冷眼观爱：如何在恋爱中提升自我？

　　zhinanrenchuguizuihendebanfa，dangzaoyunanrenchuguidexianxiang，zuimengdefangfashiyijuwaiyudegenbenyuanyinxiashouquzhiliao。zhuyaobaokuochulijiaoliuwenti、peiyangjiankangdeshenghuoqingganlianjie、tigaozizunxinheqinmiwujiandengfangmiandefangfa，jiqihelideanpaiheshijianguanli。genjuzheigefangfa，nenggouzuidaxiandudijianshaonanrenchuguidegailv，binggoujianqigengjiajiankang、laogudeganqingguanxi。zheixiejucuobudandanshiyizhinanrenchuguidebanfa，gengjiashigaoxiaodifangfanhechulihunyinwentidebanfa。zhiyouxianconggenyuanshangxiashou，caiyoukenengwanchengnanrenchuguidegenzhi。

　　诱发分析问题

　　创建对外开放沟通交流 提升了解阻碍

　　zhinanrenchuguizuihendebanfa，nanrenchuguidegenbenyuanyinzhiyishigoutongbudaowei，zaochengrenzhiwuqu。peiyangduiwaikaifanggoutongdeyiyi，xiezhunanrenlejieyonghudexuqiuheqinggan，bingzhichitamenbiaoshuxinlizhenshidexiangfa。genjujijiqingtingheyouxiaobiaoda，nengxiaochujiaoliuzhangai，jiazhongxianghuzhijiandelijieyuxinren。zheileikaifangshidejiaoliufangshiyouliyuchuangjianlaogudeqingganlianjie，jianshaonanrenchuguifengxian。

　　改正胎儿性别固有观念 推动公平关系

　　nanrenchuguidelingyigezhuyaoyuanyinshiduishehuijiaosedesibanyishi。pinghengdifendanjiawu、yaliyuzerenzhenduiweichiyizhonggongpingyujiankangdeairenguanxiyouweizhongyao。yaogaibianchuantongdeshehuijiaosejiagou，goujianqihuxiangzunzhonghegongpingdeguanxi。tuidongnanrenzairichangshenghuozhongshiyanjijizhudongderenwujiaose，henvxingyitongfendanjiawuheyangyuyiwu，qianquejiyuchumenhechupengyinyou。zheizhonggongpingairenguanxikeyidadajiangdinanrenchuguidefabingyuanyin。

　　培养信心

　　营造积极主动自尊心 温馨达到情感要求

　　nanrenchuguiyuxinxindeqianqueyoufeichangdadeguanxi。weilenengrangnanrenbikaiwaiyudeyinyou，bixutongguobangzhuqichuangjianjijizhudongzizunxinheziworenshi，rangtamenjuededadaoyuwennuan。jilinanrenfazhanqushigerenxingquaihao，peiyanggerenyoudianyuzixin，bingzairichangshenghuozhongjiyulijiehezhichi。dangnanrentihuidaoshenxinjiankangdadaohejiaoaoshi，tamengengnengdidangwaibuyinyou，weichiduilingyibandezhongshi。

　　提高情感亲密无间 提高两性关系成就感

　　nanrenchuguidelingyigezhuyaoyuanyinshiqingganqinmideguanxiqueshao。fuqijiandeqingganlianluozhenduiweichiwendinghemeimanhunyinguanxiyouweizhongyao。genjutigaoqingganqinmiwujian，tishengnannvzhijiandechengjiugan，nanrengengkeyiganshoudaoqinqingdewennuanhemeihao。peiyangfuqijiandeqinmiwujianguanxi，baohanyiqijinglihuodong、xianghufuchiyulijie、zhongshiaidebiaodafangshiheganjizhiqing。zheizhongqingganqinmiwujianyouliyunanrendidangwaibudeyinyou，weichishenxinjiankangdefufuguanxi。

　　helideanpaiheshijianguanli

　　制订优良整体规划 把握时间节奏感

　　nanrenchuguidezuihouyigezhuyaoyuanyinshiqianquehelideanpaiheshijianguanli。genjuhelideanpaiheshijianguanli，nanrenkeyigenghaodejunhenggongzuoyujiatingrichangshenghuo，jiangdiwaijieyouhuojiyu。zhidingqingchudeziwoguihua，fenpaishizhangyouxiao，weijiarenyubanlvkongchuchongzushijianhejingli。yucitongshi，peiyangnanrenzhengqueduidaigongzuoyujiatingdexintai，quelijiatingdezhongyaoxing，suzaoaixiyuweihuyigejiatingdeguannian。

　　zhinanrenchuguizuihendebanfa，zongdelaishuo，zhinanrenchuguidezuimengdefangfashiyigenbenyuanyinxiashou，chulijiaoliuwenti、peiyangjiankangdeshenghuoqingganlianjie、tigaozizunxinheqinmiwujiandengfangmiandefangfa，jiqihelideanpaiheshijianguanli。jinyoutongguozheigezonghexingduice，caikeyicongyuantoushangfangfanhequanyunanrenchuguiwenti，goujianqilaogu、jiankangdeshenghuoairenguanxi。