情感婚姻：女人 不要再那样结婚

情感婚姻 怎么过好?女人，要懂得爱护自身，高度重视婚姻生活。千万别由于下边这十三个理由而结婚，要不然，你不但失去幸福的婚姻生活，还会而为痛楚难熬。

 diyigecuowudejiehunliyou——jianggeyiqiu，weijiehunerjiehun。 zheixianeryijianshizuiyumeidecuowu。qingganhunyinzenmeguohao?fuqijianzenmehexiexiangchu?

 diergecuowudejiehunliyou——yibiantaochujiazhong。 tashinvshengguangfanhuifandedecuowu。yibianbaituobukaixindejia，huoshiduobiguanjiao，wujuwushu，nvshengchangchanghuijiejiehunlaizuodaomudi。shijishang，zheibenzhishiyizhongkonghuanshidejiadandu。

 disangecuowudejiehunliyou———fengernvzhiming。 ninengjuedeyayi，suiranbiyuncuoshineimebianjie，neiyangdelaogushichanshengdepinlvrengranhengao。suiranxinshiqidebanbenhaoshaoyoubuyiyang，nvshizaiweibinannvshuangfangjiehunzhiji，jinguanbiaodataganyuzuoweihunmama，danshirengshixinxiaopingjiujiu。weikongyuanyigupiaobeitaotarendexin，zishenyebeigupiaobeitaole。

 disigecuowudejiehunliyou———yibianweikangfumuzhiming。 wulunshifumujuedeernvtainianqingyeba，huanshijuedeernvtiaoxuandelianrenbushidu，doujianghuizaochengmingxiandeyanxuexintai。tebieshizaishijubeipannixingqingdebeigaofang，tongchanggenghuiyibiandikangerdikang。danshi，yaotishinideshi，zheiquejianghuishidikangfumurenweizuifengxianzuicaogaodeyici。

 diwugecuowudejiehunliyou———jiageyouqianren，zhaogefuren。 nvrenzhaozuojinshanlaikao，sheikeyishuobutaihaoni?yiqiexiangqiankan，suiranqiucaizhicai，weikongbiedecengmianbuyidingjixiangruyini。

 diliugecuowudejiehunliyou———zhiyibiantashishuainan。 junnanjingnvrenrendouai，rongmaodeshashangliwujianbucui。jinjinchukairongmao，biedebiyaotiaojiandoufuzhuqueru，kejiubianchengdabuxing，bingqie，biewangjirongmaodezhejiulvhengaoe。

 diqigecuowudejiehunliyou———yibianchongdong。 xinbuxinyouni，nanshigengfeichangrongyibianchengchongdongdeshouhairen。nanshengjingchangqudebingbushixinzhongzhongdezuixihuan，zhishiyongchongdonglaizhiyuetamendenvren。

 dibagecuowudejiehunliyou———youyuwojimo。 dangdairentianbupadibuhaipa，jiupajimo。nanrenhenvrenjiushizheiyangyinweijimoersichanxialaile。ningkezhengzhidasha，yejueshengyuguduyiren。

 dijiugecuowudejiehunliyou———xunzhaoguishugan。 guishuganzheiwupin，chukaizishenweiziji，tarenshijibushangde。xianggebanfa，yuanxianganxinrangnijiezhudejianbu，youbuganxinle，nikeyigaizenmeban?

 dishigecuowudejiehunliyou———kefudanshennannv。 henduonvrenhuanshibuganxiangxinwanhunhebuhunnenggoushiyizhongwanshandetiaoxuan。shenglishizhongdecuiyao、shehuifazhangongzuoyali、juzuodalingchanfudengyaosu，doushilingrenyibianbaituodanshennannvzhuangkuangerjiehun。zuihuangdandeshi，youyiweinvshigenwoshuo，jibianjiehunyigelibaijiuliyi，yefeiyaojieyicihunbuneng。

 dishiyigecuowudejiehunliyou———xiangdangxinniangzi。 taishengdongleba?danshi，queshiyouxuduoneiyangdehuangdannvren，bajiehundangzuozongyijiemu。caizhuangla、zhaoxiangla、yankela，budanhaowaner，bingqieyuanlexinniangzimeng。quebuzhidaoxuduorenzhidangleyirixiaogongzhu。

 dishiergecuowudejiehunliyou———lianqingwubijiehun。 shijishang，lianqingbuyidingyaojiehun。dangdairendeyishengchangyouxuduocidelianqingjiyu，xiangzhuchuanyiyang，meiyikedouyiyouqiwanmanhejinghua。

