感情问题心态咨询：如何处理感情问题

 zainannvdeganqinglimian，bukenengzhiyoutianmi，suantiankulaxiandenggezhongziweidouhuiyoude。dangliangrenganqingchuleyixiewentishi，youderenxuanzeganqingwentizaixianzixundewangzhan，youderenjiubuzuowei，neijintianwomenjiuyiqikankanruhe chuliganqingwenti 。

一。靠近

 buyaozongshidengzheduifangzhudongrencuo，huozhezhudonghehaole，ouerde，niyezhudongyici。zhudongjiduifangmaifenliwu，zhudongbangduifangxixiyifu，zhudongbangduifangzuozuolisuonengjideshiqing，huozhe，zhudongkaojinduifang，rangduifangganzhidaonidechengxin，rangduifangganzhidaonideganqing，ziranjiuhuichangkaihuaibaoyingjienilou。

二、尝试沟通

 ganqingchuxianwenti，ruguobunenggouhenhaodegoutong，zheiyangdeganqingyaomesifenwulie，yaomeqianfuzhegengdadeyinhuan。suoyishuoqingyidingyaoxuehuigoutong，zhaozhungoutongdeshijian，yongduigoutongdefangshi，zainimenlianggerendounenggoujieshoudehuanjingxiajinxingyouxiaodegoutong，jiangwentishuochulai，lianggerengezifayanbiaodazijidexinsheng，ruciyilai，nahaiyoushenmeluanqibazaodemaodun？

三、学会理解

 zaichuxianganqingwentideshihou，bicideneizhongziwoguannianfeichangqianglie，yibanxiangdedoushi“woruheruhexinku”，“niruheruhexiangshou”，yushiwentiziranyuefayanzhong。xiangyaojiejuezheixieganqingwenti，nijiuyaoxuehuilijieduifang，zijizhanzaiduifangdejiaoduqukandaineixiewenti，kanyikanruguoshini，nihuizenmezuo。ruciyilai，nihuilijieduifangdeyixiexingwei，yejiubuzhiyuguoyuyuanhenyuzeguaiduifangle。

四、做好约定

 chuxianganqingwentideshihou，xiangjinyiqiebanfajiejue，jiejuehaodezhihou，zhaogeqiadangdeshiji，heduifangzuogeyueding，biruxiacizaichuxianwentideshihou，lianggerenbuyaoduqi，buyaosheiyebulishei，gengbunenglengzhandaodi，ershiyaomashanghehao，jiangwenti“cundang”，ranhoujixushenghuo，zhaogeanjingdehuanjing，bawentinachulaipingxinjingqidetaoluntaolun。ruciyilai，ganqingwentibudanhaojiejue，qiehaihuijianshaoganqingchuxianwentidepinlvni。