老师精选：吸引剪子男，最厉害的武器是拒绝

　　buduidelaogongchuguilezenmeban，dangjunduidelaogongyouwaiyu，qizimianlinyichangjidadekunrao。tawubimianduicuoluandeqingxuheyouyubudingjuece。zenyangchulizheizhongqingkuangchengtawubimianduideshiji。zheishi，taxuyaojingxinsikaobingzhidinglizhidexingwei，henyoukenengxuyaokaojiazhonghehaopengyoushiyong，lingtingjishuzhuanyejianyi，xunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhu。duanshijian，takenenggandaowulihenanguo，danzhujianmianduibingchulizheiyijiongjing，tajiangnengxuanzeshihezijidejiejuefangfa，xiufushenghuodepingheng。

　　不再信任的刺疼

　　buduidelaogongchuguilezenmeban，dangyigejunduidezhangfuchuguishi，qizinengbeipanbiandekuchusuoyingxiang。tacengxinlaizhangfu，danxianzaizheixinlaibeihuidiaole。zheileipanbianrangtajuedexinhan、shiwangheyoushang。tayexuxuehuisikaozishendewenti，zhiyizijishibushinalizuocuole。danshi，taxuyaogaoqingchuwaiyubingbushitadecuo，fanershizhangfudetiaoxuangerenxingwei。mianduizheizhongqingkuang，qizibixujiandingzijiguandian，ranhouzhaodaojiejuewentidefangshi。

　　面对现实生活的胆量

　　dangqizilejiezhangfuchuguizhihou，mianduishijimodadeyongqi。tawubijiandingdimianduishiqing，buhuibiwenti。zheijiuyiweizhemianduizhangfudechuguibinghetakaizhanzhenchengdeduitan。jiaoliushichuliwentidehexin。zaizheigejieduan，qizibixujiandingzijiyuanzedixian，bingbiaoshuzijidexiangfayuxuqiu。yucitongshi，tabixulingtingzhangfudemiaoshuheyijian，lejietadedongyin，bingqiezailizhideqingxingxiazuochujuece。

　　重新思考婚姻生活的重要前提

　　dangqizimianduizhangfuwaiyudekeguanshishishi，taxuyaozhongxinsikaohunyinshenghuodezhongyaoqianti。takendingsisuohunyinlidechengnuohefuwuchengnuoshibushihaikeyijianchixiaqu。zheijiuxuyaotashensishulvzijidexiangfaheweilaifazhan。tanengxunqiuhunyinfudaoshi、xinlixuezixunshihuohunyinguanxiquanweizhuanjiadezhichi，congergenghaodizhenglisiluhezuochujuece。zaizheigeguochengzhong，qizixuyaojianchizhenshixinlixiangsheng，bingqieweizijideaiqingkaolv。

　　寻求支持和疗愈

　　mianduizhangfuwaiyudetongku，qizibixuxunqiuzhichiheliaoyu。tadoukeyizhaodaojiarenpengyouqingtu，gongxiangtadeqingxuhetiaozhan。tamendedalizhichihelejiejiangbangzhutaduguojiannandeshike。yucitongshi，qizikeyikaolvxunqiujishuzhuanyexiezhu，ruxinlizixunshihuoqingganzhuanjia，tajiangjitajiyuxinlizhichihegaoxiaodeliaoyufangfa。liaoyudeyigeguochengxuyaoyiduanshijian，qizibixujieshouzijidexinqingbingtanxunneixinshenchudejunheng。

　　再次塑造自我

　　qizizaizhangfuchuguizhihou，bixujizijizaiciyingzaogerenxinxihesixiang。zaizheigeguochengzhong，tanengzhuixungerenxingquaihao，fazhanqushineizaiqianli，fujianxinxin。fujiangerenxinxijiangbangzhuqizixunzhaodulihewanqiangdexinlizhichengdian，buhuizaiqujueyuzhangfudechuxian。yucitongshi，qizihaikeyijiangbenciqinshenjinglizuoweiyigetuibiandejiyu，congzheidangzhongxiqujiaoxun，bianchenggengweiwanqianghedulidegeti。

　　确定未来方向

　　buduidelaogongchuguilezenmeban，zuihou，qizibixujuedingzijiweilaifangxiang。tanengyuanliangtazhangfuhouzhongxinlajinguanxi，danzheijiuxuyaolianggerenyiqinuliyufuwuchengnuo。tahaikeyixuanzeliquzheiyiduanbeishangdehunyinshenghuo，jizijitanxunxindexingfuhejihui。wuluntaxuanzeshenmeyangde，zuizhongyaodeshitanengqingxidilejiezijideyaoqiuhexinyuan，bingjizijijuecechengdan。zheishiyigejiankudequanguocheng，queyeweilezijiyuweilaierfendoudezhongyaoyibu。