婚姻爱情实际上是两码事

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?还记得很早以前，以前在一本书上见到过一句话，说感情尽管只是是两个人中间的事儿，可是婚姻家庭工作，却不仅是关联到两个人的幸福快乐，在其中会涉及的，除开两个人本来的家中，也有衣食住行的各个方面。

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