女人想要婚姻幸福快乐,务必摆脱的9大恶习

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?幸福的女人谁都想干，仅仅一些坎确是阻拦你变成幸福快乐大咖的阻碍，该怎样绕开他们呢?看下边的分解掉：

第一道坎 听之任之

 nvrenzuifeichangrongyitingzhirenzhi。tebieshizaizaimaidongxideneishihou，xuduonvrenshenhuanyizhongchengwei“maidongxipi”dexintaibing，youmuyouyongdoumai，gaoxingbugaoxingdeneishihoudoumai，fuyoumeiyouqiandeneishihouyedoumai。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?

 chenjiaqi，25sui，qiyeshangbanzu，shisuzaibabamamajia，yigeyuexin、jixiaojiangjinjiazaiyiqizhishaoyou7000kuaiqian，danshi，jiuyouyumaidongxichengpi，gongzuozhong3nian，meishenmeshengchijianyong，bingqietouzhikashanghaiyipiguzhai。

 jiaqikandaoquandouwoxiangmai，maihuiqubuyidingchuan、kanbudaoyong，jinjinkanjianjiukaixin。suyushuo，xiaoburenzeluandamou。yijiaqiweili，jiarukeyiyigeyueshengyu3000yuan，yinianjiushishuo36000yuan，3nianjiushishuo108000yuan，jibianbuzuoyiqiexiangmutouziyekeyimaiyiliangchele!

第二道坎 耳朵里面根子软

 yaoguohaorizi，qiewuerduolimiangenziruan，zaidaxingshangchangjingbukeyingyeyuanxiaomeidequan，zaiqiyejingbuzhupengyouqipian，zaichexiangongsiyoushoubulebaoxianyuandexiaozhiyili，qishishitarendayingde，jiuganjuehao，tashibuhaode。

 guojirima，jingjifazhanshijiben，quelijingjijichufensanbu，zhengqian、zhuanlinghuaqianhexiangmutouzi。erduolimiangenziruanjiuzanxiabuquqian，erduolimiangenziruangengjuebuqiadangxiangmutouzi，meihaodeshenghuojiujingshicongnalierlaideni?ya。

第三道坎 太过依靠

好妻子落伍啦!

 xiaominshizhengerbajinggaoxiaodegaocaisheng，benlaidaxuebiyeyihouyouxuduofengaoxinzhiyekedaitatiaoxuan，jiushishuoyouyuzishenchuleqiniandenanyouajiandaobeijingshilaizhaogegongzuole，xiaominjiuganjuezishenyingdangzuotadelaokao zhuxingu，youyu，zaitalaikannvrenjiushishuoyingdangzhunei，nanshengjiushishuoyingdangzhuwai，ertarujindeguanjiangongzuozhongjiushishuojianrongajianzaijingzizhuchuangye。

 yinci，xiaominhuijuelequanbuqiyedeyaoyue，zhuanxinzhizhijialixueqilejia tingjiatingfunv，yitiandaowanzuozheqipingfuguidehaomeng。zuichu，ajiangengweixiaomindetiaoxuanerdadong，meirixiabanlehuijiadoupeixiaominquliuda、xianliao。zhihou，bansuizheajianzhiweiyueganyuegao，huijialedeshijianyeyulaiyu wanle，hexiaominzhongjianyeshixiaoyoulaohua，zongsuan，ajianzoulexiaomin……

 xiaominzishizhizhongbulejie，benlaishiajianfashengbianhuaxin，weihefenshouneitiantayeyaoshuo，youyuxiaominbingbushiyiqiandexiaominle。shijishang，ajianduile，taiguodeyikao，rangxiaominbiandemeiyouzhihuixinghereqing，neiyangdenvrenbutaikenengbawonanrenxin，yiyangbutaikenengyouzhexingfukuailemeihaodeshenghuo。

第四道坎 鼠目寸光

 nanshengzongxiaishuo，nvrentoufazhangjianshiduan，nvrenzuibuxiangtingdejiushishuozheihua，buxingdeshi，jinguanxianzaidenvshengxiufanenggouyuejianduanxie，cunshangyinianzhuanweianshi，yeburongyisuibiantiaoxuanquchaogupiao、touzijijin。huoxu，jiarushizaimaixiezihemaijijinzhongjiantiaoxuan，kenengjianghuiyoudaliangdenvrentiaoxuanmaixiezihaokanyixia!

