如何打消孩子的攀比心态？

 “bierenjiahaizi”，yizhishijianghushangdeyigechuanshuo，shiguangdahaizimendegongdi，shizuishuxidemoshengren。womendefumucengjingzheiyangduidaiguowomen，erzaiwomenchengweilefumuzhihou，rengranyoubushaozaiyitongyangdefangshiduidaizijidehaizi，yushi“bierenjiadehaizi”shizhongyinhunbusan。zheiyangdelizifushijieshi。panbibujinhuifashengzaidarenshenshang，yehuifashengzaixuduohaizishenshang。aipanbixintaidehaizijiuhuishuo“tongxuechuanxianliangbanyundongxiezhenhaokan，mamaniyebangwomaiyishuangba”“niqizixingcheqianwanbiesongwoshangxue”……tingdaohaizishuoleisidehuayijiaipanbixintai，duiyuhaizidepanbixintaijiazhanggairuheyingduini？yiqilaikankanba。

一、不要跟孩子喊穷

 jiazhangzaixiaopengyoumianqianqianwanbuyaozhengtianhanqiong，zheiyanghenrongyihuiyingxiangxiaohaizidejiazhiguanyijiduiqianderenshi，yinggaicongzhengquedejiaoduqujixiaohaizizuoyindao。ruguorangxiaohaiziyishidaojialibushitaiyouqian，tamenjiuhuichanshengaipanbixintaihezibeidexintai，juedebibushangqitadetongxue。zheiduihaizijinhoudechengzhanghexinggeyangchengdoumeiyouhaochu，henyoukenenghaizijianglaijinruzhichang、burushehui，huiguoduzhongshiqiancailiyi。

二、父母要做好榜样

 jiazhangshihaizidelaoshi，fumudexingweiyijishuohuaxiguanhenrongyihuiyingxiangdaoxiaohaizi。ruguojiazhangjingchangzaixiaopengyoumianqianshuohuazongshisiwujidandetijiqiancaidezhongyaoxing，youyixiehaimeiyoudulisikaonenglidexiaopengyouhenkuaijiuhuizhaozhehuluhuabing。haizijiuxuehuijiandandizhongfuchengrendehua，mofangchengrendeyuqiqupingjiaziwohetaren。renmenchangshuo，fumushihaizidediyirenqimenglaoshi，fumudeyiyanyixing，haizidoukenengkanzaiyanlijizaixinli，duihaizixinggeheaipanbixintaidesuzaohepinzhidexingchengchanshengqianyimohuadeyingxiang。yinci，zuoweifumu，bixuxiaoxinzhuyizijidexingwei。

三、培养孩子的价值观

 peiyanghaizidejiazhiguan，ranghaizizhidaofumudexinshuihemeiyuezhichudebiaozhun。jihaizimaidongxishiyouhaizizijilaifuqian，rangtaxuehuijizhang，lejiezijidesuoquyufumudefuchu。lingwai，zuoweijiazhang，bunengduihaiziqianyibaishun、jiaoshengguanyang，buyaojihaiziyiqietaxiangyaodedongxi，zheiyanghenrongyiyangchengyouerguodudeyiziwoweizhongxindexintai，zaochenghaizidepanbixintaiguanxing。

四、正确引导孩子的方向

 jiazhanghaiyaozhuyihaizidejiaoyouquan，ruguohaizizhouweidetongbandouleyuxuexi，bingqiexianghujiaoliuxuexi，neimehaiziziranyehuiweilerongruqizhong，jinerzhuanxinxuexi。lingwai，jieshao，jiazhangyaoyindaohaizizaijijidefangmianyutarenjinxingbijiao，biruxuexi、pinxing、jinengdeng，haiyinggulihaiziyizhengdangfangshi，tongguogerennulilaichaoyuebieren。