冷眼观爱：已婚男人的泡妞“三板斧”

　　dangyigeqizifaxianzijilaogongchuguishi，tadexinliwanrubeiwuqingdijiandaohuapoyiban。bulunshibeifaxianledeshishizishen，huoshishenhouyinzangpanbianheshixinzhe，doujitadailailejidadetongkuxingshanghai。zheiyiwaiyudekeguanshishirangtajuedexiaochen、shiwangheshiwang，yucitongshiyeyinqileduihunyinhexinrendesisuo。tajinbuzhuyiduhuaiyicongqiandezhuduo，zhujiansikaohunyinzhongshibushiyounaxiezhongyaodeshibeihulvele。laogongchugui，wuyishiyigerangrentongkudeshiji，qizimodadeyongqiyingduihoujuedingzenyangjixuqianjin。

　　冲击性与痛苦

　　laogongchugui，rangqizixianruyichangcongweiyouguodechongjixingyutongkudangzhong。dangtadiyicihuozhizheiyilingrenchijingdekeguanshishishi，tongchexinfei，haoxiangzhenggeshijiebenghuaile。tajuedeshenshendishiwanghepanbian，yongyoudexinrencihouqianchuangbaikong。guoquzhongzhongnanwangdehuiyi，xianrujinbeipanbiandeyingzisuomimanzhe。

　　茫然与愧疚

　　qizizhujianmangran，tajiukaishisikaohunyinzhongshifoucunzaishenmezhongyaodeshulouyuhulve。kuijiuqingxuzhujianzaitaxinzhongdanxin，tajinbuzhuzhiyizijishibushizuodebugouhao，shibushiyounaxiezishendebuzuzaochenglezheiyiqiedechansheng。kunhuohekuijiurangqishenxinpibei，xianruwujinsikaoyuziwohuaiyizhong。

　　信任复建的挑战

　　zhangfudewaiyurangqiziduihunyinzhongdezhongyaoyinsuzhiyixingchengleshenshendicaiyi：xinren。zenyangfujianzheibeicuihuidexinren，bianchengqizisuomianlindeyidakaoyan。takaishikaolv，haiyoumeiyouyongqijixuxinrenta、jiyuduifangdiercijihui？xinrendegaizaoxuyaoyiduanshijianyunuli，jiqibicizhijiandetonglihezuo，rangtamenzaicigoujianqilingrenjingyadeqiaoliang。

　　自身探寻和成长

　　qiziwufahuibineixindejidatongkuhedanyou，tajiukaishizhenshiziwo，xunmineixindeningjingyuchengzhangdehaojihui。tamingbai，buguanquedingzenyang，benshendexinlingxiufufazhanshibukequeshaode。tongguozhuanyexinlishudaoheziwofansi，tarenshidaozijidejiazhiyunengliang，zhujianmaijingenghaodemingtian。

　　彻底改变婚姻和未来

　　zhangfudewaiyurangqizizhongxinsikaohunyindeshizhigenzijiduiweilaideqixu。tamingbai，zhenzhengyiyishangdehunyinbujinshijianlizaixinrenhezhongshideqiantixia，haiyaobicizhijiandezhencheng、goutongyuxianghuxinren。tajiukaishichedigaibiantaduiyuhunyindeqiwanghesixiang，weilenengzijideaiqingyuweilai，zuochulixingerdudingdequeding。

　　laogongchugui， wugexiangsidexiaobiaoti，suihoumoweiyijuhua。