揭密：结婚后男人最担心女人说哪些

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?恋情时，女人说得少，男人说得多，因此恋情就十分美好;婚后，女人说得多、男人说得少。女人易犯的不正确是只说自身想说得话，无论男人是不是想要听。恶语伤人言多必失，婚姻生活是种运营，你不要再只动嘴，不动脑筋。

害怕“有标准的”啪啪

 erbinsimo，zhenbianwencun，dangnidejiqingbeibuduanjiaqiangqilaizhihou，tahuranzhongzhipapa，quyuedishuoju：“laogong，wokanhaoleyigezuanshijiezhi……”gangbeigouqidegediaomengranhuaweiwuyou。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?

 dianping：qingchu，nvrenshizaiweixie，butongyi，papahaiyaohaogaowuyuan。zhishiyiliangci，nanrenhuoxuburongyiwangneixinqu。jiaruzongneiyang，mianbulerangnanrenhuiganjuetashiyizhongmaimai，hezhaoqingrenmeiyoushenmechabie。jiuzhi，nanrenhuiqueshipapadezijuexing，zaochengfuqishenghuosangshihemu。

讨厌无缘无故搬离“有多爱”

 wotaoyantashuodeyijuhuajiushishuo：“nibuaiwole!rujin，nibenzhibulicaiwodetihui!”wanhunzennengshuonian，nahainenggenlianqingshiqiyiyang，shikejiaowohongzheni，tayetaijiaoguileba!

 dianping：nanrenshilankongque，lianqingdeneishihouhuibianzhefaerjieping，laihuodenvrendechunxin;jielehunzuohaoledishoulongleweibu。ganqingyeba，reqingyehao，zheizhongwupinzaixingfuzongbukeyitidaiciwan、qiancaiyuzizun。yincitiandijuedabufennanrenchangyounuliqinjianchijiadeguannian，erqianquezaicidounvrenkaixindexixin。

害怕被骂软弱无能

 tabuzhidaozainalishounaxiecijixingle，yihuijialequeshuowotailaoshibajiao，burongyizhengqian，tadepengyouzhuanleshiduoshaoshiduoshao，doumaidiertaofangle，wodoushouzheyidiansixinshui，ebusi，chibufeide……kedangshitabujiushishuokanzhonglewotashima!

 dianping：jinanrenshifangjidagongzuoyali，tahuijuedehenbuzixin。nixianghulijieyixia，tahuifouxiangqilinjudelaopohaokan，tongxuemendelaopocongmingni?qianwanbiewangle，hunyinshenghuorengranshiyimenrenjiguanxixue，genlaogong，yiyangdebaochi“haoyuyijusandongnuan”dexiangchubiaozhun。

害怕“追悔莫及”

meiyicifahuo，tamashuangkuaile，zongmeiwangjijiayijuxiaojieci：“yaoshinisichanlandadechanzhewo，wojiuburongyijiani!

 dianping：nvrenchangduizishenlaogongyikusitiansidishuoneiyangdehua，yanxiazhiyishi，niyiweigenniwanhunjiugupiaobeitaowole，wosuishisuidinenggouzhange，yuanyishijingshilaogong，zuodaotahuitingcongzishendemudi，quebuzhidao，nvrenshuozheizhongshicongmingfanbeicongmingwu，jilingyifanghunyinshenghuojibenbulaodeyinxiang。

害怕疲惫时蛮不讲理漫骂

 laopohenjianbudebierenhaowoxianzhemeishi，“zhanmeizhanxiang，zuomeizuoxiang，jiubukeyibangzhudaorenglajima……”yaowoxiangjitadianwencundexinshenxiaochenshang。

 dianping：zheihuadeyixiazhiyitichupipingzishenlaogongtailan，shuozhenhua，nanrenzaiqiyebucilaoku，fanhuijiashichangjingpilijie，zhixiangtangzaibuyishafashangzishenshifangyaliyixia。niyaogengxingaizaolaogong，tichupipingzhiyinanengyouhaoshijixiaoguo?wenrouyidaocairangnanrenxiangyongni。

男人也爱糖衣炮弹

nvrenqipannanrendehuayanqiaoyu，quekoumenzanyangnanren。congjintiankaishi，kaolvtade“xurong”，baochitadenanrenpinpaixingxiang。

夸，猛夸。

 “qinaidede，nizhentiexin!”“yiqiezhengchangde，nineimeyourenyuanrenpin!”“haidezheileiyoujiazhongyishidenanrenzuikaopule。”……quanbukuatadehua，nanrendoushixiai，danqiantitiaojianwubishibukeyitahuitingchudaimingbufushidechengfen。

说，比不上做。

youshihou，buyidingbixunaxieyanyu，yigezhenxinshiyilingrenchenzuideeryoutianmanqingyidemuguangzuyi。

 dangyuyanxiangtongdeneishihou，xianghudouxiabuletaijiedeneishihou，haikeyijijiduoyidianshentiyuyanlaijiejuemaodun。lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?