夫妻缺乏安全感该怎么办

　　fuqiquefaanquangangaizenmeban，zaiwomendelianaiqianqi，woyizhirenweitaaiwobibushangwohenaitadaliang。wozhidaotacengjingshenaiguoyigenvhai，woyidukanletadezhaopian，jinbuzhubuzixinganjuezijibibushangtayouyi。danshi，tajiandingbuyideduiwoshuo，wojiushitalixianghuaheshiderenxuan，taxianghewoyiqirichangshenghuo。

　　jiehunhou，jinguanwozhuandebizijiduo，kewocongmeizaiwuzhicengmianganyu。dajiayigejiatingdequanbushouyijunyouwodezhangfuguanlifangfa。youshi，wogandaohenxingfukuaile，yinweitaduiyuwoshifentengxi，womenzijidehaiziyeshifenkeai。danshiouer，wonengbeiyizhongmeiyouanquanganlongzhaozhe，danyoutakendinghuiwaiyu，huozhetahuigengxihuanbiedenvren。wochangchanggandaobuan，danyouzuihoutabuzaiaiwo，shenzhijingchangzuoyixielingrenhaipadeemeng：mengdaotayubiedenvrenqinmi，duiwobuzhong;huoshimengdaowozaoshouqiya，ketaqueshierbujian，zheilingwogandaohenlengdanhejuewang。zheizhongemengjingchangjiangwojingxing，erwobuzhiweishenmehuijingchangzuozheiyangdemeng。

　　dangtahenwancaihuijiadeshihou，wohuihaipatashibushihebiedenvrenpengmian;youshihoutaditoukanshoujishangdeweixinhao、qq，woyehuiganjuezaodongbuan，xuyaoquchakan，danyoutahuixiangduiqitarenyiyangzaiwangluoshanggenbierenaimei，naizhiwaiyu;yeyoushi，wohuizhuyidaotashuohuashengyinhaoxiangyuzhongbutong，zheishihourangwoganjuedaozaodongbuan，ganjuetahebiedenvrenliaotianshifeichangkaixin，erhewozaiyiqiquebugaoxing、meishenmexingqu。wozhendehendanxin，gandaoshifenmeiyouanquangan。

　　hunyinliquefaanquangan，gaizenmebanni?

　　fuqiquefaanquangangaizenmeban，hunyinlimeiyouanquanganshiyizhongchangjiandeqingxutiyan，dankeyitongguoyixiefangshilaihuanjiezheileijiaolvqingxu，chuangjiangengjiankanghelaogudehunyinguanxi。xiamianshiyixietiyi，xiwangnenggoubangzhudaonijiejuehunyinlideguishugannanti：

　　1、hezuoshizhongyao：zuixian，yaohenidelaogongkaizhanzhenchengdejiaoliu。duitashuonideqingxuhedanxin，shitaguanzhunideneixinmaodunhemeiyouanquangan。youshi，fenxiangzheixieqingxunenggourangniganjuedaogengshibeilijieyuzhichi。

　　2、ziworentonggan：nitijinihaipazijibibushangtazhiqiandenvpengyou。yaozhidao，dajiameiyigerendoushiduyiwuerde，wuxuyutadeyiwangxiangbi。xiangxinzijishiyongjiazhi，xinrentaxuanzeleni，erqiejuedenishiyizuotadeairen。

　　3、lajinguanxi：jianliyuweihubaoyangzunzhongshihunyinlidezhongyao。jianxinnidelaogong，jianxintadechengnuohezhongcheng。bunengrangcaiyihehuaiyifushinimenzhijiandeguanxi。

　　4、ziwotisheng：nitiqinizhengdebizijiduo，keshiquewulunqian。changshizaijiatingjingjizhuangkuangcengmiangengweigongping，huozheshuohetatantaoyouguanhuijijuece。zheiyangkeyirangniganjuedaogengjucaozongganheanquangan。

　　5、xunqiuzhuanyexiezhu：jiarunidebuanyanzhongyingxiangdaonideshenghuopinzhi，huoyijingzhuanbianchengyiyuzhengzhuang，kaolvdaozixunzhuanyexinlizixunhuoxinlizixunshi。tamennenggoubangzhunijiejuezheixieqingxu，tongshitigongjutidetiyiyujiqiaolaigaishannideguishugan。

　　6、ziwoguanhuai：huafeishijianguanxinzijideshentijiankang。duanlian、kexueyinshi、shejiaoxingheaihaodounenggoutishengzixinxinheqingxukekaoxing，congerjianqingjiaolvqingxu。

　　7、hunyinshenghuojibenjianshe：xunzhaofuqiganqingdejibenjianshe，yitongcanjiahunyinfudaohuohunyinshenghuoyizhiyeshiyigebucuodexuanze。zheinenggoubangzhudajiagenghaodilejielingyifang，gaijingoutongjiaoliu，tigaobicizhijianderentongheqingganlianxi。

　　zuizhuyaodeshi，yaoqingchumeiduanhunyinzongyaojingligezhongtiaozhan，baohanqingxumeiyouanquangan。zuizhongyaodeshiyaogongtongfendou，chuangjianlaogudeqianti，suzaoxianghuzhijianderenkeyulijie。tongguoyishangdefangshi，ninengzhujianjianqingmeiyouanquangan，rangnimendehunyingengxingfuzhangqiwending。