夫妻怎么才算有安全感

　　fuqizenmecaisuanyouanquangan，zaiyiduanqingganzhong，guishuganshihenzhongyaode。meiyouanquangankenengzaochengcaiji、jiaolvqingxuhebuxinren，jineryingxiangguanliandepinzhi。neiyang，zenyangtigaoqinmiguanxizhongdeguishuganni?

　　创建有效的沟通：

　　hezuoshichuangjianandingganzhongyao。shuangfangbixuxuehuitanchengdibiaodazijideganshouyuxuqiu，erqienaixinqingtinglingyifangdejianyihekanfa。tongguogoutong，shuangfangkeyigenghaodilejiebicizhijian，jiangdiwujiehecaiji。

　　aiqingtianmi-hunyinmeimanxinlizhuangtaidenglumima

　　保持独立与自我：

　　zaiqingganzhong，shuangfangyingdangbaochizhudanduyuziwo。zheijiuyiweizhexuyougerenxingquaihao、shejiaoquanzihegerenguihua。yimianguofenyilailingyifang，bimianyinfangzongzijierchuxiandebuan。

　　拉近关系：

　　fuqizenmecaisuanyouanquangan，zunzhongshiandingganjiben。shuangfangxuyaonulishixianchengxinyoushan，xinshounuoyan。yucitongshi，dexuehuijiduifangyidingdesimikongjian，buyaoguoduganyuhecaiji。

　　一起面对难题：

　　zaiqingganzhong，nanmianhuichuxiangezhonggeyangwentihetiaozhan。bicibixuxuehuiyiqimianduinanti，erfeihuxiangmaiyuanheduobi。genjuyitongchuliwenti，nengzengqiangbiciderenkeganheanquangan。

　　表述关怀：

　　guanaishichuangjianguishugandezhongyaoshouduan。shuangfangyingdangdongdebiaodaguanhuaiguanzhu，genjuguanzhutarendeshenghuo、gongzuoyujingshenxuqiu，nengrangduifangganshoudaozijidezhongyaoxinghexingfudeganjue。

　　jieshouduifangzishendequedian：

　　meigerenyoumeigerendequedianyubuzu，zaiqingganzhong，shuangfangyingdangxuehuimianduilingyifangzishendequedian。bubishitugaibianlingyifang，ershiyinggaizunzhongyulijieduifangdexinggexingweixiguan。

　　持续投入：

　　chuangjianguishuganxuyaoshuangfangdechixutouru。shuangfangyinggainuliweixiguanxi，yitongjinbuyuchengzhang。genjuyiqijinglihehuiyi，nengzengqiangbicizhijiandeqingganlianxiheguishugan。

　　zongeryanzhi，tishengqinmiguanxizhongdeguishuganxuyaoshuangfangdegongtongfendou。jianliyouxiaodegoutong、baochiduliyuziwo、lajinguanxi、yiqimianduinanti、biaoshuguanhuai、jieshouduifangzishendequedianhechixutouru，shuangfangkeyichuangjiangengjiawenguheyuanmandehunyinguanxi。xiwangzheigetiyiduidajiayousuobangzhu!