第五道坎 占便宜

dianjiadezhekougerenxingweiduinvtongzhimenyongyouzhimingdexiyinli，youyu，zhanbianyishinvrendemeixing。

 guqiebushuo，tanjianmaiqiongguangdanzheiyidadaoli，queshuozheizhongdazheshangpinzishen ，shijishang，doushifeichangshaonengbaochiwumeijialiandegongnengde。

 shexiang，renmenyouruhejianghuicongmingguodianjiani?bierenruhejianghuizuokuibenshengyini?renmenyishitanxiaobianyimaihuiqudewupin，henshaoshidangji、shishangchaoliude，chuanshangbukeyitigaorenmendeqichang，gezaiyijulijueduishishechilangfei。

第六道坎 一山看见一山高

dujidoushinvrenyushengjulaidezhimingxingbuliangxiguan。

yizhikanjiantarendeshiriguodebizishenhao，neiyangdeshenghuoburongyikaixin，gengweiburongyixingfukuaile。

 anshuozhaoqiandeshenghuoshizuigaixuduotongnianlingrenxianmujidude，huiyouchekai、youfangzhu、babamamashenxinjiankang、nanpengyouqinfen，danshi，taqueganjuezishendeshenghuoyituanzao，yuangushitayizhinazishendequedianquhetarendeyoudianjiaojing，kandaotongxuemenduyanle，tahuiyihuoweihezishenbineigenvrenkeku，keshizishenquebucengzaicinianshu;kandaobierenyaoshenghaizile，tahuibaoyuannanyoubuzuaita，weihebuhewowanhun，buxutayedangmuqin……neiyangdeshenghuobenzhimeishenmepinzhikexun。

 fanguolai，rongrongqueqiahaofanguolai，zishenyoudetarenmeiyou，takaixin，zishenmeiyoudetarenyou，tabuyaokandoububi，guozishendeshenghuo，zuohaozijideshi，tarenyurenmenyounaxieguanlianni?

第七道坎 装作“小女人”

 congwucetiangangkaishi，jiujinvrenganlegehuaikaimo!wanyizixiaomeinaxia“wenroutitie”dexiguanxing，jiashangzhangdahou，beiyixiebudaosiliudehundanjiaojisheng“zhichangnvren”，likejiuzhaobuzhebeile。 wulunhesheiyongcandoudetajiesuan，xiaonvrenma!wulunhesheibanshidoubukeyijienaxiezhu，xiaonvrenma!wulunnanyousongliwusongshenme，doudehuiyigetongzhi，huoshigengguide，xiaonvrenma!

 zheishijishangshimeihaodeshenghuodejihui，nvrenjiushishuonvren，gaijienadeneishihouyaojiena，gaijunfendeneishihouyaojunfen，“xiaonvren”xintaizhuangtaihuirangnvrenshenxinpibei，huaxuewuzhishang、jingqishenshangmianmeibanfazuodaozhenpinshenghuodeshuiping。

第八道坎 抠门儿

 penyoushikaixindeyuandongli，doushicaifudezaizaozhe，bumingbaiweichipenyou，koumenshijian，yekoumenqiancai，yitiandaowanzhilejieweizhunanyouzhuandenvren，dangbushangdaqihou，yeguobushangmeihaodeshenghuo。youyu，tazaiwuxingzhizhongweizijiganletong，tongshangshuanlegensheng，shengzibangzailulushang，zishenzuozheyetongli，suihou，yifangshou，liantongdaizishenyibingdiurulejingli，jinglideqingwajiaochudatianerlai，yejiushishuoyijugua guagua……hainengfengfuduocaidaonaerqu?

第九道坎 寅吃卯粮

 touzhikashigehaochanpin，benlaishiyibianhelianpaijinrongjigouzaibixudeneishihoutigaozishendexiaofeili，keshi，zhenduiyixienvtongzhieryan，tajiushishuoyigequantao、yidaokan，rangtamengangkaishiguoshanghaorizirishenyirideyinchimaoliangdeshenghuo。neikezhenxiangbierengezhongchangdeneibaner，shi“xi”shuayixia、“xi”shuayixiaya——xiaijiushua!lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?