安全感怎么建立夫妻感情

　　anquanganzenmejianlifuqiganqing，anquanhunyinshenghuo=chongzuquebaocunhuodewuzhijichu+jubeixingfuganaiqinghudongjiaoliu+jubeiqidaiganjinhoudefazhan。zaizheisangeqiantixia，haiguidingbenrenjuyouwanshandeziworenshi。youyuhunyinjiushi2gechengren，congjiatingguanxibaituo，chuangsheguishuyuzijitesedejiatingdeshi。ruguobunengquebaozijixinlizhuangtaichengnianren，neiyangsangejibenjishizaidadao，yejinjinzhishiyizhaotarenqidaidehuoshidoushibierendehunyinshenghuomoban，jianleyigexubaodeneizaiyouleyuanbale。

　　01.chengshudexinzhishichuangsheanquanxinghunyinshenghuodexinlijichu

　　xianshizhong，youyusixiangbuchengshuerdaozhidehunyinmaodunshubushengshu。liru：juyingnan，mabaonv，qingchunfayuqineizhiwaiyu，qusuanjishihunyinshenghuo，kaifangshihunyin，dabanguorizideng。gezhongwenti，kanshangquzhishiyinweiduifangnanti，dantongyangtouyingchulezijisiwei。youyuxinzhichengshuderen，buhuikaolvyigesixiangbuchengshuderenzuoairen，sanguanjiuburongyihehu。

　　neixinzhichengshuderenhesixiangbuchengshuderenyoushenmebutong?

　　xinzhichengshuderen，henqingchudezhidaozijixiangyaoshenme，yezhidaoyaoxianghuodeshenmeyewubifukuanxiangduiyingchengben。duibidedao，xinzhichengshuderen，gengqingxiyizhishixianshidechangtai。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，xinzhichengshuderengaoqingchuzhengtiliyichaoguogerenliyi，genggaoguodubenshentihui。yucitongshi，xinzhichengshuderen，lejiezongjiejingyanbisichuluandaoxiaojitihuigengweizhongyao。yijuhuaxingrong：“xinzhichengshuderen，dazaozijiwanshandeshehuijingyan，huiyouqingxibianbiezijiyuxianshishenghuodeguanlian，keyongzuiguanyongzuiyouliyuzhengtiliyidejiejuefanganjiejuehunlianwenti。”

　　anquanganzenmejianlifuqiganqing，ersixiangbuchengshuderen，tamenderenshengtaidurenshengguanshilaiziyubierendemoban。babamamashuoworuhehuixingfu，neimetamenhaishianzhaobamashuodefangshiquzuo。tarenruhezuoyingdeletamenqidaidexingfukuaile，tamenyejiuyizhaoqitarenbiaozhunquanpaizijiderichangshenghuo。dandangyizhaotarendefangshihuoqubushangzishenxingfudeshihou，tamenbianyituixiezerendexintai，baguotuijianjitaren，tuijianjihezuozhe。qiancuowancuo，fanzhengtameiyoucuo。pobudeyishi，jiudaizhedixiatouqidaodexintaiweihubaoyangmuqianquanyi，dancongburongyiyouchengzhangziwogaibianderenshi。yijuhuaxingrong：“wozhidaozijibuyaoshenme，keshiwobuzhidaoxuyaoshenme。”

　　sixiangbuchengshurenzaijingyingaiqingshi，youzhebijiaoyanzhongdejiaolvqingxuhewuzhugan。bingqieyehuijingchangzhaobuzhejiejuewentimubiaohefangshi，yinweitamencongbukaolvshibushizishenlijiedenanti。hesixiangbuchengshuderenzaiyiqi，nihuiganjuedaoheyigejianpanxia，heyigebukeliyuderengongchuyiyang。erzishensixiangbuchengshu，haihuishenxianwuqiongdetongchukunju，hunyinlichangjiandeshilibukeyouhaobule。

　　02.huaxuewuzhinengjiejuerichangshenghuo99%wenti

　　qishidabufenhunlianwentidehexinyuanyin，jiushiqizhongyigerenduiyuxianjieduandewuzhitiaojianbuhuizairentong。youyushenghuozheshuzijingjishidai，juedabufennantidounengtongguoqianchuli，rendesixiangluojixingfangshiyeshijinjinjijiaobenrenliyideyushi。

　　erzaihunyinli，youxieshihouhuiyinjinqianguanniandechayi，yinqiwuxiandiejiadebuhaotihui。liru：ruguoyigenanrenranglaoposhengqile，zuizhijiedefangfashidaizhelaopoqufengkuanggouwu，huozhetiaoxuanyigehehuxifushenmeiguanniandeshengriliwusongxifu。eryigenvhaizizenmenenggoujiyunanshengbijiaohaodeganshouni?shinimenjingjifazhanchongzu，niburongyixiandingnanrenqudenghongjiulv。zheiyiqie，hexinbianshi：nengtongguojingjifazhanwanchengganqinglisuoxuyaodeganshoudequdai。