youfuderenyeshiyongqingzuishenderen,yongzijidezhenzhideqingganduidaitaren,neishenmeshiyoufuzhirenni?tamenyoushenmetezhengni?
一、活在当下
shenmeshiyoufuzhirenni?cengguofanshuo:“jiwangbulian,dangxiabuza,weilaibuying。”
“jiwangbulian”,guoquledejiurangtaguoqu,wulunshiqingganshangdeaihenqingchou,haishiwuzhishangdekunkuxile,douwuxuniannianzaihuai,rangqiyingxiangxianzaidexinqinghexingwei,guoquledeyijingwufagaibian,yinkezaishenxinzhongdeyewuxukeyimoshahuobaoliu,quliusuiyi。
“weilaibuying”,wuxuweiweilaizuokeyideqipan,keyideqiqiu,yaolaidezongshihuilai,bulaideyingwukeying。
“dangxiabuza”,haohaotiyan、ganshoucishicikederenhewu,zuohaocishicikederenheshi,buyaozaizuoguyoupanzhong,cishicikeyouchengweile“jiwang”。
mihuoderenhuozaiguoqu,shewangderenhuozaiweilai,zhiyouqingchederenhuozaidangxia。guoqudewufawanliu,aitanyemeiyong,buruxuehuifangxia;weilaihaimeiyoulaidao,youwushukenengxing,wangqiuyemeiyouyong,tuzengfannao;huozaidangxia,caigengyoukenengchongshidiguohaomeiyitian。
dongdehuozaidangxiaderenshiyoufude,buyaotaixiangnianguoqu,yintahuijinidailaibeishang;buyaotaisikaoweilai,yintahuidaijinikongju;yongweixiaohuozaidangxia,tahuidailaixile。
二、知足常乐
kuailejiushikandanchenshidewuyu、fannao,zhizuchangle。renshengyichang,bierenyaohaozhaibieshu,wozhiyaofenghuaxueyue,chuiladanchang;huapengshideng,xiaozuoweizui;qinggeyiqu,cuchayibei,zideqile。
pinganshixing,zhizushifu,qingxinshilu,guayushishou。xuqiuyuexiao,ziyouyueduo;shehuayueshao,shushiyueduo。zuoyigejiandanderen,tashierwushi,buchenniyuhuanxiang,buquyongrenzirao。
renzhixinxiong,duoyuzezhai,guayuzekuan。ningkeqingpinzile,bukezhuofuduoyou。zhuzhaishushifangbianjiuxingle,hebifeiyaoloushanglouxia。xiapanxiangqi,dadapuke,yanghuaweiyu,shanlinzouzou,xiangshouziranzhimeibushihenhaoma?
shouenshenchuyixiantui,deyinongshibiankexiu。fanshiqiadaohaochu,renqingshiyongyicishaoyici,biezhiwangbierenhuiyongyuanduinihao,yongyuanqianjiuni!renbukenengyibeizifengguangwuxian、chunfengdeyi,shengshichangzuoshuaishixiang,shangchangdangnianxiachangshi!
shibukeshijin,fubukexiangjin,bianyibukezhanjin,congmingbukeyongjin。dedaoxinran,shiqububei;jibuwangqiu,yebujujue;laiqusuiyuan,ziranerran;deyijinhuan,shiyidanran;yuanlaiyuanqu,zhangkongbaiyun。
xiaokanfengyundan,zuokanyunqishi,buzhengjiushicibei,bubianjiushizhihui,buwenjiushiqingjing,bukanjiushizizai,yuanliangjiushijietuo,zhizujiushifangxia。
三、能动能静
“liushuibufu,hushubudu。”changliudeshuibufachou,changzhuandemenzhoubuzaochongzhu。renyinggaichongmanhuoli,jingchanghuodongjingu,xuehuixiangshoushenghuo,xiaiyiqiemeihaodeshiwu,zanmeibingxiangshoutamensuodailaidemeihao,erdangkunnanlailinshi,yongweixiaoqumiandui,yongzhihuiqujiejue。
“jingnengshenghui,ningjingzhiyuan。”jingshiduishisudechaotuo,shiduiminglidebingqi。zhiyouzuodaojing,cainengxujinganxian,huiyankantoushijie。renshengdezhenziwei,zhiyouchenjingderencainengpinchangdedao;shijiandeyiqieyuanyouheguisu,zhiyouchenjingderencainengkandetouchemingle;tianxiadeyiqiezhenqingshijing,zhiyouchenjingderencainengshuodezhenqie。
