nibixudeshi，jiangtaigongdiaoyudechenzhelengjinghexixin。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?lianaihunyinshiyihuishima?

第三招——若即若离

keyongdisanzheerleixing：ruyanruwuxingdisanzheer

 yingyongcizhaodeqizixushifenxinxin。zaibawoledisanzheerdejichuzhuangkuangyihou，qiziyaozhijieledangdichuzhao。liruduilaogongshuo，niganjuedisanzheergentabijiaoshihe，niyaohetafenliyiduanshijian，huoxuyudaoyigemengzhongqingren，yinciqingtarangnihaoduogeyuedesuiyi，lingwaiyejitamenhaoduogeyuedesuiyi。(cizhaoyoufengxianxing，jiyong!wanyitamenzhenzaiyiqile，neizhiyouyinxiaoshida)

第四招——争锋相对

keyongdisanzheerleixing：changkuangtierenxingdisanzheer

 yushangchangkuangxingdisanzheer，qiziyidingyaolixing。yaolejie，disanzheerwangwangjijisipoliantiaozhanni，mudishixiangniyouxing，jinifahuo，huoxuyifahuojiuhuigenlaogongnao，tazheiyineishihoujiunenggoujiazhuang“tongqingdali”jitamenwenroudefuwei。

第五招——弹尽粮绝

keyongdisanzheerleixing：baijinzhuyixingdisanzheer

 yingduihuaxuewuzhixurongdebaijinzhuyidisanzheer，qizibixucaiyongdanjingliangjuefazhanzhanlve。jiarumeizixinxinnengguanhaolaogongxiaobiandexin，neima，guanhaotadeqianjiadoushihaode——zheidanshishanghainvdajiashidaixiangchuandeyufushu。liuyibayinxingcunzhehegezhonggeyangchuxukasuohao，feichangshigenxinshuiguanxideneizhangchuxuka，fangwudaikuanxufude，xiaohaidepeixunfeixujiaode……zaishijingerbajianongdeananwenwen。laogongdabufenxunsuchuitousangqididiaozhengxintai

第六招——学而不厌

keyongdisanzheerleixing：wanshanzhixingxingdisanzheer

 jiejuewanshanzhixingxingdisanzheerdeshizuidebanfajiushishuoxuexipeixun。tayazhizhixing，nihaikeyi!huoxu，zheiershuodexuexipeixunshishidang，bingbushijinisheqizishendebiaozhunheguandian，zhishiquzuoyixieyouyiyideshideshier，huoshijiushinibenlainenggouzuodegengqiangdeshier，zheizhongquanshinigenjuqinfennenggenggaide。

第七招—— 以直报怨

keyongdisanzheerleixing：zhiyeshashouxingdisanzheer

 jiejuejiazhongshashou1xingdisanzheerjiushishuoyao yizhibaoyuan，yiqirenzhidaohaizhiqirenzhishen。chuzhaoqianyaomotoutadedixi，jirantadezongtimubiaoshiquanfangweishengkai，qizihebuaojiaoyihui，jiangtadehulijingchouezuilianjiemichuqu，rangtayuanqiangqihuo，zhanqianguhou，daziranxinyouyuerlibuzu。(cizhaojiyong，deraorenchuqieraoren，shuaxinyanrendeshiqingganlezishenyeburongyikaixin)

 wenxintishi：jiarudisanzheershangmenfuwujinu，niyinerqidejixinfeng，buguyiqiezhaonanpengyouhuoshinanyounao，neimenijiuzhongzhaola!cike，ganwanyaorangzishenpingjingxialai，jinjijinji。lianaihunyinshiyihuishima?