情感婚姻生活的“犯痒”时刻表

情感婚姻 怎么过好?婚姻是条爬满刺的七星瓢虫，在两人的人体上持续磨磨蹭蹭。与它互斗。输赢的标示是它先褪光了刺，还得先已过敏。1年，3年，7年，15年…… 让你一个七星瓢虫犯痒的时刻表，好使你在它冲过来的一刻，依然笑看风云。

·N<0：相处/探求期

yibianyouzhemeimanxingfudehunyin，shikebiaojueduiyingdangtizaodaojiehunqian，haohaodidiaochayixia，tashifounikeyidenage“ta”?qingganhunyinzenmeguohao?fuqijianzenmehexiexiangchu?

关键字：完婚心态 价值观 保持清醒

exingshijian：gaoxiaosong vs shenhuan　xiangyu3tianjishandianjiehundetonghuagushi，zongsuanzai3nianyihouchuanlailianggerentichufenshoudexinxi。yihougaoxiaosongduizheishifanyingbuzhangyang，rengweiyouyiqieyouguanlihunliyoudebiaoshu。gaoxiaosongshuo：“woliangxiangju7sui，lianqingzhineng3tian，dabufenjiuguishuyuganglejiejiulianqing，zaipojureqingdeneishihoujiuquleta。 ”

bingzheng：biciwufajiuhunyindeduofangmianyaosukaizhanchongzudegoutongziwodiaojie。1. wanhunxintai?weidiaochaqingxijiucongcuronghezaochengdejiehunhounantiyibanjiaonandiaohe。2. jiazhiguan、xingqing?shujudiaochabaogao，zaiquanbuzaochengliyideyouguanyaosuzhong，jiazhiguanchabieshizuibenzhideyuangu。3. hunyin、biciquanliyuyiwu?zhinengyiqiangganqing，tongchangduihunyinzhongyingfudezerenqianquebixukaolvdao。

chuxinzhao：dangniyutazhenglianaidenanfennanshe，xianlizhisanfenzhong，xiangqingxixialienjianshi：nizhangwotadejiatingqingkuangme?jiniwubawoyutadeqinrenhemujiaowang?nixiangxindajiajizhewanhundeyuanyintongyang?nikeyijiangchujileitacongxiaopeiyangdeshenghuofangshime?tamenzainide“kediaohe”fanweinei?

jinqi，yizhong“xingqinghunqianjiancha” yu、shanghaishi、guangzhoushi、zhengzhoushi、shenyangshi、wuxishidengdachengshiyingyunersheng。“xingqinghunqianjiancha”genjujishuzhuanyexintaiceyan，xiezhubicilejiezijidexinggetezhenghebicixingqingxiangfuxiangcheng、heyanshuiping，jinerdechuhemujiaowangdetiyi。zuoweihunqiantijiandetianbu，“xingqinghunqianjiancha”zaoshouhenduoguanxinhunyinpinzhidedajiadeguanxin。

·N=1：磨合

xinshoukaiche，douyaojianjiandi“moheqi”yizhenzi。modexiguanlingyifangdexiguanxing，zheiguotangcai“gulu”deqilai。

关键字：背景图 习惯性 互相融入

exingshijian：heyong vs yinlichuan　shangnian9yuewanhundeqian“moyansanjie”zhiyideheyonghedangdainvzuojiayinlichuanjinnianliyi，4yuehunyinwanbi。bicifanyingbuzhangyang，waibuguangfanrenweitamenquanshibuyihunyinderen，jianghuixunsujiufajuehunyinzongshijushubicideshouhejiao。

bingzheng：moheyibanhuizaibiaomianhuadeshenghuofangshishangchuxianmaodun：ruzuoxishijianbiao、shenghuoqijuxiguanxing、yinshidapeikouganshenqian、guizeyishizheixiejibenshangyiqieshenghuoguanjiandian，doubixuziwodiaojie“zhonghe”。

chuxinzhao：bujiuwanhundeliangren，shijishangyaoqinshenjingliyige“xiangaohaoroommate”dequanguocheng，jilianggerendezhuduoshenghuoxiaoguanjiandianzenyangmoheqi，kenbukenrongrulingyifang。zheiyudaxueqinshilibujiubanrudesheyouzhongjianyouleisidejiaowangjiqiao。jinjinduigaoxiaoshidesheyou，niyexunenggou “zhiruowangwen”，danduitaquezongyejinbuzhudiyuanyijiuzheng。nenggoutiqianzhunbeiyigejianjubicidexinbiaozhun，laizhonghelianggerendebuyiyangxiguanxing。