“jingruchuzi,dongrutuotu。”jinengpashanpanyan,yenengfenxiangdanqin;jinenghuihanruyu,paoqianpaohou;yenengxinruzhishui,xinbupangwu;jinengduanjushinei,zhengjinweizuo;yenenghuwaisaye,wantongjuzhi。renjiuyinggaiyouyizhong“yizhuangyixie,nengdongnengjing”debenshi。
gurenshuo:“nengdongnengjing,suoyizhangsheng。”dongyiyangxing,jingyiyangshen,xingshenjianyang,keyizhangsheng。nengdongnengjingderenyoujiankangdeshentihebaomandejingshen,shentihao,weikouhao,chimamaxiang,dangranshiyoufuderen。
四、悲天悯人
beitianminrenshibaoyide,danshibeihenduorenwuyiweishibianyide。tadeyisishijingchanggantanshenghuodejiannan,lianminbierendedekutong。yinweishanliang,youbeiminqinghuaiderenhenmingan,shishangzongyouzaoyubuxingderen,neixiebuxinghuichupengdaotadexinling。
youbeitianminrenqinghuaiderenshiyoufude,yinweitadexinzhongchangcunshannian,yurenweishan,erweishanzhonghuiyouhaobao。beiminjiuxiangyitiaoshanliangdeheliu,chengqingzheyanludefengchen,tabuyidingjirendailaixingfu,yebuyidingjishi,danyidingyouguang,yidingbanzhegandong。erdangbeiminnenggoubuzhizhenduirenlei,yenengkuodadaohangaiyiqiewanwushengmingshi,cainengshanyaochuzuihuihongshensuiderenxingguanghui!
《caigentan》:“lujingzhaichu,liuyibuyurenxing;ziweinongde,jiansanfenrangrenchang,cishisheshiyijilefa。”zaixiazhaidexiaolushangxingzou,yaoliuyibudedifangrangbierenzou;yudaomeiweikekoudeshiwu,yaoliuchusanfenrangjibierenchi。zijiguodebucuo,rangbierenyeguodequ;zijiyouhaochu,rangbierenyedexiehaochu。
beitianminrendeqinghuai,shiyizhongshanliang,shiyizhongrenxingdegaogui,tongshiyeshiyigerenlishenchushizuianquan、zuikuailedefangfa。
五、孝顺父母
“tangqianfumudarutian,xuzhiwanshanxiaoweixian。”yigerenlianhanxinrukubazijiyangdadefumudoubuai,zenmenengxiangxintahuiyouyikeganendexin;yigerenduifumudoumobuguanxin,hennanxiangxintahuiduibangzhubierenchongmanreqing。
gurenhaiyouyijuhua,“baishanxiaoweixian,lunxinbulunxing”,yongqingzuishenderenjiushishuo,pingjiayigerenshibushizhenzhengdexiaoshun,yaokantashizenmexiangde,kantadexiaoshunshibushifazineixinde,erbushikantazenmezuode。
yigebaiwanfuwengrangfumuzhuzuiguideyanglaoyuan,chuandeyifu,chidedongxi,queconglaibukanwangtamenyiyan,tasuozuodeyiqielixiaoshunhaichadeyuan;yigeqiongdejiebukaiguodeerzi,meitianyixinyiyizhaogunianlaodefumu,tadexiaoshundangzhiwukui。
erxiaoshunfumuderenshiyoufude,mengzishuo:“shisusuoweibuxiaozhewu,duoqisizhi,bugufumuzhiyang,yibuxiaoye;boyihaoyinjiu,bugufumuzhiyang,erbuxiaoye;haohuocai,siqizi,bugufumuzhiyang,sanbuxiaoye;congermuzhiyu,yiweifumulu,sibuxiaoye;haoyongdouhen,yiweifumu,wubuxiaoye。”
情感问题免费分析
加导师\/信
获导师一对一咨询
移动端官网
扫一扫
解锁更多情感秘籍
现在预约
shoucizixun,mianfeilingqu1ciqingganfenxi
*chengnuoziliaojinyongyuqingganfenxi,yangebaomi
© 2016 HuaZhen,Inc. All Rights Reserved. 花镇用户协议 移动版
粤公网安备 44010402002416号
zixunrexian: 020-32519581 guangzhouquegeshuzijiankangguanliyouxiangongsi