女人只有该结婚的爱情 没有该结婚的年龄

 dajiayizhihaoqinvxing jiehun nianlingshiduoshao，nvxingfadingjiehunnianlingduoshao？danshiwoxiangshuodeshi，nvren，zhiyougaijiehundeaiqing，meiyougaijiehundenianling。dangranhaishiyaozuncongnvzifadingjiehunnianlingde，danshiwofaxianwoguodabufendenvxinghaoxiangdouyaobeiguihuaside。

 suoyijintianxiaobianbushixianggennimenshuonvxingfadingjiehunnianlinghuozheshinvxingjiehunnianlingdouhao，ershixianggendajiatantanzuoweinvxing，yinggaizenmequgenzheigeshehuihexiexiangchu，shiyingcongzheigeshehui，renjiashuoshenmeshishenme，haishigaiyouzijidesixiang？

一、从小我们被灌输着一种思想，那就是在相应的年纪要做相应的事

 20suidaxuebiye，chulaizhaofenwendingdegongzuo，25suijiuyidingyaotanlianai，nvzifadingjiehunnianlingdaole，30suizhiqianyidingyaojiehunshengzi，30suizhihoushiyejiuyaowendingxialai，xiangfujiaozi，zuogehaotaitai。

 meicitingdaozheiyangdeshuofashi，woxinlizhixiangwenyigewenti，pingshenme？pingshenmenvrendaole30jiuyidingyaowanchengjiehunshengzidemubiao，weishenme30suizhihoujiuyaoshishiwendingxialai，weishenmewo40suiderizi，jiubunengxiang20duosuineiyangziyoudihuozhe？shehuifuyunvxingdebiaoqiantaiduo，daoleyidingnianji，“gaolingshengnv”“shengdoushi”biaoqianhuajiezhongerzhi，pingshenmenanren30jiushiyizhihua，nvren30jiushidoufuzha？kexiao，nanquanshehuiyijingshiguoqushi，xianzaishi，shinvquanchengwang。

二、有句话叫做，宁愿高傲的单身，也不愿卑微的恋爱

 zuijingedaxinwentoutiaopinxian“zhangjingyingfengkelihun”ziyan，qishizaozaizhiqianzhangjingyingyanchanghuixianchangshangyanbihunfengkedeximashijiukandaolejinridejieju。

 nvren，nidisanxiasihaiyiweigandongquanshijiegandongta？aiqingliderenguozhendoushimangde，pangguanzhezaiqing，dangjuzhemi，qishizainifangxiashenduanweiquqiuquanqumoudesuoweixingfushi，zheiduanganqingyouxili，nijiushishujiale。kanguotaiduobingbuneimeaiquezaiyiqideaiqing，chuyushiheermengpengzhuangyiweineijiushizhenai，xiangaiyuwuguan，xiangshuyuxiguan，zuihoushujilesanguanhexianshi。

 shi，zenyangdoushiyibeizi，chaimiyouyanjiangcuchapingpingdandanshiyibeizi，zhengchaomanmaxingtongxushedeguorizishiyibeizi，dafengdalangfengyutongzhouyeshiyibeizi，nidexuanzejuedingniweilaideshenghuo。

三、走自己的路，迈自己的步，别人的好坏都只是参照物

huozaishehuizheigedajitizhong，womendabufenrendouzaiweibierenerhuo。

 kanbierendelianse，tingbierendexianyansuiyu，zaihubierendeyijian，xianmuzhebierendeshenghuo，zhuiqigenben，yizhiyilaidebuxingfushiyinweinizhuiqiudebushixingfu，ershibibierenxingfu。

 daoleshihundenianjimeiyoushihunderenxuan，aiyuzhoubianrenmendeyilunheqinpenghaoyoudecuicu，caocaolelv，suibianzhaogerenjiale，guniang，zheishiniyibeizidexingfua，niguanshenmebierenzenmexiang，jiehunguorizishizijideshi，dabufenrenzhishiguanxinnijiabujia，henshaoyourenguanxinnixingbuxingfu。

 huaruoshengkai，hudiezilai，youxieshizhendebubizhejigengbubiweiquqiuquan，niyaozuodeshibazijibianyouxiu，ranhouqudengdai，dengdaineigepeideshangnideyouxiuniyepeideshangtadeyouxiuderen，ranhoulianggerenzaiyiqi，nulifendou，quguolianggerenzijiderensheng。