·N=3：分离出来期

男女“时差”

hunyinlaidao“fenlichulaiqi”，zaidewentishangbuheyan，doushizaochenghunyinlianghongdengdeyidahuoshou。nannvweirenchushifangfabuyiyang，zaochengxingganmirenguanchabie。nanshinenggoubaxuduoshifenerchuzhi，yincitajianghuishangyikehaiyaofahuo，xiayikehaiyaogenxifuwencun。erzheiqiahaojianghuigengrenaolelaopo。 nvxingshiganqingxiaodongwu，guiding“pixingheyi”，jiezouganjiaoweichihuan，“shicha”shiwubenzhi，yaodeshihuxianglijieerbingbushibaoyuan。

shehuijingjiyaoruanzhelu，hunyinhaiyaoruanzhelu。danglangqingqieyigangkaishiyingduifansushenghuo，bukejiuyaodeluomandikeshicongcigame over，huanshikeyizaicibachaimiyouyanjiangcuchadangzuoshizuilangmandeshi?

关键字：价值观 小事 沟通 义务

exingshijian：bulade·bite vs zhennifu·annisidun　meiguohaolaiwuzuijingdiande“tiansedizaodeyidui”tonghuagushizongsuanliekai。zhennifudechengzhanglichengchanshengbijiaoyanzhongmeiyouanquangandeganqingquedian，“xubuxuyaoxiaohai”demaodun，shenghuoguanniandechabiejiqianjilina·zhulideganyu，shitamenhunyinweijidejigeyuangu。

zhennifushuo：“xuduoneishihou，renmenhuiduixianghudegenggaiwufarongru”， “weiyideyuangushidajiadougenggaile，renmenkongzhibulezheileigenggai。keshidajiadoujinlejiaodaqinfenqurongrulingyifangdegenggai。”

bingzheng：1.zaimolianshencengcijiazhiguandeshijiexingshijianshangchuxianmaodun，fangdaganqingjianju，leisixintaizhuangtaishangde “liyiqi”。　2.jiangzaibabamamajiazhongzhongchanshengdeganqingmaodundaidaoxinjiazhong，jiumaodunzaiciweihaixinguanlian。

chuxinzhao：1.jiazhiguandiaohebingfeiyishidanjueduibixugoutong。 “jieshou”he“baorong”shibixudechulifangfa。2.zaibabamamajiazhongchanshengdexintaiweiji、qingganwentiyingxiangxintaizhuanjiaxunzhaoshujie，yifangweihaimuqianjiazhong。

·N=7：“七年之痒”

heheyoumingde“qinianzhiyang”，hunyindeqixingpiaochongzhibuguoshiqingqingdidouleyixia，jiehunqiniandeyiduibirenjiuqingkejiantubengwajie?hunyinzuiminganderuanzhuzainaer?shirenbuzhutarenhenhendideyikou，huanshichibuxiaozishenqingqingdideyifangshou?

关键字：多方面矛盾 爱慕虚荣 热情

exingshijian：《shizhijinkou》(dianshilianxuju1999)zhenshijiushishuo“qinianzhiyang”deguifanjiaocai。sheqigongzuozhuanxinzhizhijiazhongdelaopojiqibutailingqingdelaogong，goutonghegongtonghuatiyuelaiyuedi，lingyigenvrendeganyu，reqingbulvweijian，gongzuoheshejiaoshejiaoquanyouhenshaobingji，yibingtijiniyanqian，yizijingshi。

bingzheng：1.feichangrongyichuxianwaijienanti。biaocengshangtingbucuodanneibuzaoyiqianquereqing，waidirencijixingyincifeichangrongyitishenghunyin，chuxianhunwailian。2. duixiaohaijiaoxueliniandemaodundoushizaochengfuqifanmudemaodunzhongdian。3.shenghuozhongxindianbujunheng、butongyang，henshaogoutonghegoutongjiaoliu，lixinlide。fuqijianzenmehexiexiangchu?