夫妻的安全感是怎么给的

　　fuqideanquanganshizenmejide，mangmangrenhaizhong，zaiyiwanrenzhong，nengyujianxiangzhixiangaiderenyeshixingyun，danxiangairongyixiangshounan，buruhunyindiantangdaoxiangbanyisheng，kendinghuiyudaogezhonggeyangdewenti，neichangjiandeshimeiyouanquangan，zenyangjiyubicizhijianguishugan，jiangdikuzao，kuzaofawei，wujiehebuxinren，womenxuyaocongzheijigefangmianxiashou。

　　一、爱情和别的爱情的差别

　　fuqideanquanganshizenmejide，zhongsuozhouzhiganqingyouyidingdezhuanyouquanhejiexianxing，taheqitaaiqingbuyiyang，ruguotashiyuyouyi，fajuedaoganqing，zuizhongyanshenzhizhenqing。womenhenshaoyouyuyigemoshengrenhuoshibushuderennaopiqi，quehuiduiaideren“xiaodujichang”duijiating“shifangziji”，zhuyaoshiyinweidajiacongxinlijuede，lingyifanggenbierenzaizishenxinzhongdeweizhibuyiyang，shijishangyiqiedeaiqingdouyaoweihuheguanli，yuefahaodeguanxi，yueshiyaodajiagengjiayongxinqushouhu。

　　二、确立另一方没有安全感的缘故

　　zhengyinweiaiqingyouyidingdezhuanyouquan，shichanghuirangshuangfangyoumeiyouanquangandezhuyaobiaoxian。changjiandejiushifapiqi、jingchangdadianhuachagang、yanjinyuyixingjiechudeng。shouxianniyaoquelilingyifangmeiyouanquangandeyuangu。

　　diyizhong：yixingguoduo，nengrangduifangquefaanquangan。

　　woyizhirenweinanrennvrendoushimeiyouchunjieyouyideren，chufeishizijixihuandebingbushiyixingpengyou。renjijiaowangfangmianwomenwufabimianyuyixingzaochengrenjijiaowang。sheiyemeiyouzixinshuojueduibuhuirijiushengai，lingyifangzaixinlaihennanbaozhenglingyifangyebuhuiyouniantou，jiaruzaimougekexindongleni?

　　neimeqinglakaijuli，zhangwofencunjiangyuanzezongheyixingpengyouxiangchu，nengzhengchangdegoutong，bieshuoguodusimidehuatitaolun，tebieshizaibubishuotalianrendebingbushi，dujifapiqibingfeilingyifangxiaojiaziqi，fanershiyuezaiyideren，jiuyuerongyibiaoxianchulezheileiyishenyiguiqingxulai，yincifapiqidujiyeyouyanjinheyixingjiechu，bingbushilingyifangmeiyouxinrenzijidewenti。

　　dierzhong：jingchangdadianhuachagangyinweibierenzhaobudaoni

　　juhuideshihoudajiahuifaxianhenduopengyoudeairentongdianhuajibici，wenzainaerjidianhuijiadeng。qishibingbushiduifangyaoxiandingnideyiqie，fanershiyinweibierenjingchanglianxibushang，buqingchunizainali，shenmeshihouhuijia，buqingchuyongbuyongdengzheni，nishifouhuihezuijiu，shifouyouanquanfengxian。meirenxihuanbeiguanjiao，danzuoweichengnianren，qingzhudongjiduifangshangbaoniricheng，bubinengrangduifanghaipanideanquan，bubixiangyigebieren，duinideshiyiwusuozhi。