冷眼观爱：一群人在一起时，觉得自己很沉默

　　helaogongdexiongdichuguilezenmeban，ruguofaxianzijidezhangfudexiongdihezijiwaiyushi，jingshencengmiandemaodunheyihuohuilingrenshouzuwucuo。mianduizheizhongjumian，womenyinggaijiandingbuyixinlibingyulingyibankaizhanzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu，yixunzhaoduice。yucitongshi，yeyaokaolvdaoquanbujiatingliyi。wuluntiaoxuannazhongfangshi，baochilixinghelizhidesikaocaishiguanjian，zhongjiu，weichijiatingwendinghemeihaocaishizhongyaode。

　　关怀与选择

　　helaogongdexiongdichuguilezenmeban，zaimianduizhangfudexiongdiwaiyudekunjingshi，womenyinggaichongfenkaolvaiqingdeguanhuaiyulizhidexuanze，xunzhaodaoyitiaozuishihezijixinliyujiatingquanyidelu。

　　理智思考和自我减轻

　　mianduizheiyitufaqingkuang，zuixianbaochilengjingsikao，hejieshouneixindexintai。zheiyinggaishiyiduantongchuerkunaodejieduan，danshiwomenbixujizijiyixieshijianhuanjiejiaolv，tanxunneixinshenchudejunheng。

　　交流和倾吐

　　zailizhisikaohou，hezijideairenjinxingyicizhenchenggoutongjiaoliushishifenzhongyaode。bulunshimianduimiangoutongjiaoliuhuoshiyingyuzuowen，douyaozhenchengdigongxiangzijidexiangfahedanxin。genjugoutongyuqingtu，nenggougenghaodilejieduifangguandianyudongyin，weiwentijiejuexunzhaogengduokenengdelujing。

　　寻找技术专业协助

　　jiaruzijibunengduziyirenjiejuemuqiandejiongjing，keyixuanzexunzhaojishuzhuanyexiezhu。hunyinzixunshihuoxinlizixunshinenggoutigongzhonglidexiangfaheewaishiyong，bangwomennenggougenghaodijiejuexintaitongshitigongjiejuewentitiyi。

　　衡量家庭与个人得失

　　zaizuochujueceyiqian，womenyinggaihengliangjiatingjigerenliyi。zheiyishijianzhenduijiatingpingwenhexingfuyongyoushenyuanyingxiang，yiner，womenyinggaishencengcisikaohepinggubuyiyangdexuanze，yixunzhaodaoduijiatingjigerenzuiyoulijiejuefangfa。

　　重新调整与重建信任

　　buguanzuizhongxuanzeledeluxianzenyang，douyaozhongxindiaozhengwomendeyishengyuweilai。zheijiangbaokuochedigaibianjiatingguanlian、zhongjianxinren、zhongxinjianlijiexianhebiaozhun。jingguonuliyushijian，womennengmanmanhuifujiatingwendinghemeihao。

　　自我提升与坚强面对

　　zheiyijiongjingyeshiyigejiyu，shiwomenfazhanchengweigengyouxiuheyouzixinderen。genjumianduikaoyan、jienashiqinghecongrongyingdui，womenyaocongzhongxuedaobingzhuangdaziji。buguanjieguoruhe，womendoukeyibiandegengqiangda，youzhegengjiamingquederenshengguihuahegengjiankangdeziworenshi。

　　期许祖国的未来和幸福

　　helaogongdexiongdichuguilezenmeban，suiranzaoyudaoletongkuyupanbian，danshiwomenbukesheqiduiweilaidexiwangyuxingfudezhuiqiu。buguanxuanyongnazhonglumian，zuihoudemudeshichuangjianyigejiankang、kuaileyurangrenmanyijiatingrichangshenghuo。womenzhideyongyouyifenzhenzhenzhengzhengxingfukuailedeguanlian，suiranlujianku，danshiwomenyidingnenggouxunzhaodaoxindeqidianheguishuyuzijideaiqing。