 dishisangecuowudejiehunliyou———youyunianji。 zhenshideaiqingshiburongyihuoxudenianjilaijuecenidexingfukuailede。jiaruyouyunianjimeiyouhaohaoditiaoxuanyiweinenggoushinizaishenghuo、gexinghua、neixinshanggecengmianqiehedelingyiban，bujiuyouzhuiluozaiwanmeideaiqingmuzanglilemeiyou?nihaiyaomeiriguozheifaweideshenghuo。neijinjinhuozailaoli，tashinvshengzuiyifandedecuowu。

dangniqueshineimaxiangjiehun，neihebukaolvdaocongxiabianzheihaoduogecengmiangangkaishikaolvdaoba。

 nantiyi：renmenyouxianghudeshenghuomubiaoma? dangniyijiehun20huo30nian，neijiushiyiduanhenzhangdeshijian。dajiafanganzenyangguozheiyiduanshijianni?yiqiyongcan，manpao?niwubiheta(ta)gongxianghenshengengjiayouyiyideshier，dajiawubiyouxianghudeshenghuomubiao。

 zaiyigehunyinshenghuoliyouerzhongqingkuanghuichansheng：dajianenggouyiqichengzhang，huoshifenbiechengcai。baifenzhiwushiderenshifenbiechengcaide，yaocushihunyinshenghuoqudechenggongniwubilejiezaishenghuodaodedixianshang，nikeyideshisha，suihoujia(huoqu)yigeheniyiyangderen。

 nantier：heta(ta)gongxiangjuedeyuguannianshi，ganjueanquanxingma? zheiyinantihedajiaguanliandezhiliangxiangguan，“ganjueanquanxing”hanyishishuonikeyituixinzhifudihezheiyirengoutongjiaoliu，youliangdegoutongjiaoliujibenshixinlai。duizishenchengxindian!mingquenikeyijiehundelingyibanshiniyizhizaiganqingshangganjuehenanquanxingde。

 nantisan：ta(ta)shigezuigaiqinpei，hentebiederenma? zheiyinantidehanyishi：ta(ta)shigegaoyaerganxingderenma?niruhejianceta(ta)ni? zheieryixietiyi：ta(ta)shibushiyiyibandejibenzuoweiziwofazhandefangshi ?ta(ta)shibushiyongxindigaijinzishen?xuduorendui“shanren”xialeyigejieding，neibianshimouyichanglizhengshangyoubingzuoqiadangdeshideren。

 yinciwenyiwennidelingyiban：ta(ta)zenyangyunyongta(ta)deshijian? dabufenzheishijieyouerzhongren：yizhongshizheyanyuziwofazhanderen，lingyizhongzeshixunzhaoshufushenghuoderen。neileijiangshufushenghuolieruzongtimubiaoderen，huibabenrendexiangyoubaifangzaidiyiwei。zaiyuta(ta)taruhongtanzhiqian，niwubiyaolejiezheidianer。

 nantisi：ta(ta)zenyangkandaibieren? tuidongrenjijiaowangzuiguanjiandeshijiyudegongzuonengli。shuobailedejiyu，shishibierenkaixindegongzuonengli。kanyixiazheiyirenshibushihenxiaijiyu?taduizheixiewuguanderenshiruhedeqingkuang?

 biru：shizhe，gonggongqichejiashiyuandeng。tazenyangkandaifumuhexiongmei?tamingbaiganxiema?jiarutaduinagejitamenquanbuwupinderenyebumingbaiganxie，bubiqidaitahuiganxieni。tahuibaguaerqieshuotarendeshuoxianhuama?huibaguaderenburongyishimingbailianrende，ninenghenmingquejiarutaduitarenbutaihao，duiniyeburongyihaode。

 nantiwu：jiehunhoushibushiqidaigenggaizheiyiren? youtaiduorenfanlezheiyicuowu，jiushishuoqidaizaijiehunhou“genggai”tadezhixiqinshu。nijianghuiqidaibierenzaijiehunhougenggai……jianghuihuiyuelaiyuegengcha，dangnimeifachedijienata(ta)rujindemoyang，jiuhaimeitiqianzhunbeihaoyaojiehun。xiaojieeryan，lianaijieduannikeyiyaoyongdiandanaobuyaoyongxiaodianxin。

 tiaoxuanlinghunbanlvbukeyijiweiaiweijiben，zheihuoxutingqilaibutaiqiadangdanzaiqizhongyounandongdedadaolicunyou。ai，bingbushijiehundeweiyijiben，danzheishiyigehaohunyinshenghuodejieguo：nibunengjinyongailaigoujianyigezhongshengdeguanlian，nibixudaliang。fuqijianzenmehexiexiangchu?